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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/8/2007 8:21:08 PM   
slaveluci


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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy
Thank you, once again, luci, for speaking so honestly and saying it like it is

Awwwww, you're welcome joy (blush).  I kinda can't help it sometimes............luci

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/8/2007 8:22:28 PM   
slaveluci


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Hmm, ok how 'bout my rocky road sistah?  

Yeah, now that's more like it..........luci

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/8/2007 10:29:23 PM   
ItzKat


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Status: offline 		Yup, I agree.  Just being another submissive does NOT make you my sister. 

And while we are on it.. what is with the 'yours in service' sign off some people use on their emails.  I recently worked a community event and one of the other coordinators signed all her emails that way.  She is not mine in anything... why would she do that?

Someone pass the chocolate...

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/8/2007 10:33:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		i have 3 sisters in this lifestyle that are not related by blood...but we belong to a leather family...sooooo...that might make a difference...

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/8/2007 11:08:32 PM   
michaels4evr


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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/8/2007 11:39:57 PM   
ownedgirlie


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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
You mean we're not pistachio sisters???? 

Well, for you, I might consider it, but frankly I don't care for pistachio.........luci


Hmm, ok how 'bout my rocky road sistah?  

Well personally, I think you all are a bunch of nut cones!!..((hug))....Tempting...
and off topic: great pic Bita!..


LOL well there's no denying that!  And you're saying you're not??

And yeah, Bita is hot isn't she?!

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/9/2007 7:57:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: XaviersXian

greetings AquaticSub,

you know, xian would have no idea *laughs*  You have her curious about it now, so she will ask Him and find out!

well wishes,


It's something that the villians say to each other in the movie. Always when talking about how Casey Ryback (Steven Seagal) is not dead until they see the body.

Yes... I admit it. I like the action movies. Does this make me part of an action movie sisterhood?

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/9/2007 12:30:20 PM   
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         But what are other's thoughts.   Is every submissive your sister?    


I consider all women my sisters... but that is just me

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/9/2007 12:41:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		It is all semantics...you can view it negatively or positively...up to you. I continue to view it positively. Much more important things to be upset about, frankly.

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/9/2007 6:09:28 PM   
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It is all semantics...you can view it negatively or positively...up to you. I continue to view it positively. Much more important things to be upset about, frankly.
    Frankly for me, my life is pretty near perfect and I must have something to be upset about once in a while or damn I wouldn't be human. 

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/9/2007 8:32:36 PM   
Michaelsangel


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I made the mistake of calling other subs my sistas. I got the smack down of my life. honestly, I find it sad. I thought I could find a sense of belonging here and support.

I have gotten neither.

Well, I do have my very own family and they are there for me. Other subs seems to want to rip my head of at the mention of a possible link.

live and learn.


i have no issues lending support, an ear, an opinion or whatever...i am all for that kind of thing. i personally just don't want someone to be overly familiar with me when they don't know me....to be conisdered my sister, you' d have to be very close to me...it would be like calling a man who is a Dominant, Master, Sir or Daddy when i don't know him....it is fake.....and those titles are earned....through a bond.

i can be a friend, and supportive and all of the rest, but it takes something special to consider someone a sister.



Agrees with daddyncherry.....i have biological sisters and there are a couple friends that i consider to be like sisters but it takes someone very special for me to even consider them more than friends

roses aka Michaelsangel

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/9/2007 8:40:22 PM   
Kellendra


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Status: offline 		I think partly due to being a woman...you often get lumped in with others..like... as we both have breasts we will be firm, life long friends... *yuck*
Sister is kind of up there with the word "panties" for me...it gives me the heebie geebies a wee bit.
Has one sister..and a submissive she is not.

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/9/2007 10:26:28 PM   
brightspot


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I have a few Sistah's, which BTW are not my siblings, and we all
came to that platue through trust and support.
But I would never call a perfect stranger a sister, because we have
a lifestyle in common, not even my lesbian lifestyle.
 
To me Sistahs and I have a deep connection and personal history.
 
Missy.
 
 

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/9/2007 10:34:00 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		Honestly when some waitress or clerk calls me honey or sweetie, I want to smack them.  I can't imagine someone assuming a familiar relationship that doesn't exist would be any better.

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/9/2007 10:35:04 PM   
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It is all semantics...you can view it negatively or positively...up to you. I continue to view it positively. Much more important things to be upset about, frankly.
    Frankly for me, my life is pretty near perfect and I must have something to be upset about once in a while or damn I wouldn't be human. 


Well, lucky for you that life is perfect. I just got laid off during a corporate restructuring last week, my father found out he has macular degeneration today, my sister in law has to have open heart surgery and a close family friend dropped dead at age 47.

But feel free to be upset about this topic!!

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/9/2007 10:46:33 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		Sorry sexyred1,  I would offer cliches like it will get better, but instead I guess I'll stick with, that sucks.  I hope it does get better and feel for ya.

