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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 4:09:34 PM   
juliaoceania


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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 4:10:44 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		This thread is starting to degenerate into the typical self hating women thing, like the fat threads do. Let's give it a rest people.

Big boned, small boned, big cock, small cock, blonde, brunette, redhead, bald, tall, short, fat, thin, huge breasts, flat chested, wtf.

If someone does not care for your body type, who gives a damn? I know I don't. I get my share of attention, someone else get's their share of attention, and the world still spins on it's axis.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 4:15:44 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		all that matters to me is that I am happy with me and my Daddy is happy with me. I feel good about my body. I would be happier in my own skin if  I lost a few lbs because I would be more flexible. I am into building myself up with being fit and I exercise a couple of hours a day because it empowers me. I would not be so into being fit if I "hated" my body... I love me thoroughly, and taking care of me is all about the self love.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 4:18:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		juliaoceania, that is good that you feel that way, everyone should, but when I read threads like this I hear the same litany of "oh I need to lose 5 more pounds and then I will be perfect" or just the OP asking if big boned is fat or not; it just cries out for validation when the validation of your looks should come from within.

I know, easier said than done for most people. And of course, getting in shape to be healthy and empowered, is a sign of self love, you are right on about that.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 4:20:01 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		When when when are we going to stop analyzing and agonizing over what women look like, how much they weigh, how much they look like they weigh, or don't weigh, how much they wish they weighed, what size they wear, what size they used to wear and on and on and on. 

People all over the world are just built differently, from teeny tiny little women of Asian or southern European descent, to tall, large-framed (not boned) of African and Northern European descent.  Some people have high metabolisms and just don't have a large amount of body fat no matte how much they eat, and others have a lot of body fat, even though they diet constantly.  It's just the way it is. I really wish we could move on.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 4:21:08 PM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

juliaoceania, that is good that you feel that way, everyone should, but when I read threads like this I hear the same litany of "oh I need to lose 5 more pounds and then I will be perfect" or just the OP asking if big boned is fat or not; it just cries out for validation when the validation of your looks should come from within.

I know, easier said than done for most people. And of course, getting in shape to be healthy and empowered, is a sign of self love, you are right on about that.


I love being validated by my Daddy


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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 4:29:13 PM   
jadedserendipity


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Status: offline 		I dunno, I am sure I could stand to lose a few pounds and by some I have been referred to as BBW, and big boned. I do have a large bone structure and even at my smallest I have not been smaller than a size ten. I have big hips, a big butt, I have large breasts, broad shoulders, I too am unable to wear a womans bracelet or watch. You can feel my hips and my ribs on occasion standing and laying down which I have found odd but whatever. I have extra padding and cushion but it helps when we hit the bumps ya know.......lol........ All in all, I am happy with myself though........

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 5:23:28 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Phin

this thread has gotten me on alot of "Who's Viewing me?" lists...

LA, you are nowhere near fat...
Chelle, I stand by my earlier comment, now I just got to get to San Antonio...
eyesopened, where would you get that 25 to loose? and BTW you look even sexier on that motorcycle...
Sabella, I agree with Archer here
Bloodrose88, no squish, just damn...
missturbation, you aint fat, you are hot
Ghita, you are a cutie, I see no fat
adoracat, you are a hottie yourself
muttling, Ron, no offence but you guys are just ugly...

*Disclaimer* if I didnt mention you here that doesnt mean that you are not hot too, I just have to go to work and 30 minutes...


You have become very popular from this thread...

haha seriously.
Thats going to be my new sig line...if Cali can have "built for long term riding comfort" I want "no squish, just damn...."

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 5:51:04 PM   
agoodgirl4Daddy


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Status: offline 		it'd be nice if the people who complain about "oh no...another fat girl thread" just boycotted the thread and didn't post.

there will always be fat bashers and women who are worried that their bellies aren't super flat....what-the-feck-ever..... 

this is my one and only post on a fat girl thread... mark my word....

*steps off her soap box and jiggles her fat ass off the thread....*

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 5:56:48 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		Miss you are so not fat.  Any idea how UK sizes translate into US ones?

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 5:59:54 PM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

all that matters to me is that I am happy with me and my Daddy is happy with me. I feel good about my body. I would be happier in my own skin if  I lost a few lbs because I would be more flexible. I am into building myself up with being fit and I exercise a couple of hours a day because it empowers me. I would not be so into being fit if I "hated" my body... I love me thoroughly, and taking care of me is all about the self love.


From your pics I can't honestly see what pounds you would lose.  I definitely could tone up quite a bit, but losing more weight means no clothes that fit unless I tailor them.  At 5'8" with absurdly long legs I'm wearing a size 10 even though I should be wearing an 8.  Don't you have that problem at 5'10" also? 

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:01:34 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		According to the conversion site i just went on a UK 14 is a US 12.
And believe me i have wobbly bits lol.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:02:05 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Yup, my mom always says how she's loosing weight based only on clothing size, and clothing size is NOT a good indicator of loss of weight or not based on what you just said. because somedays a 4 x is to big and other days it's a bit snug.

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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty

.  As far as 'sizes' go, manufactures now use 'vanity' sizing, in otherwords, they cut clothes a bit bigger and put a smaller size in them.  A woman who use to wear a 10 can now wear an 8 or a 7 depending on the designer.
 

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:04:30 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		I've not really noticed this except for in one shop. Im a standard UK 14 wherever i go except for Evans which is an outsize shop that starts at a size 14. Everything in there is just way too big for me in a size 14.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:14:22 PM   
Muttling


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Status: offline 		Not to change the subject, but should I lower my head for being big bonered?

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:15:58 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		You have a boner?
Right now?
If so, pray tell why?

Edited to add that was so nearly funny muttling

< Message edited by missturbation -- 12/4/2007 6:16:52 PM >

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:21:44 PM   
Muttling


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quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

You have a boner?
Right now?
If so, pray tell why?

Edited to add that was so nearly funny muttling



I guess I'll just have to hang my head in shame each time I see Your lovely avatar.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:25:26 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		And now im going to stalk you and make you look at it as often as possible !!
Oh hang on, there is shame involved in getting a boner over my avatar?
 
 

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:26:56 PM   
Muttling


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Status: offline 		I asked if I should be ashamed and I haven't been given permission to do so.   It is only reasonable to assume that shame is appropriate.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:33:47 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		You don't need my permission to get a boner for my pic hun. Maybe Sirs, hmm pretty sure He wouldn't object lol.
Feel free to bone away

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