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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:31:59 AM   
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Perfect answer!
I'll take the wad of cash, get really drunk and then I won't care if my ass looks fat in whatever I buy...



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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:50:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

THAT is why women take a long time to shop.......and men grow impatient.....goddammit, don't ask if your ass looks fat in this, that's the 19th time you asked me today!!!!!!

Now, this is easily solvable----

Honey, here is a wad of cash, you go shopping and when you're done pick me up at the bar, I will be moheftigly drunk (and ahead of time, want you to know that nothing could make your ass look fat).....luv ya.

Ron  
~swoons~ Ron you say the MOST romantic things, run away with me?

I'm bigger boned with wide shoulders wider than most guys. Also can't wear any standard lady's bracelets or watches. Luckily I am tall (5'11) so I hide my weight well (don't ask) but I'd still like to lose about 3 sizes as long as it doesn't affect what little bit of booty I have, but it will. At my leanest I loved the way I looked but I had haunches like a deer, no booty. It's very tough finding clothes that fit. Pants are always too short, blouses assume that if my shoulders are that wide then I have humonguous boobs! I don't. And then the belly area will be way way too big. GRRRRR.

<---HATES shopping.


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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 7:05:17 AM   
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I hear you, my bottom is smaller than my top so I can't do a one piece anything and expect it to fit.
Separates are my friends...
(although, I do have a "booty"...lol)  Bracelets, anklets... no way

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 7:12:07 AM   
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Sabella big boned????? Does not compute.

Guess it's the self view vs other's view thing, cause I have never seen you in that light.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 7:20:01 AM   
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I dont know if being big boned equates to your weight. People always guess my weight at least 40# less. Some people are lucky that they can carry their age and weight well. I dont know if it is in the jeans. I wear levis.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 7:21:12 AM   
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Are you gonna take me home tonight
Ah down beside that red firelight
Are you gonna let it all hang out
Fat bottomed girls
You make the rockin world go round

Hey I was just a skinny lad
Never knew no good from bad
But I knew life before I left my nursery
Left alone with big fat fanny
She was such a naughty nanny
Heap big woman you made a bad boy out of me
Hey hey!

Ive been singing with my band
Across the wire across the land
I seen evry blue eyed floozy on the way
But their beauty and their style
Went kind of smooth after a while
Take me to them dirty ladies every time

Oh wont you take me home tonight?
Oh down beside your red firelight
Oh and you give it all you got
Fat bottomed girls you make the rockin world go round
Fat bottomed girls you make the rockin world go round

Hey listen here
Now your mortgages and homes
I got stiffness in the bones
Aint no beauty queens in this locality (I tell you)
Oh but I still get my pleasure
Still got my greatest treasure
Heap big woman you gonna make a big man out of me
Now get this

Oh you gonna take me home tonight (please)
Oh down beside your red firelight
Oh you gonna let it all hang out
Fat bottomed girls you make the rockin world go round
Fat bottomed girls you make the rockin world go round
Get on your bikes and ride

Oooh yeah them fat bottomed girls
Fat bottomed girls
Yeah yeah yeah
Fat bottomed girls
Yes yes


Fat bottomed girls
Queen.


Long as you are healthy and comfortable with where you are and who you are....then it should  all be good.




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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 7:30:24 AM   
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I don't think when they say "big boned" they really mean that.  I have a medium to large frame, but I weigh 125 pounds.  I would doubt they really would have much interest in someone merely for their bones.  Although, I guess anything could be a fetish


Bone fetish........  there must be someone into that.  I've heard there are some strange and kinky people out there.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 7:39:58 AM   
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Thank you Archer! 

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 7:43:23 AM   
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Kellendra, love that song <grin>

I'm 5 ft 10 and have a bigger bone structure. I also have long legs which makes finding pants that are long enough a royal pain. My inseam is about a 34. On top of the long legs, I also am long torsoed which causes some problems finding shirts as well.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 7:59:52 AM   
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I am one of those girls that, no matter how thin I get, I will never be smaller than a size 6.  When I was very young, I was extremely self conscious of my weight and size in proportion to the other girls, and I became anorexic.  Even at a mere 101 pounds, I was still a size 7/8.  And I was disgusting looking, with almost every bone protruding.
Now, I am a size 11, and 5'6".   I am just about 160 pounds, give or take a couple depending on the day.  According to the height/weight chart for my age, I am actually "overweight."
But I have learned that for me, this is a healthy weight.  My bones are larger than most women, I am built to naturally have curves.  Do I have a little extra squish?  Sure.  Is it a lot of squish?  No, not really.
In the end, as long as you are at a healthy weight for you, and you think you look good, thats all that matters ^.^
People are far more likely to be attracted to you if you carry yourself like you believe you are attractive, anyway.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 8:13:33 AM   
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I have a large bone structure, broad shoulders, enormous ankles...  Makes it easier to hold up the enormous rack!  I have excellent posture, and long arms and legs, with a short torso, so I look thinner than I am.  I could never be smaller than a size 8, and am a 10 when I am at my optimum weight. 

