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Lumus -> RE: three questions for men into bdsm (12/1/2007 11:39:53 PM)
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl
1. Do you apply the three date rule (lose interest if no sex by the third date)?
2. Would you decide against persuing a long term d/s relationship with a woman if you thought her number of past sexual partners was too high?
3. Do you think it's hypocritical for men who apply the three date rule to turn women down based on their number of sex partners? Why or why not?
*edited because third question was worded wrong*
1. Doesn't apply to me. I have been a serious flirt in the past, but never had any expectations for sex. That said, I've always had sex by the third date, and the women intitiated it. [:D]
2. Is she still active with them? See, I'm not going to dwell on where a person's been or with whom - I wasn't there, she wasn't Mine at that time, it's all part of what made her who she is... However, I do demand that a woman with whom I enter into sexual activity be loyal to me, by which I mean not taking on another sexual partner unless we both play and we both agree on it beforehand. I've been cheated on, not fun and as it was behind my back, dishonest - and the dishonesty is what gets me more than anything else. So if we're true to each other, why care who she was with? She moved on. I can, too.
3. Based on this [new?] wording, I fail to follow. Where is the hypocrisy? A fellow chooses to see women only if he's going to get some, then judges a woman for sleeping with many men...that implies the man got anywhere, to start. Now, a man who sets one set of rules for himself and another set of rules for his sub/slave/pet/girl...it may not seem 'reasonable', but hey, if he finds people to play with using that criteria and it works for both of them, more power to them.
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