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Dnomyar -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 11:20:36 AM)
ghita you have big ankles so I cant tie them together but your wrist will do .

adoracat -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 11:44:29 AM)
i have delicate bone structure. dainty wrists and ankles, and a good bit of meat wrapped around those dainty bones. laughs i weigh more than i should. i weigh nearly 50 pounds less than i did a little over 2 years ago...and still losing weight, although tis slowed down. i'm in a loose 16 down from a 24 jeans. not bad for a short gal (i'm 5'2" if i stretch). wolf and Daddy love me just as i am. if i didnt have health issues that are non-weight related, i'd be doing quite well at the moment. as it stands, i'm not. but then again neurological/immune system problems are not related to weight. i like myself. i dont like some bits and pieces...i'd like less belly and more butt please! but my bustline isnt bad. [:D] kitten, who is still in trouble with Daddy for not taking adequate care of his property, so am off to rest like i was told.

Muttling -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 11:55:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OmegaG Marilyn's size 14 in 1960 was a size 9 in the 1980s and is a size 5-7 now. Not quite accurate. Snopes.com is your friend and even gives you her dimensions which are substantially larger than a 5-7. They put her at a current day size 12 by American standards. http://www.snopes.com/movies/actors/mmdress.asp

Phin -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 12:11:27 PM)
this thread has gotten me on alot of "Who's Viewing me?" lists... LA, you are nowhere near fat... Chelle, I stand by my earlier comment, now I just got to get to San Antonio... eyesopened, where would you get that 25 to loose? and BTW you look even sexier on that motorcycle... Sabella, I agree with Archer here Bloodrose88, no squish, just damn... missturbation, you aint fat, you are hot Ghita, you are a cutie, I see no fat adoracat, you are a hottie yourself muttling, Ron, no offence but you guys are just ugly... [:D] Disclaimer if I didnt mention you here that doesnt mean that you are not hot too, I just have to go to work and 30 minutes...

PsyVamp -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 12:27:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Muttling quote: ORIGINAL: OmegaG Marilyn's size 14 in 1960 was a size 9 in the 1980s and is a size 5-7 now. Not quite accurate. Snopes.com is your friend and even gives you her dimensions which are substantially larger than a 5-7. They put her at a current day size 12 by American standards. http://www.snopes.com/movies/actors/mmdress.asp claps Thank you very much for giving us a more concrete picture that we can use for our visuals and comparisons. LJ

Kumasan2 -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 12:41:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CutieMouse quote: ORIGINAL: Kumasan2 It is said that Marilyn Monroe wore a size 14 dress. And that would be most lovely with me to see my slave in such an outfit. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. (Personal pet peeve) People always say this, without realizing that the sizes within the clothing industry are not only not standardized, but that a 1950s size 14 is not a modern size 14. I currently wear a size 10 in modern clothing; however, in 1950s clothing, my size is an 18/20 - which equates to a 30-31" waist in both instances. (A vintage size 14 is roughly a 25-26" waist, whereas a modern size 14 is closer to a 32-34" waist.) I stand corrected. I know that there are variances in women's clothing sizes but I've never researched them or run into a situation where I had to know such things. I've always been told "Just give me money and I'll do the buying" which works out well for me since being 1) color-deficient and 2) a male means I'm permanently at two strikes in the women's fashion department. Blue jeans and button-down shirts don't require much fashion ability on my end.* I've learned to say from my earliest relationships, "It looks fine to me and I'd love you just as much if you weren't wearing anything!" For the record, I do have friends (mostly female) who understand my deficiencies and will accompany me on shopping trips where I have to buy some new "Going to church/date/wedding/funeral" clothes.*

rubberpet -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 1:02:31 PM)
I don't care how it's described, whether it's big boned, plus sized, pudgy, chubby, curvy, thick, or squishy. I do know that you don't have to be thin to be beautiful. Ladies, just embrace your size. Who cares if you have a little extra padding. Mistress is larger than me and while She would prefer to be a little smaller, She is the most beautiful woman in the world to me. I absolutely LOVE the way She looks...I love the extra padding She has. She is beautiful to me. The only way I'd ever want Her to lose weight would be for Her health. As for Her appearance, I tell Her She needs another cookie! [:D] In other words, ladies, big is beautiful!