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/10/2007 3:19:12 AM   
Squeakers


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

It is all semantics...you can view it negatively or positively...up to you. I continue to view it positively. Much more important things to be upset about, frankly.
    Frankly for me, my life is pretty near perfect and I must have something to be upset about once in a while or damn I wouldn't be human. 


Well, lucky for you that life is perfect. I just got laid off during a corporate restructuring last week, my father found out he has macular degeneration today, my sister in law has to have open heart surgery and a close family friend dropped dead at age 47.

But feel free to be upset about this topic!!
  Sexyred, I hope your difficult time passes quickly and my condolences on your loss.   But just so you know I was being a bit sarcastic as your comment to me was a bit sarcastic.   For me being called sister by someone on the internet is just as irritating as some Dom I do not know telling me to 'kneel bitch'.   It's presumptious for a Dom to feel he can order me about just as it is for some other submissive to assume that I am her sister or for that matter want to be her sister.   
    Now some may enjoy a strange Dom telling them to 'kneel bitch'.   Other's think it is entirely distasteful but that topic has already been covered.   I have yet until now to see this topic covered and I wanted others thoughts.  
    This is a forum is to help people learn.   Maybe one Dom out there has learned that saying 'kneel bitch' is not a proper greeting for every submissive and maybe some submissive might second thought calling everyone sister.   I think the majority so far finds it irritating to be called sister by a stranger.   Sometimes people need to let their voice be heard.     And sometimes people are not aware that they are irritating or annoying people unless they are told.   A person who has never been told that picking his nose in public is not only irritating but insanely gross will continue picking the boogers until someone speaks out or hands them a tissue.   And yes---I'd offer the tissue.

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/10/2007 5:28:53 AM   
kimba1


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Status: offline 		I agree with LuckyAlbatross and with many others. I loathe the presumption of any sort of relationship with me. Even people who know me well but presume familial relationships are treading on unsafe territory with me. I have one friend who insists on calling me her 'aunt', because she is a bit younger than me and i was also friends with her mother who was a bit older than me. grrrr, really makes me want to slap her! and i am certainly not anybody's 'sister' just because we happen to be of the same sex. I may have more in common with a male who is in my profession of a similar age and with a similar cultural background then with a female from another culture half-way around the world with a completely different background. okay, off to get more sugar. :-)

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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/10/2007 7:06:47 AM   
sakidorei


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Status: offline 		meh ... we are sisters of a -common- meaning, unique experience.  To me this does not imply relationship nor intimacy as much as a common bond that the 'nilla world just doesn't get.  In a way D/s or M/s does lend itself to a secret brotherhood/sisterhood of those who -get- it.  Just look at the thread about -coming out- to family and friends.  We exist in a limited subculture that is barely tolerated and generally misunderstood by the general public. 
 
In that way we share a common understanding or as some people say it ... bond.  Though we all are unique individuals with unique practices to our kink or relationships ... we do have a basic understanding or commonality that surpasss the 'nilla world.  It's from that context that i generally assume people are drawing when they use words like sister.  We come here and talk to each other because we share basic understandings about our lives, needs, choices, hopes and desires.  We certainly can't talk about it just anywhere. 
 
While on a personal level i do an inner cringe when someone i don't know uses the term or any derivative of it ... i don't correct them.  i find that usually they are warm, friendly people who are feeling a need to connect.  Often times they are younger than me and are wanting to affirm not an assumptive relationship with me personally but a shared understanding.  i am not likely to ever call someone sister except for those in our poly -family.  In that respect, i am lucky ... i am owned by the same Master as my best friend and she and i were best friends before M/s ever came into the picture.  She IS a sister to me. 
 
In the end though, there are more things to spend my time and energy on than worrying about a word or a term it doesn't harm me and a hundred other more important things come up in a day's time that need my real focus.
 
~saki
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RE: D/s sisterhood - 11/10/2007 8:24:41 AM   
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To me this does not imply relationship nor intimacy as much as a common bond that the 'nilla world just doesn't get. 

But there really isn't one.

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 In a way D/s or M/s does lend itself to a secret brotherhood/sisterhood of those who -get- it.  Just look at the thread about -coming out- to family and friends.  We exist in a limited subculture that is barely tolerated and generally misunderstood by the general public. 

So?  I should name you as a "sister" just because we both happened to have the same orientation which mainstream culture is disliking towards?

And that brings up another issue- until we start saying sisters/brothers consistently, it completely denies male subs and slaves their deserving place.

Kinda funny people want to show some common bond and yet are fine with ignoring all the males.

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we do have a basic understanding or commonality that surpasss the 'nilla world.  It's from that context that i generally assume people are drawing when they use words like sister.  We come here and talk to each other because we share basic understandings about our lives, needs, choices, hopes and desires.  We certainly can't talk about it just anywhere. 

Maybe YOU can't, but *I* do.  See, already we have different experiences.

Just look at the forums here and tell me subs have things in common?  Tell me that we have any more common bonds than ANY other group of people? 

 

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