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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:35:35 PM   
Muttling


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Status: offline 		Am I then to understand that you accept me as a big bonered man?

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:37:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Bonered, yes. Big! Ill have to take your word for that

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:45:24 PM   
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You are too smart my mischevious bit of humor.   I was hoping for a really quote for my signature line.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 6:52:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: desertdancer
LA, come on now.  I just had yet another peek at your profile and your pics and you are so not fat.  Your not even fluffly.  Your curvy and I think you look great.

I appreciate it, but that picture probably was 2 years ago and about 20 pounds lighter.  I've been hovering at 200 for over a year at this point.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 7:01:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am a shortie 5'1 and weight more than I should but I am kinda lucky that my weight is distributed fairly evenly but I know that even at 55kgs (which I was a looong time ago and sorry dont know the conversion) I was still curvy. I am currently an aussie size 14 (sometimes a twelve sometimes a sixteen depending on the clothing.)   and mostly I am happy with myself I would just like to be a bit more toned in the tummy (ahh mummy tummy ) and lose the cellulite. But Sir loves me as I am and makes me feel sexy and gorgeous so hell I think I will just listen to him

Edited to add I think most of my bones are quite small except my hips hehe


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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 7:04:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

juliaoceania, that is good that you feel that way, everyone should, but when I read threads like this I hear the same litany of "oh I need to lose 5 more pounds and then I will be perfect" or just the OP asking if big boned is fat or not; it just cries out for validation when the validation of your looks should come from within.

I know, easier said than done for most people. And of course, getting in shape to be healthy and empowered, is a sign of self love, you are right on about that.


i've been guilty of that many a time.  i like me, i liked me when i was heavier too.  i dont have a butt, which is funny to me, we joke about the "void of space where an ass should be"   and it gets umcomfortable to sit because there isnt padding back there.

Daddy thinks i'm beautiful...which i cant see because the damned tapes in my head from growing being called ugly and fat...when i was maybe 10 pounds overweight growing up.  i had a lovely generous curved figure then, but i was going to school with a BUNCH of size 4's.  (small school, overseas)  so yes, in comparison i seemed fat.  size 12 on the bottom and 14 on the top isnt fat.

Daddy and i do the go-round every once in a while...i say i'm not beautiful he says "Daddy is always right" which i'll agree with (in theory at least) and he says "good, *I* say you're beautiful, so you are!"  bleh. 

kitten, who says "i'm just me" and others think i'm pretty darn acceptable.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 7:06:53 PM   
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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 7:09:39 PM   
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I've just been looking at your norks

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 7:51:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

i have a large bone structure...it can be told most obviously on places like my wrists and ankles where there is no muscle or fat to hide the bone structure


That is what I think when someone says big boned, that their bones are bigger and wrists are an excellent place to see that.  I am about average; Alandra on the other hand has a much bigger wrist than I do, so she has a large bone structure.

Like Lucky, I carry my weight really well.  People are generally shocked when I tell them how much I weigh.  I also weigh about the same amount now as I did at the beginning of the year, but I have lost a lot of inches in the past year and I have gone down a dress size or two.  I am replacing fat with muscle.

Guaging people by weight alone is rather meaningless to me.  Whether someone is healthy or not is more important to me.

Knight's Kyra

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People are generally shocked when I tell them how much I weigh.


I'm in the same boat as you, kyra. I'm heavier, but I've got a 5'11" frame that can support it. I've also been all over the weight chart, from a scrawny, sick looking 110 to a plush 260. While I'm not comfortable at either end of the spectrum, I'm taking my time paring away the excess that I don't want on my body.
It's simpler for me to ignore the Dominants that are looking for the height/weight proportionate horsepuckey...

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 8:23:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Muttling

Not to change the subject, but should I lower my head for being big bonered?


No, I was hoping you were going to change the subject, but no such luck. It would be far more interesting to hear about big bonered men than big boned women.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 8:26:58 PM   
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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 8:32:46 PM   
LadyChef


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Status: offline 		I always hope society would just call us Women as opposed to giving us sizes- like Supersized, medium and small. What are we - sides of french fries?
 
BTW- yes, I am thick, curvy, busty, voluptuous ( the new word for fat) bootyliscous- round all over. Very PHAT!
P- pretty
H- hot
A- and
T- tempting

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 8:49:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ok.. so men are suppose to be 'big bonered' and ladies how ever the he** we wanna be as long as we are healthy and happy.  Is that what the concensus is?!

