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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/1/2007 9:03:29 AM   
subsfaith


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ORIGINAL: honeybunch06
Does anyone else have this problem?  Is anyone else offended by such questions so quickly in the conversation?  And, if so, how do you respond to him?


I would imagine thishas happened to most at some point, it has happen many many times to me personally.

If I got offended, I would spend alot of my online time offended, so I just let it go and walk on by.

I would like to respond to some of them, they would get the sharper side of my tongue nad possibly mail bomb them with several hundred thousand spam email over a period of 48 hours.... but I have more important things to consider.... would it be becoming of me as my Master's slave.... absolutely not!  So I do nothing once I have blocked them.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/1/2007 9:12:15 AM   
onegoodgirl


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Status: offline 		Offended?

No.

Amused. A little.

Some men have absolutely no shame - they really do belong on the other side of the whip.


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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/1/2007 12:39:12 PM   
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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/1/2007 12:53:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: honeybunch06
question number three is "what is your boob size"?  and...question number four is "do you have large nipples"?
How'd he get to question number four? Did you answer number three?

Personally, I just shut down any talk that is sexual in the beginning stages. I don't discuss play or scening, sexual preferences other than orientation, past experiences other than the fact that I have some, any descriptions of my private parts or limits. It's none of their business until I decide if I like them enough to even talk to.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/1/2007 12:59:43 PM   
texancutie2


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Status: offline 		I don't find it offensive.  Plus, a benefit of ims like that is you can immediately discount the person iming you...as nothing more than a HNG.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/1/2007 1:12:46 PM   
trappedinamuseum


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Status: offline 		Why get offended?  Save the energy to put more force on the mouse when you click on "block".





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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/2/2007 11:02:22 PM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		I don't know whether to shake my head, laugh or nod.

Being TS I've been asked all sorts of questions from chatrooms (very few people get onto my IM). 'Are you pre-op or post op?', 'Do you still have a dick?'

I have two favourite questions from people.

'What are you trying to become?'
(My response) 'A tree'

'How big is your dick?'
(My response) 'Probably much bigger than your's'
This always seems to shut them up.

My standard response to a cockshot is 'What happened to your finger/fingernail?'

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/3/2007 12:03:00 AM   
adoracat


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

The answers to those questions....

1. What is your boob size?
  A. Which one, the right or the left?
2. Do you have large nipples?
  A. I have two small ones on the right (it's hard to see one of them though and you have to part the hair to find it) and one giant one on the left.

You probably won't get anymore emails from the guy.

I will ask if I can screw with someone's head like that if they email me stupid ass questions... that is so funny!



i am ENCOURAGED to be as rude as i can to sillyass boys.  then again, Daddy likes his kitten to be a wildcat at times.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/3/2007 2:04:01 AM   
petpete


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Status: offline 		No honey you are not wrong.. But whatever we do or don't criticizing others will always be on behind the forums or in the forums.. Nothing can be done to stop this..

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/3/2007 9:58:12 AM   
vampchick88


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Status: offline 		  Wow, I've only had to prob of people asking me that in public. Funny though after you deck enough people they usually quit asking. Hmmm I've never had it asked online. Should pics from the waist up be enough to answer that. Or you could do what nearly every guy does to females when we ask their "size" lie...if it works for them it can work for a woman.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/3/2007 10:46:32 AM   
unrulysubmissive


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Status: offline 		i was just asked this very question. it has been my experience that when a Master/Dominate asks such questions their intentions are very clear to me, they are looking to build a "visual" to use later for when they jack off.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/3/2007 10:56:10 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I did not find it offensive. I found it humorous. There are some people that get off on such things... and to them it would be appropriate. I filed it away under "Do not care". And just because a dominant isn't right for you does not mean they are not in fact a dominant. Dominants are like everyone else... some have large egos, some lie, some womanize, some are assholes, some are nice guys, some are honorable. The term "dominant" basically means they seek encounters with people that will allow them to control and dominate them.. all the other tags of "a real dominant acts this way" do not make sense to me. I have no knowledge of what these one handed typists do in their lives. They very well could be into dominating consenting folks... if you do not consent, just block em and move on.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/3/2007 12:08:13 PM   
kittensangel


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Status: offline 		I would have to say this is the very reason i don't keep a picture in my profile for one. Then it forces people to read instead of going oww pritty chick with big boobs. On the other hand i try to head them off. i ask thinks what are goals in life? What morals and values do you live your life? The answers have varied from have a slave to be ...., finish school whatever, ti tends to tell em where their mind is. but i am always up for fucking with peoples heads.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/3/2007 12:13:02 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		I saw it on manswers, a show on spike tv,  the episode was worlds largest breasts. she's a stripper in a club, her implants were so large they had to be custom made because, those are not regularly made. 
quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

Tell them your breasts are a size a size 61 tripple m and you need a wheel barrow to get around with them. there really is a woman with boobs that big, they're not real though, they're implants
quote:

ORIGINAL: batshalom

HNG's in action. Answer them or not, like them or not, they'll keep hitting your inbox like acid rain. Politely decline, ignore and block, or have fun and provoke them .



Pictures? It is morbid curiousity that drives me


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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/3/2007 2:46:16 PM   
SacredMoments


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Status: offline 		I find it downright stupid!
What about learning a bit about the PERSON in stead of asking stupid questions like that?
In my opinion any sub/slave is a person first...then...maybe and when you are lucky ( and respectfull) she(or he) might become yours.
How about having a normal conversation first?
Are those socalled doms ( not a typo and I'm using the term quite loosely) so desperate?
ARe they in fact Doms or are they just (fill in the dots) .....after a cheap thrill?
C'mon you guys!


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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/3/2007 2:54:41 PM   
SeeksOnlyOne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

Tell them your breasts are a size a size 61 tripple m and you need a wheel barrow to get around with them. there really is a woman with boobs that big, they're not real though, they're implants
quote:

ORIGINAL: batshalom

HNG's in action. Answer them or not, like them or not, they'll keep hitting your inbox like acid rain. Politely decline, ignore and block, or have fun and provoke them .



Pictures? It is morbid curiousity that drives me



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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/3/2007 3:01:28 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		similar but not quite hers were implants so they were like round beach balls not saggy,

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/3/2007 4:05:12 PM   
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Has anyone ever been approached with questions about their appearance with the explanation that the Dom[me] in question has a requirement for [said physical form] as the result of their fetish?  I imagine there are some Dom[me]s out there who do have a particular interest in physical specifics like hair length [and gender comes to mind...don't laugh, after all, a bisexual Dominant may look for something in one gender and something else in another...and no, I'm not talking about the obvious ].

I'm not saying that it's 'right', either, merely positing.  Hmm.  Perhaps a thought for another thread.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/3/2007 4:34:59 PM   
intensesubj


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Status: offline 		It may "feel" offensive to the person being posed with such questions, However, in this medium (online) it is often times necessary to ask them.
Without benefit of a face to face dialogue, Certain questions remain unanswered if left unasked and could prove more insulting/embarrassing later on.
We all have preferences to certain characteristics/traits. Variety and choice is ONE of the things that makes us human beings...that should be respected.
D/s relationships are built on "bare" truth (no pun inteneded) and vulnerablilty, Neither of them should make You feel uncomfortable. It is what makes it so appealing.
Indeed i believe there is a certain tact that should be excercised when asking those personal questions. Just because one does not meet another's specifications doesn't make that person any less desirable to someone else. So....... One should never wear the "anvil of rejection" .  Just move on if it felt overwhelmingly offensive.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/3/2007 5:50:55 PM   
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Any male over the age of 12 who uses the word "boobs' should never be allowed to see one.

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