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meticulousgirl -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 11:16:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kitttty quote: Dom: Okay, now You top me That wouldn't phase me although Bush is more likely to say that Iraq was a vicious and colossal mistake than my Dom is likely to say that. LOL so very true (mine too) in 100% agreement ~meticulous~

grumpieoldbitch -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 11:18:33 AM)
Fart directly at him when his face is near your pussy or butt and act like its normal and just smile.[:'(]

meticulousgirl -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 11:25:38 AM)
no in all honesty there's alot of things that could make it go bad The Dom not allowing the sub / slave to communicate their wants and needs, The Dom never allowing the sub / slave to forget and forgive themselves for mistakes made in the past The Dom saying that He's ready to settle down with one person and then going on to tell you that the person He settles down with wont be you............. nough said. ~meticulous~

oreogirl -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 11:32:24 AM)
HEY!?!?!?!? Did you video the relationship between me and my old Dom?

MissAndry -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 11:33:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress lack of follow through forcing your sub to take loads of laxatives, placing him/her in a chastity device then forgetting about it and having too MUCH follow through?

CreativeDominant -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 12:00:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chickpea We’ve heard of how to have a terrrrrrific, fantaaaaastic BDSM relationship…. Now, I’d like your comments on how to have a horribly dissatisfyingly dull inane BDSM relationship. Note, let’s exclude violence or unsafe stuff here… I’m talking about HOW TO MAKE A BDSM THAT WAS SUPPOSED TO GO RIGHT, GO WRONG. Yes indeed, we are not looking for the needle in the haystack, but rather the hay surrounding that darned needle! Dishonesty. Failure to submit/dominate in the way you committed to. Wanting to constantly renegotiate. Lack of communication and then blaming the other for "you should be able to tell this from the way I am acting/not speaking/the type of day I had

MrThorns -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 12:38:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster Dishonesty usually does the trick. I couldn't agree more... although I am a little disappointed that it took 6 posts for it to be mentioned.

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 1:01:32 PM)
Applies to any relationship.......... apathy.

missturbation -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 2:02:58 PM)
quote: He comments...."It's still here, but I only Dominate girls who are worth it-what have you done for me lately-besides spend the rent money on shoes?" hey, hey, hey. I said i was sorry [:D]

CreativeDominant -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 2:17:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation quote: He comments...."It's still here, but I only Dominate girls who are worth it-what have you done for me lately-besides spend the rent money on shoes?" hey, hey, hey. I said i was sorry [:D] But you really, really aren't [&:]

missturbation -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 2:38:08 PM)
quote: But you really, really aren't [&:] You're right i'm not and to top it all off, i'm leaving you since you havent paid the rent and there is no money left for shoes [:'(]

Squeakers -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 2:46:39 PM)
learning everything a slave needs to know on the internet or even worse---attending caning demo's in a chat room.

ownedgirlie -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 3:46:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel Applies to any relationship.......... apathy. Very true. Per John Gottman, PhD, author, and renowned marital counselor, can observe a couple and predict their fate in the first 5 minutes (with 91% accuracy). He discusses the corrosive interactions that will kill any relationship, referring to them as The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling. But I'd throw apathy right in there, too, no doubt.

neph -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 5:50:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ Burning the bacon before the omelet! I'll forgive a lot of things, but don't fuck with my bacon.

ownedgirlie -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 5:52:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: neph I'll forgive a lot of things, but don't fuck with my bacon. HA!!! That is SO something my Master would say...for a couple of reasons...heheheh...

shootingstar67 -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 6:02:53 PM)
Not respecting limits. Not choosing a partner with similar limits as you. Expecting a relationship to fix your life. Expecting a relationship to fix your personal defects. Expecting a relationship to make you happy. And getting involved for D/s while ignoring the other aspects. Also getting into a commitment when you are not ready to commit.

Kaiynasha -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 6:17:01 PM)
Well said LadyLegs...I so agree.

octavia -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 6:20:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrThorns quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster Dishonesty usually does the trick. I couldn't agree more... although I am a little disappointed that it took 6 posts for it to be mentioned. unrealistic expectations....[8D]

corsetgirl -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 6:33:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shootingstar67 Not respecting limits. Not choosing a partner with similar limits as you. Expecting a relationship to fix your life. Expecting a relationship to fix your personal defects. Expecting a relationship to make you happy. And getting involved for D/s while ignoring the other aspects. Also getting into a commitment when you are not ready to commit. Excellent points!

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: How to Royally Screw Up a BDSM Relationship (11/8/2007 7:35:37 PM)
The submissive who informs the Dominant on how best to manage her.The Dominant who decides "no contact" is a good way to fix whatever is going wrong.Tempting

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