Big boned is big boned!  Fat is fat.  :) 

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 8:17:15 AM   
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I always thought i was big boned, think i was just trying to find an excuse for being fat if i'm honest. I'm actually quite daintily boned and only have short legs and arms, everything is always way too long for me in these areas. At a size 12 - 14 i think i look quite podgy.
I'd love to be long legged like lady hibiscus with huge norks

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If it fit's in a toaster, i can cook it.

Buying 10 item's or less is not shopping !!

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 9:00:51 AM   
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Thank you, lovely Missturbation!  I got the huge norks from the same side of the family as the big bones....

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 9:09:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Thank you, lovely Missturbation!  I got the huge norks from the same side of the family as the big bones....


i think the norks skipped a generation in my family lol.
My mum has them and my daughter, but sadly i lack in that dept. 

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 9:38:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Phin

BTW i think you look damn sexy jus like you are



*blushes*  quit yer flirtin and do somthing about it already then...sheeeesh

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ORIGINAL: desertdancer

LA, come on now.  I just had yet another peek at your profile and your pics and you are so not fat.  Your not even fluffly.  Your curvy and I think you look great.



not that i am trying to call my friend fat, but i know LA in person and she is not lying...she is also not lying when she says she carries it well, heck even i have been tempted to swing a flogger at her butt...but its not that kind of friendship lol...

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Honey, here is a wad of cash, you go shopping and when you're done pick me up at the bar, I will be moheftigly drunk (and ahead of time, want you to know that nothing could make your ass look fat).....luv ya.

Ron  


you're such a sweetheart...i knew underneath that sarcastic bastard was a man with a wad of cash and a desire to see his woman happy...hehe



chelle


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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 9:47:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

THAT is why women take a long time to shop.......and men grow impatient.....goddammit, don't ask if your ass looks fat in this, that's the 19th time you asked me today!!!!!!

Now, this is easily solvable----

Honey, here is a wad of cash, you go shopping and when you're done pick me up at the bar, I will be moheftigly drunk (and ahead of time, want you to know that nothing could make your ass look fat).....luv ya.

Ron  


LOL nice Ron.  I'd be more tempted to go to the bar with you than shopping personally, but I'd take the wad of cash, thanks!

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 9:50:48 AM   
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fat and big boned are to entirely different things. I am unfortunately both at the moment, but hopefully I will be able to go back to being athletic - working on losing 100 lbs this year.

Big boned though, that will never change and I don;t really want it to - I like having broad shoulders. I want to look like Geena David when I grow up ;).

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 9:57:20 AM   
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Think of how Geena Davis' heart must have leapt for a brief instant.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 10:03:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

THAT is why women take a long time to shop.......and men grow impatient.....goddammit, don't ask if your ass looks fat in this, that's the 19th time you asked me today!!!!!!

Now, this is easily solvable----

Honey, here is a wad of cash, you go shopping and when you're done pick me up at the bar, I will be moheftigly drunk (and ahead of time, want you to know that nothing could make your ass look fat).....luv ya.

Ron  


Thats how me and P manage the christmas shopping......

BTW, I just KNEW someone was going to eventually post the lyrics to that song....love it!

I dont have big bones, my wrists are tiny (although Ive always cried because I dont have the trim ankles that are supposedly one of those major turn ons to guys...shrugs)....but Im definantly overweight...Im a size 10, but my upperarms, thighs, and belly have never recovered from the last two pregnancies.....unfortunantly I dont have all those nice curves that hide the fact thats its really just...well...fat....

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 10:49:32 AM   
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It means if you're 5 foot tall you shouldn't weigh say 300 pounds, because for your height 300 is considered morbidly obese by medical standards. So any one who's 5 foot should weigh what's medically apropriate for them or pretty close. Me I'm supposed to be 130  to 140, it's what weight charts all say. However I am a few pounds from 300, so I am not hwp.

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ORIGINAL: grlneedstolearn

Also, what does it mean when people in their profiles say they want a heigh/weight proportante submissive/slave?
  Thank you


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