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 8:54:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: laurell3

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

all that matters to me is that I am happy with me and my Daddy is happy with me. I feel good about my body. I would be happier in my own skin if  I lost a few lbs because I would be more flexible. I am into building myself up with being fit and I exercise a couple of hours a day because it empowers me. I would not be so into being fit if I "hated" my body... I love me thoroughly, and taking care of me is all about the self love.


From your pics I can't honestly see what pounds you would lose.  I definitely could tone up quite a bit, but losing more weight means no clothes that fit unless I tailor them.  At 5'8" with absurdly long legs I'm wearing a size 10 even though I should be wearing an 8.  Don't you have that problem at 5'10" also? 

I have both long legs and a long torso, I often have trouble finding pants that are long enough... but it is possible for me to. I notice that the size 8s I own are not as long as the size 10s


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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 8:59:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: grlneedstolearn

There have been quite a few threads on what masters look for in a bigger female sub, what's a deal breaker with a bigger female, or even clothing for them. But what really constitutes as big bone? Is a size 14-18 big boned? Is it size 12-16?  i'm just a little confused on what it constitutes.
Also, what does it mean when people in their profiles say they want a heigh/weight proportante submissive/slave?
   Thank you


Women's sizing is confusing, even after 21 years of dealing with it.  Many girls I know are (taking into consideration height and weight) 'fatter' than I am, yet wear a smaller size.  I have almost always worn a 12 or 14.  Many people are astonished when I tell them that because they think of 14 as being a 'fat size.'  I'm atheletic.  Since I dress in a way that flatters me, I look much thinner and do not come off as 'fat.'  If there was one piece of fashion advice I could give to the girls I see walking around, it would be buy a size up.  Women obsess over what size their pants are even though NO ONE knows but them.  So they buy a size that's uncomfortable or too small when one just a little higher would have flattered them so much more.

I don't think you can nail a size down to what constitutes a BBW.  I've often wondered if I'm a BBW.  I'm not skinny.  I'm a little bigger than normal, yet I always felt like it would be false advertisement to call myself a BBW.

A dealbreaker for me would someone who was unhealthy and unwilling to take care of themselves.  That doesn't necessarily mean size 5 with rippling muscles.  I got a kick out of the fact that I could outrun every girl on my soccer team, even though I was the heaviest of them all.  Although I was the heaviest girl on my college volleyball team, I still outran and out played many girls who 'looked' like they were in better shape because they were skinny and tanned.

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 9:05:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty

Ok.. so men are suppose to be 'big bonered' and ladies how ever the he** we wanna be as long as we are healthy and happy. Is that what the concensus is?!


Actually, men are expected to be big boned in general (not just bonered). It is much harder to be taken seriously as a dominant male without a large frame of some sort. How many submissive/slave women want a man that's 5'5" and 100 pounds?

Though there is an advantage not being tall. It gets so much more interesting (to me) when she is significantly taller than I am.


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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 9:17:14 PM   
Muttling


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Status: offline 		That raises a VERY interesing question......





How would women react if I said my boner was hieght to weight proportional?

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 9:17:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		ooooo dont even get me started on clothing.. I am big boned.. I cant wear most womens braclets. I have wide shoulders and big breast, a small waist and nice rounded bootie.. so to get things to fit my shoulders and chest.. they are always too big in the waist and most of the time in the hips and ass. buy a 2 piece suit..lol yeah right

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 10:02:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Muttling

That raises a VERY interesing question......





How would women react if I said my boner was hieght to weight proportional?


LOL Muttling you are a freak and I mean that in a very nice way

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RE: Big boned women - 12/4/2007 11:22:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

You have become very popular from this thread...
If I have, its only from telling the truth...
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ORIGINAL: Bloodrose88

haha seriously.
Thats going to be my new sig line...if Cali can have "built for long term riding comfort" I want "no squish, just damn...."

be my guest... now if we can get you to grow the hair out

Muttling, I will be hangin my head in shame too...

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I am getting all kinds of oddball hits, but I always do! Must be the norks! <G>
and great norks they are

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

No, I was hoping you were going to change the subject, but no such luck. It would be far more interesting to hear about big bonered men than big boned women.
Did someone call my name??

junecleaver, everyone has their own definition of BBW, dont worry about lables (except maybe hot, cuz you do fit that one...)




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