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Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for money - 11/12/2007 2:43:40 PM   
wankerforuse


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Status: offline 		and not for the love of it? As in my mind a proper domme does it for the love of it as it is in her blood something that is natural to her being dominant that is,cause it's in her genes her genetic makeup.A lady who does if for money is nothing more than an oscar nominated actress in my opinion,and not a dominant lady at all.She's just a money making machine.

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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 2:45:33 PM   
MamaDomme


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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 2:47:23 PM   
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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 2:51:43 PM   
LadyLynx


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Status: offline 		*rolls eyes* not this one again!  I don't dominate for money. there are plenty of ladies who don't ethier. the trick is finding those that don't.  I realize you are having a difficult time in achieving that, but whining about it won't do you any good.

Here is some valid advice: (my standard piece of advice.) connect with your community.  post frequently on here, (hopefully in a polite,intelligent manner.) I think you are pretty cute, (though if I remember correctly you live pretty far away from me.)

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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 2:53:29 PM   
beeble


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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 2:57:06 PM   
MissMagnolia


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Status: offline 		Oh, god, not the "proper" dominants?? The "true" dominants?

OP, you could not have picked a better nick, wanker 4 use. You most certainly are a wanker.

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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 2:58:08 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		Gheez Louise.....an old revived thread, and one that starts a new bitch about it today...

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1006366/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#

OP, please make sure you go post on the thread that won't die also.......wouldn't want to miss putting a second opinion on this topic that has never been discussed before.


Yawn.

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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 2:59:54 PM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Oh, god, not the "proper" dominants?? The "true" dominants?

OP, you could not have picked a better nick, wanker 4 use. You most certainly are a wanker.


At least he did not lie and put wanker 4 UR use....shame on us for not doing his do me bidding, and for free.

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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 3:06:29 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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Very experienced submissive male seeks to be used and abused on a regular weekly basis can travel or accomodate,if compatable.Im very easy going varied interests,high pain threshold.If i appeal to you then please leave me a memo,and i will get back to you thanks very much indeed.

 
I might be considering an hourly rate.
"Have needy penis...will travel" ????
 



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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 3:32:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Mundane life requires money unfortunately so as long as someone is willing to pay for something (whatever that is) someone out there will be smart enough to supply and get that money.

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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 3:32:42 PM   
LaMistressa


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Status: offline 		You know, I'm not a pro Domme, but whenever I see a post like this from a submissive male, it makes me cross him off my list, as being bitter is such an unattractive quality. Plus, I have friends who are pros, and they are serious and committed about the scene (not to mention being good people.)

Something to think about -- when you are railing against this or that in the lifestyle, you might be making a negative impression on more people than you realize. 

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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 3:39:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: wankerforuse

and not for the love of it? As in my mind a proper domme does it for the love of it as it is in her blood something that is natural to her being dominant that is,cause it's in her genes her genetic makeup.A lady who does if for money is nothing more than an oscar nominated actress in my opinion,and not a dominant lady at all.She's just a money making machine.


What, so actresses only act for money and never the love of acting? All those selfish bitches on Broadway, just in it for the money!

People love the things they love. If you can get paid to do the things you love, all the better.

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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 3:47:27 PM   
HottLicks


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Status: offline 		Does a wanker for use get any use?

If they don't wanna pay... one way or another... they better have a great resume...

Cause even though I don't get paid... it would be the only way I'd work with a wanker...

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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 3:48:40 PM   
Aceton


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Status: offline 		SHORT EDITED VERSION:  Why do Pro Dommes charge money, Mr 'wankerforuse'? Because nobody wants a wanker for use. Wankers aren't special. Do you really think the fact that you're a guy and you play with yourself is anything to be proud of or advertise?  Where I'm from the term  'wanker' is used to describe a stupid asshole. Which might not be so far off the mark in this case.

That's why guys like you have to pay for it. Nobody else wants to deal with you.


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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 4:14:47 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Why do you assume that all Domme's do it for the money? I certainly do not and never have, I do it because it is My lifestyle and my relationship choice.

