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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 11:13:30 AM   
chickpea


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Status: offline 		Okay, this will be two parts...

(1) High Road in general .  Yeah, I admit that I take the high road on collar me becuase talk is cheap and it's easier to talk than do.  lol   So I take the high road on here and say right stuff...hopefully i do it.  But yeah, I do try to walk my talk and talk my walk   that's how i choose to live my life.  I just say what I think and do, hopefully its good stuff and I guess keep that stuff in my head....first the mind, then the body right?    lol

(2) High Road in response to a post....well, i guess it depends on your mood and how much extra effort it will take to respond and deal with all the flames back etc etc, do you want to sink to their standards... you know sometimes it is fun and sometimes it's just a pain.    that so maybe you got really angry but then decide not to get sucked in... well then you didn't let them get the best of you at that time. That's just well...if you want to think you're better go ahead. But, I don't think that'll make you better than the other person necessarily based on a post and if/how you respond.  Sounds to me s/he got to you (affected you emotionally) and you are using the high road topic to hopefully make that person feel small.  Shoulda let it roll off your shoulders..     (race,sex, age that's a whole nother topic and there's more popular groups to belong in than others...which may or may not be necessarily unfair and should, i mean just look at all the crap/non-crap Hillary Clinton is facing as a woman runing for office..maybe the woman thing counts who knows, as far as qualifications I think that she's as qualified as others.  but if you focus on what you can do rather than what you can't then you'll beable to come out on top in the long run against your own personal goals and personal demons.)

But like I said in (1) talk is cheap, so as far as making individual judgement calls on the person as a whole...based on he/she did this/that on a post on a kinky website... wellllll....that's just ridiculous.  basically  jmho



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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 12:07:15 PM   
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It's just a board with varying opinions, some built on better foundations than others, and that's about it.


Amen...


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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 12:55:58 PM   
SeeksOnlyOne


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Status: offline 		after actually reading all 8 pages of this i have come to the following conclusion....

announcing you take the high road is the same as announcing the following...

i am a lady

i am a gentleman

i am a christian

i am a good person

.......if you have to announce it, well, it probably aint so....

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 1:09:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MzMia

As we approach the New Year, are you going to attempt to take the High Road in Life,
and particularly on Collar Me?


It's something I try to do as a general rule of thumb. When I fail, I tend to use the block button to compensate for my short comings. I have a lot of short comings. ;)

quote:

If so, how?


I approach it much the same way I do charity works. It's best when anonymous and done in silence. In other words, if you're taking the high road, you're the one who knows it and that's enough.

Celeste
 
edited to try to fix the tiny font!


 

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 1:55:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ

Yeah I like to pave my own freeway :)

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 2:10:08 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		~~FR~~~ I see one of the multi diversified BUNCH of one posters nicks perved me at 3:42, but as of yet I have no answer on here, on what justication there possibly is when a user espousing the qualities of taking the high road, and condescendingly accusing others of not taking the road as much as them, has not chosen to ask my question about using other nicks of theirs to give creedence to another of their nicks by answering said nick as another person (not quite honest at first glance). I am waiting to see if they deign to explain that.  I am pleasantly suprised only one of multiple nicks was used for this, might make it easier to explain.

What can I say, enquiring minds would LOVE to know!!!!!

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 2:17:35 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		Do you know for sure that this is the case?

I have seen others do this on this site in the past... or at least strongly suspected it, but I never brought it up because I have no proof of it, so I tend to keep suspicions about that sort of behavior to myself, smile and have a good chuckle about such shenanigans and walk away.

I was just wondering how you know for an absolute fact that both screen names belong to the same person... that is all.

< Message edited by juliaoceania -- 12/9/2007 2:18:25 PM >

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 2:21:44 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		Now i have to ask?????????
How can you 100% say that someone is posting under a different user name?

Edited to add :- i was once accused of this in one of my threads and it was incorrect assumption. So i guess i would take these kind of accusations with a pinch of salt.

< Message edited by missturbation -- 12/9/2007 2:24:38 PM >

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 2:29:10 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		I know those and others for a fact. Therefore, I am assuming there is an understandable reason because of the subject of the thread and am curious what that reason is, nothing more. 

< Message edited by kc692 -- 12/9/2007 2:30:29 PM >

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 2:32:37 PM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: missturbation

Now i have to ask?????????
How can you 100% say that someone is posting under a different user name?

Edited to add :- i was once accused of this in one of my threads and it was incorrect assumption. So i guess i would take these kind of accusations with a pinch of salt.


Uhhh, lets not go there, you admitted that somehow was a "new roommate" that used your same computer, but yet in other posts you lived alone, and miraculously started that account very very soon before the post, AND WAS STICKING UP FOR YOU WHEN YOU WERE BEING DOUBTED BUT SAID FRIEND, NOT ROOMMATES YADA YADA....let's not throw salt, not all of us
remember things with such rose colored glasses.

edited to add the caps so changes could be seen. 

