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Beelzebabe -> RE: Do you keep your kink a secret? (4/24/2008 6:20:57 PM)
My rule of thumb for issues of sex, politics, and religion is that if someone is brave enough to ask, I'm brave enough to answer. But I usually preface the answer with a question of my own: Is there an answer to this question that you don't want to hear? If there is, then I ask the inquirer if he or she wants to retract the question. If he or she doesn't, I'll answer. I've noticed that my family shows a startling lack of curiosity, despite the amount of leather clothing they find hanging in my house. BB

HornyToadsMI -> RE: Do you keep your kink a secret? (4/24/2008 6:31:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia I've never felt the need to tell anyone that I'm a Domme. I've never felt the need to tell anyone I fancy Jean Luc Picard in Star Trek either. OMG......i love him too!!! Arent bald men the sexiest!!!! All tho i have to say that Toad is a Captain Kirk fan...... But as to the post....We keep it private.....it is no one's business, unless We share it.....

Lynnxz -> RE: Do you keep your kink a secret? (4/24/2008 8:02:52 PM)
?O dear. I had to go into a little more detail about my kinks tonight. I got pulled over for my liscense plate light (wtf?) being out. There was no problem, and he was very nice until he noticed my red duffel bag in the back of the truck.... Sheriff: Ma'm, what's in the duffel? Me: Ahh... Boots? Sheriff: That's all? Are you sure? Just some fancy footwear? Me: And some collars... and cuffs... stuff... Sherriff: ? Me: I'm a um... I'm a fetish model?? Note, I have collars hanging from my rearview that have just been stuck there until I remember to take them inside Sheriff: Really? Me: Yeahhh... Sheriff: So nothing dangerous in there is there? Me: Not... really. No guns or anything... >.< Eep! At least he didn't look inside.

slvFfireAZ -> RE: Do you keep your kink a secret? (4/24/2008 8:06:59 PM)
I do to an extent...my family knows and think i uesd to be into it but they don't know i still am. some of my friends are into it and my others are accepting so its nice...other than those people yeah i keep it a secret

GimpinDenial -> RE: Do you keep your kink a secret? (4/24/2008 8:08:51 PM)
erm..I probably don't even need to reply..lol...but I did anyhow.. YES! to all of the above

LadySharon -> RE: Do you keep your kink a secret? (4/24/2008 8:46:34 PM)
I've been open with my close friends who I know love and respect me and the decisions that I make. They might now agree, but they respect my right to live my life, my way. Why would I want to put it up for discussion with people who wouldn't understand or respect my right to be me? My very immediate family knows... and that's enough as far as family goes.

toddlefeet -> RE: Do you keep your kink a secret? (4/24/2008 8:56:09 PM)
I know I MUST kept my lifestyle secret for two reasons..one..:My family. if my aunt & my nana found out. I'd be shunned and I'd be the laughing stock of my adopted family for years plus try to have me locked away. 2nd I'm working on my 1st vampire novel..last thing I want is my lifestlye going public once it get published. I hope to see my book become a movie one day. I think the public would love it.

DominantJenny -> RE: Do you keep your kink a secret? (4/25/2008 6:30:36 AM)
My spouse/slave is more paranoid about being outed than I am, but we both fear reprisal from the vanilla world. People have been fired. Children have been taken away. We need his job (I'm a SAHM) and we love our children. NOTHING is more important to us than protecting what we have. It sucks that there are so many out there looking to persecute that which they don't understand, but I'm not going to be the one to potentially lose everything trying to change that. I'm out to friends, but otherwise we keep it pretty quiet.

DragonLady5 -> RE: Do you keep your kink a secret? (4/25/2008 9:29:04 AM)
My husband knows my interest, but doesn't realize the extent of it. My family would twig if they knew. A few close friends know. All of which are reasons why I don't do real life play. I'd love to, but as long as I'm married, and he's not interested in BDSM himself, I will not indulge. So the internet is my best friend and I come to places like CM to meet like-minded people. So, it's a big secret, yes. Oh, and since I ride a motorcyle, my penchant for black leather doesn't raise any eyebrows.

angelwithhonor -> RE: Do you keep your kink a secret? (4/25/2008 9:44:20 AM)
laughs bc my best friend knows about me being a submissive. and she just came out and said"You like men to control you and tie you up, you freak you!"..lol my twin knows to but would only be the one who i would share with. its the business of our own. and on another note there is someone on cm that claims he knows me by my real name. i use the name my parents call me not my given name. the only persons would know my given named would be family. now this person is a male submissive. and wont enduldge who he is for the afraid some one finding out. i am not ashamed of who i am, and i proudly put my pic up. but this person is playing games by saying guess who it is yet!. i just told him dont give a rats ass who you are family or not. at least i am honest of who i am.!!![:)]

ThunderRoad -> RE: Do you keep your kink a secret? (4/25/2008 9:47:32 AM)
We are more open about our poly situation with our mutual pet than we are about kink. None of our friends really care that my girl is bi and we have a third, but she's paniced about her family finding out.

MistressKali1 -> RE: Do you keep your kink a secret? (4/25/2008 9:55:01 AM)
I am completely open about My lifestyle to anyone who cares to ask. I don't advertise it but I won't lie about who I am either. After all I happen to think I am fucking amazing...why pretend to be less than I am!

Daddyslilgirl217 -> RE: Do you keep your kink a secret? (4/28/2008 4:25:25 PM)
I'm pretty open about my interests for the most part. Pretty much all of my family (including my parents) knows and even asks me questions sometimes. Not in a rude way, but in a genuinely curious kind of way. As a matter of fact, last night we had family over for dinner. My aunt said that she heard I got a new toy and wanted to know if she could see it. I showed her and a couple of my other aunts wanted to see what kinda stuff I had. Anyways, I won't hijack the thread, but just wanted to share that 'coming out' to my family and friends about my BDSM activities has been a positive experience for me and I'm glad that I did. Along with friends from my local group, I also use my parents as one of my safe calls when meeting someone new. I dunno, it kind of gives me a greater sense of security. They worry about me, but they're very respectful about my life. **edited to add... MistressKali1, I just love what you said here quote:* ORIGINAL: MistressKali1 After all I happen to think I am fucking amazing...why pretend to be less than I am!

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