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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 4:20:53 PM   
AAkasha


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I have a normal career that doesn't have anything to do with kink.
There were times that I did some phone domination for fun, for a fee, but only with men that I clicked with. I charged so I could afford to buy the expensive toys I wanted, so I could travel to meet the slaves I was courting, and so I could afford my own personal phone bills.

Nowadays I don't do phone domination for fee.  I'm pursuing a couple of men for my own personal pleasure. Not only do they not pay me, I don't even let them pay for gear.  That would make me feel obligated.  I sent two little "care package" from The Stockroom today.  I love the reactions when they receive a package from me.

My theory is that the subs with something to offer will never have to pay.  Those with class, personality, self esteem, tact and charisma.  As you go down the scale and the subs become more bitter, more demanding, more self righteuous, they more likely they are going to have limited options.  They will have to pay, because no one will want to engage with them or spend time with them, because they are not likable.  Then you go to the lowest scale, and that's the men that won't even get a woman to dominate him even if he pays.  Yes, there are men that bad.  Mostly it's attitude and the vibe they throw off.  The more demanding, the more self righteous, the more bitter  = the less likely they will get a woman to want to seduce him.

I'm a predatory femdom. I love the chase.  I love to see a man, pick him out, seduce him, then mold him into good prey for me.  Part of that control is paying for things.  For those men that do not interest me much, I can't spend time or money getting to know them because they tell me, "Try me, you will like me, I promise."  It just doesn't work that way.

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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 4:34:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


As you go down the scale and the subs become more bitter, more demanding, more self righteuous, they more likely they are going to have limited options. They will have to pay, because no one will want to engage with them or spend time with them, because they are not likable. Then you go to the lowest scale, and that's the men that won't even get a woman to dominate him even if he pays. Yes, there are men that bad. Mostly it's attitude and the vibe they throw off. The more demanding, the more self righteous, the more bitter = the less likely they will get a woman to want to seduce him.
Akasha



Rather than blame malesubs, it would be more accurate to look at the numbers. There simply are not enough femdoms to go around, hence there are professionals to fill the void.




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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 4:40:02 PM   
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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 4:43:41 PM   
AAkasha


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha


As you go down the scale and the subs become more bitter, more demanding, more self righteuous, they more likely they are going to have limited options. They will have to pay, because no one will want to engage with them or spend time with them, because they are not likable. Then you go to the lowest scale, and that's the men that won't even get a woman to dominate him even if he pays. Yes, there are men that bad. Mostly it's attitude and the vibe they throw off. The more demanding, the more self righteous, the more bitter = the less likely they will get a woman to want to seduce him.
Akasha



Rather than blame malesubs, it would be more accurate to look at the numbers. There simply are not enough femdoms to go around, hence there are professionals to fill the void.





Why is it that some subs have no problems meeting partners and/or finding vanilla women who are open to kink or willing to give it a try - and then there are subs who say they have searched high and low and cannot find anyone to even give them a second look except pros?

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RE: Just out of interest why do you ladies dominate for... - 11/12/2007 4:51:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
Why is it that some subs have no problems meeting partners and/or finding vanilla women who are open to kink or willing to give it a try - and then there are subs who say they have searched high and low and cannot find anyone to even give them a second look except pros?


Pretty much because they're assholes and don't care anything at all about the woman they want to use as an object for their fetish satisfaction.  The person behind the tits and the whip doesn't matter to them as long as they get what they want.  And they're just not mature enough or smart enough to realize that their attitude is a huge turnoff and makes them nothing but an annoying, selfish, bothersome pain in the ass who is No Fun to play with.

Any submissive man who is open, honest, friendly, intelligent, articulate and genuinely interested in spending enjoyable (and NOT necessarily kinky or sexual) time of mutual interest with a real human being he wants to submit to will find partners very, very easily.  Anyone who is just looking for instant kinky or sexual gratification and doesn't care about the person he gets it with as long as she looks hot and does what he wants needs to pay a pro, because he simply isn't going to interest most non pro dommes. 

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