VegasDom76 -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 1:08:25 PM)
Personally i do not see big boned as being the same as a BBW. For me big boned is more a term i would use for a woman who looks thin but is of a larger stature than the average woman. A BBW is a woman who would simply be overweight. I understand you need to quantify things like "thin", what is thin, how do you determine what is thin, bla bla bla .... Personally i prefer BBW women, I love curves, I love having stuff to play with :)

OmegaG -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 2:05:41 PM)
This is one time that I don't believe Snopes, my mother was the same size as Marilyn and she thought I could wear her size 16 wedding dress in the 80s, I couldn't then but later when I was a size 9 it fit. Last year my 16 year old size 3 neice tried on my size 9 clothes and they were barely big on her. Marilyn was too curvy to wear Jr clothes, but she would be in small women's clothing. quote: ORIGINAL: Muttling quote: ORIGINAL: OmegaG Marilyn's size 14 in 1960 was a size 9 in the 1980s and is a size 5-7 now. Not quite accurate. Snopes.com is your friend and even gives you her dimensions which are substantially larger than a 5-7. They put her at a current day size 12 by American standards. http://www.snopes.com/movies/actors/mmdress.asp

slaverosebeauty -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 2:14:46 PM)
Does it really matter if someone is 'big boned' or 'small boned?' Isn't if they are healthy what matters in the long run?! Consequently, I have a small frame; I'm also 5'10 and am about 134. I can be at 145 or 150, and few people would notice, I would, so it's not gonna happen unless I am expecting a little one, I don't feel healthy when I get that much weight on me. As far as 'sizes' go, manufactures now use 'vanity' sizing, in otherwords, they cut clothes a bit bigger and put a smaller size in them. A woman who use to wear a 10 can now wear an 8 or a 7 depending on the designer. I LOATHE shopping, so I try to keep my weight about the same, so if I HAVE to shop, I have an idea already of what size to try on, an I already know what i am looking for; I can get in and out of a store in less than 15 or 20 minutes, including trying things on; while other ladies would spend over an hour. It's about the fit, not the size that I go by; I use the model trick and I cut the [size] tags out of my clothing after I buy things.

CalifChick -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 2:18:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Muttling Real men need a slave who's built for long term riding comfort. I think I just found a new sig line... Cali Built for long term riding comfort.

subrdn8 -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 2:56:40 PM)
Big boned is what people used to call larger women before there was BBW. As a rule of thumb, 'average' dress size for a woman today is the inch part of your height (5'3" for example) plus 3. So, size 6. If you're 5'11", that would be size 14, etc. This is one of the reasons why I laugh a little when men say they're looking for someone 'size 8 or smaller', because they're after an ideal which simply wouldn't work for a taller woman.

slaverosebeauty -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 3:04:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subrdn8 As a rule of thumb, 'average' dress size for a woman today is the inch part of your height (5'3" for example) plus 3. So, size 6. If you're 5'11", that would be size 14, etc. This is one of the reasons why I laugh a little when men say they're looking for someone 'size 8 or smaller', because they're after an ideal which simply wouldn't work for a taller woman. I wear a size 4 most of the time; I am considered 'small.' You CAN be tall, be thin AND be healthy. Are you saying I'm too thin?? Who came up with that forumla to add 3?! I'm 5'10 barefoot, 5'11 if I do all the streatching I am suppose to be doing. You CAN be tall AND be thin. Don't make statements that have no merit. I have found no complaints with my size or shape from men, tyvm. Most love that I am tall AND thin and STILL very healthy. One of the men I have had a few dates with is a doctor and he agreed that I can carry about 10 or 15 more and still be considered healthy, but, right now, I am still healthy and none of the medical professionals I have seen over the years have had any complaints.

