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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/13/2007 5:36:53 AM

BossyShoeBitch

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I just got a ridiculous email and this is the only place it seems to fit..."If I could convince your Master to let me rent you, would He have any objection to my keepng you in a cage?"

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/13/2007 6:51:41 AM

lalbobbilynn

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At the risk of sounding overly confident (that really is NOT the case, given the next statement), i would not say i am offended ..... LOL ..... this is men were are speaking about ....... i expect as much truth be told ....... because, well this IS men were are speaking about (generally of course)!!! i will not even go so far as to label those asking such questions as Doms ....... how insulting to those who really are.
What i do find jocular (besides a host of Your responses!!!!!! ...... oh my gosh, Ya'all have me rollin'!!) is when i verbally bitch slap said folks, and than "i" am blocked!!
What??? ...... You ask an inane question, and do not even afford me the chance to volley back?!? i merely wish to know if Your Mother lets You use the bathroom upstairs, or if You have to urinate out the backdoor?!?

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/13/2007 6:54:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

I just got a ridiculous email and this is the only place it seems to fit..."If I could convince your Master to let me rent you, would He have any objection to my keepng you in a cage?"

In any business transaction, I like to be the one to cage the cash, keeps the slippage in perspective.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/13/2007 10:01:15 AM

everhope

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ORIGINAL: honeybunch06

Do any of you other submissives find it offensive when a 'dominant' (in quotations because there is some doubt about some who label themselves such) IMs you and question number three is "what is your boob size"? and...question number four is "do you have large nipples"?
To me..that is very offensive and shows me that this guy is only interested in using my body...and, therefore, in my opinion, is not really a dominant man. Am i wrong about this? Am i too quick to judge? i usually do not continue the conversation with him after this and leave the entire experience a bit hesitant to even answer IMs!
There is so much more to this than the physical aspect and when he begins the conversation with nothing but physical questions..i am immediately wary. Does anyone else have this problem? Is anyone else offended by such questions so quickly in the conversation? And, if so, how do you respond to him?

i have become immune to these types of online conversations. i don't let the snarky comments come out (oh but they are there). i simply say "i can see that we are not seeking the same relationship dynamic".

what i find worse are the ones that ask me to share my fantasies....in like ummm right after hello.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/13/2007 5:47:20 PM

subsong

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I find responses simliar to that totally helpful in this land of uncertainty ! It allows me to feel 100% certain that I can rule them out as a potential partner !

Hold out for Doms with class , and keep that delete finger ready to go ...

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/14/2007 12:14:03 AM

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I find it to be note worthy to mention that both Tops and Bottoms do this. How ever, I do find it that if you have to ask (granted most ask after seeing a picture) That they have sat home to long on the pc without seeing a real set in quite a while. I've also have to state that anyone who ask that within the first 10 mins of a converstation or first 15 emails will more then likely turn out to be a flake. If ya get conversation "starters" like that.. Here is a few more responses
"How big are your tits" 1 - 5.
1.) Well my cat has tiny ones. Oh wait you ment on me right?
2.) I forgot.. I'm sure I put them back in the box....
3.) I'm actully a man in a wig.. So A?
4.) Well if i stuff my bra I'm sure I can get an A cup..
5.) I'm sure yours are bigger!

And to the "Large Nipples" Questions. 1-5.

1.) Well the babybottles I feed my pet rat are 2 inches long.
2.) I only have 1. A ferret Chewed off the other.. Its quite gross looking...
3.) Do you want to know about the real ones or the ones I use when I dress in drag.
4.) I'm not sure.. Let me go see if I can find them. (BLOCK)
5.) Well if you want to find out, take a picture of yourself and look at it.

I hope these have givin a few laughs to such the general public of boy/men on here that maybe the decent ones of us wont look as bad..

Take Care.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/15/2007 10:40:50 AM

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i used to like to play with the mindless horny little twits that i found off the bat offensive and answered their questions - i'd say i had the smoothest pussy they'd ever see, then send them this funny picture of a cat shaved bald. If they asked me to describe myself i would tell them i was 4 ft 560 lbs with a few missing teeth, the ones they could save were green from decay and i was hoping to find a dom to pay for an expensive whitening treatments. i was bald cause being a bbw my hormones went wild, this also led to bouts of abusive anger so i hoped he was a strong dominant who could literally keep me in my place. Other then those few obstacles i was rather pretty.......... worked like a charm. lol

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/15/2007 3:07:46 PM

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Now what I love are the Male Doms who email you and are like I want to f*** you slut and I am a Domme myself.

My response: Beg for it bitch.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/15/2007 4:09:03 PM

NaiveTempest

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I have not read the other post so sorry for any repetition. I don't give out my IM info, simple as that. I get an email from someone, if I like it enough I'll respond, they respond back, etc all via email on CM. Now at a certain point I will give out regular email and IM info, but not before getting to know that person.

But that is my way, so you do how you like; just remember assholes and HNGs are everywhere and pretty much unavoidable, so just limit how many ways they can contact you and use block and/or ignore.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/25/2007 11:48:12 AM

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No self respecting Dom should ever need to ask that question when first meeting someone. The only reason one would ever need to know is if they were going to purchase an article of clothing for you

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/25/2007 2:57:57 PM

LeMis

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Maybe reply like so...

I am highly offended that you did NOT ask my penis size.

"Would you like to see a pic of my penis?"

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/25/2007 5:34:46 PM

Subboy06

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I just gets messages from people asking if I'm worthy and ready to jump through hoops for them or pay money to continue talking to them. Its really annoying but for some reason the people who send them to me also block me before I can normally reply.

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RE: Anyone find it offensive.... - 12/26/2007 9:28:04 AM

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