pinksugarsub
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ORIGINAL: LostMyself Don't we all dream about him, no matter how we identifiy ourselfs? Don't we want to be swept off our feet (out of control) If he's not plenty stronger, how can he protect us? If his personality isn't more dominant, how can he take care of us? If that sword won't destroy anyone who might try to hurt us, who is he? And if he can't hurt us, how couldn he possibly hurt someone trying to do us harm? Yes, personally, I like being choked, feeling helpless to the whim of a man.. but if the man is strong enouph to protect me, when am I not at his whim? Just a thought.. i don't want to be 'swept away'; i want to be brought closer and closer. i want a time of settling, getting to know Him, and feeling safe with Him. i'd never want to feel hurt by Him. i think the 'rescue' fantasy is fine, like any other fantasy, but it shouldn't be the basis for a D/s relationship. i want to know the real Man, not some role He plays. pinksugarsub
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