adoracat -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 3:09:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Phin this thread has gotten me on alot of "Who's Viewing me?" lists... LA, you are nowhere near fat... Chelle, I stand by my earlier comment, now I just got to get to San Antonio... eyesopened, where would you get that 25 to loose? and BTW you look even sexier on that motorcycle... Sabella, I agree with Archer here Bloodrose88, no squish, just damn... missturbation, you aint fat, you are hot Ghita, you are a cutie, I see no fat adoracat, you are a hottie yourself muttling, Ron, no offence but you guys are just ugly... [:D] Disclaimer if I didnt mention you here that doesnt mean that you are not hot too, I just have to go to work and 30 minutes... laughs i always hit the "who's viewing me" button before i check the forums, and i thought to myself "mm-hmm, i got a couple of hits via the big boned women thread". thank you for the compliment! kitten, smiling

sexyred1 -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 3:10:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Phin this thread has gotten me on alot of "Who's Viewing me?" lists... LA, you are nowhere near fat... Chelle, I stand by my earlier comment, now I just got to get to San Antonio... eyesopened, where would you get that 25 to loose? and BTW you look even sexier on that motorcycle... Sabella, I agree with Archer here Bloodrose88, no squish, just damn... missturbation, you aint fat, you are hot Ghita, you are a cutie, I see no fat adoracat, you are a hottie yourself muttling, Ron, no offence but you guys are just ugly... [:D] Disclaimer if I didnt mention you here that doesnt mean that you are not hot too, I just have to go to work and 30 minutes... You have become very popular from this thread...[;)]

PsyVamp -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 3:27:13 PM)
I love that math, in that case, I'm almost perfect! LOL

juliaoceania -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 3:38:55 PM)
I feel I am still too fat because I actually have small bones for my height. I am a size 10 and 5 foot 10. Most would not consider me to be overweight, but I know that if I lost 10 to 15 lbs I would be where I am supposed to be. I am extremely fit and look ok so I do not worry about it, but I know I should weigh less than I do because I have small bones...

PsyVamp -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 3:57:45 PM)
My problem with losing weight is that it happens in my face first, where I cannot afford to lose any! I go for toning with my knock off bowflex and my elliptical instead. -LJ

Sweet1Maybe4U -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 4:05:01 PM)
Im 5'11 and mumbles...weigh much* more than the dietitian at work says I should weigh. She says 135 at my heaviest. My Doctor says what?!..Is she crazy?! So, who do you believe? My blood work says Im great! My SweetUm thinks Im beautiful and after all those years of just struggling to accept myself when all of Hollywood says I shouldnt Im FINALLY happy with me as a person. That's right ~ a person! I find sooo many women pretty for more things than just their size. Their sense of humor, pretty eye color, a bright smile, quick wit, work ethics...The girls I work with are consumed with what "they" say is beautiful, whoever THEY is..I stopped reading the glam magazines about what "pretty is" and began to just look at people for who they are. I find myself much more content in my abilites and my own prettiness since I left behind Hollywood's ideas of beauty. Ya know, they are just wanting to sell more products and if they can make every woman believe she is ugly without thier products or insight then they OWN you. Money talks. If they get you to feel badly about yourself just enough then you'll buy what they want to sell. I work with a girl who is much smaller and shorter than I am. It really drives her crazy that she wears a size 10 ring and I wear a size 7 ring. Why would it matter?!! So, she's dieting because of that! fat fingers..who would have thought that out of ALL [8\|] my wonderful qualities my long slender fingers would be her envy...LOL...*decides to polish her nails now just to be bratty...

missturbation -> RE: Big boned women (12/4/2007 4:07:43 PM)
I've been pondering this thread since i read it earlier this afternoon. As i said when i posted i used to hide the fact from myself that i was fat (size 16/18 Uk) by saying i was big boned. I have a friend who also does the same thing. She is a size 24 Uk and has all sorts of issues because of her weight including back problems, breathing problems etc etc. When she goes to the docs he tries to encourage her to lose weight for her health and she just comes away saying, he is wrong and its not her fault shes big boned. So my questions would be where do you cross the line of being big boned into being fat? Do terms like big boned not do more harm than good when we can hide behind them from a possible real obesity problem?

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