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RE: Hiding behind domination - 12/3/2007 9:02:38 AM

LittleWench

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At 37 yrs of age I am under medical instruction to not have any more children, it is too high risk, for both me and child. If I got pregnant and my Owner directed me to terminate the pregnancy it would alleviate my guilt and absolve me of responsibility, because my first instinct would be to carry that baby to term, risk be damned, which could leave my other three children without a mother. I would be grateful to him for having the strength and taking the burden of that responsibility... because in that situation it is absolutely the right one (for me), even if it is not the moral one (for some), and I do not know if it is a decision I could make for myself.

Just thought I would turn the topic on its head and look at it from a different perspective :)

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RE: Hiding behind domination - 12/4/2007 7:28:58 AM

agirl

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As Stephan said early on, it's an awfully vague question.

There is a difference between following an instruction that I think is wrong/mistaken/unpleasant and doing something that *I* consider a wrong thing to do. Everyone will have their own imaginations in play with this.

Doing something that is intrinsically *wrong* to me would bugger up the relationship. Of course I trust that it's unlikely to ever happen or I'd not even be here. The fact is, I trust because I've been shown and it's been heavily proved that I've good reason to.

Would I feel absolved of guilt from obeying?...On one level, yes, but on another no. I might hold that I adhered to the tenets of our agreement/relationship but I can't make a wrong thing be right, in my own eyes if I KNOW it to be wrong. I can't do the mental machinations that would make it so.

I can make any hypothetical situation bend to my personal dynamic by saying * he'd have every good reason to say so* in the comfort zone of it.

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