< Message edited by kc692 -- 12/9/2007 2:34:18 PM >

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This is only MY opinion. If it's not yours, let's agree in advance to agree to disagree, OR, you can just get the fuck over what I had to say:)

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 2:32:47 PM   
missturbation


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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 2:35:35 PM   
missturbation


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Now i have to ask?????????
How can you 100% say that someone is posting under a different user name?

Edited to add :- i was once accused of this in one of my threads and it was incorrect assumption. So i guess i would take these kind of accusations with a pinch of salt.


Uhhh, lets not go there, you admitted that somehow was a "new roommate" that used your same computer, but yet in other posts you lived alone, and miraculously started that account very very soon before the post....let's not throw salt, not all of us remember things with such rose colored glasses.


Actually i have no qualms about going there. I never claimed to live alone and never claimed it was a 'new' room mate either.
I'm pointing out you were wrong then and as far as im concerned could be just as wrong now.
Unless you can back this stuff up as fact i would suggest you dont make such accusations.

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 2:36:15 PM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: missturbation

Can you back up you know it as fact?


SInce my question was to her, why don't we let her answer firstm instead of you getting all puffy....don't you have a pub to be busy with???? Good luck with that venture, I truly wish you the best with that.  Businesses are hard to get off the ground, I wish you all the luck in the world!!!!!!  Please keep us posted!

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This is only MY opinion. If it's not yours, let's agree in advance to agree to disagree, OR, you can just get the fuck over what I had to say:)

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 2:42:08 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		Yep you asked first and yes fine let her answer if she chooses to.
I however being on the recieving end of this before know its not nice to be accused of things you havent done nd felt it only fair that other people who read this should be aware you have been wrong before on this score before they start jumping to conclusions.
As of tomorrow i have a pub to run yep and will be absent for a couple of weeks definately. Thank you for your best wishes with it. As i said in another thread you are someone id love to meet so if you are ever over here pop by and we'll share a bottle of wine, vodka, whatever your pleasure is

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 2:42:31 PM   
kc692


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quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Now i have to ask?????????
How can you 100% say that someone is posting under a different user name?

Edited to add :- i was once accused of this in one of my threads and it was incorrect assumption. So i guess i would take these kind of accusations with a pinch of salt.


Uhhh, lets not go there, you admitted that somehow was a "new roommate" that used your same computer, but yet in other posts you lived alone, and miraculously started that account very very soon before the post....let's not throw salt, not all of us remember things with such rose colored glasses.


Actually i have no qualms about going there. I never claimed to live alone and never claimed it was a 'new' room mate either.
I'm pointing out you were wrong then and as far as im concerned could be just as wrong now.
Unless you can back this stuff up as fact i would suggest you dont make such accusations.


Not dragging up old history as you seem to be wanting to do....I WAS correct it was your computer, hm, and I will not waste my time giving creedence to your claims when in all your posts at the time you DID live alone.......and, I would think the fact that by virtue alone of your post claiming the person wasnt you, you have already admitted by such it was your computer etc......so.....I would say that gives creedence to my claims. I will also say in this case there IS no doubt, but, unless you are calling me a liar and would like to take it private we shall leave it there. I am not trying to start a fight or flame fest as you seem to be doing....I asked someone else a very honest question, and would like the answer from them......I do not want the thread pulled, as I would like to see the answer to my question from them.  It is not a flame, it is a question.  If you take issue with me or my words after I have answered your question, as I am asking them to, be a big girl and do it privately.....after all, this is a thread about taking the high road.  Email me if you wish, I will not respond to you on this thread about this thread anymore.

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 2:45:25 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		No i didnt say it was the same computer, i said it would be the same internet connection as everyone in the house shares the broadband.
I never claimed to live alone and several threads i started at the time could prove this considering they were about my untidy house mates doing my head in.
I dont want a flame war either but i wont sit back and watch you throw accusations at someone else like you did me.
Edited to add - i have absolutely nothing to hide so why would i take it private? My only comment was that the accusation was once made falsely against me which is the truth. You then felt the need to bring it all out.

< Message edited by missturbation -- 12/9/2007 2:48:18 PM >

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 3:26:00 PM   
MzMia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDoMe

Mz Mia, I attempt to take the high road online.
But it is hard to do, when you are dealing with so many people that
find it so easy to type insults while hiding behind their keyboards.
At this point, I take the middle of the road most of the time.

Good luck on trying to stay on your high road, Mz Mia.


Yanno, I guess I lied about taking the high road and coming back on this thread......however, when the OP answers themselves with another one of their usernames to give creedence to their own sense of self righteousness, while the thread being the subject of taking the high road, someone has to point out just how low that road in reality is.....

wonders what in the world could explain that occurrence, or if the remarks made will be totally negated.


Well, well, well, a new fan.
 
Ok let’s see KC 692,Weal Twue Mistress,GrandPooBah and The Grand Inquisitor of the Collar Me message boards.
Who died and left you in charge here? 
 
I don’t know you, or anything about you. 

For some odd reason, you have some weird fetish or maybe obsession with me.
 
I can understand the fascination, but can you continue to watch and worship me from afar?

Your life must be pretty dull, to worry about what a Black woman in Maryland is doing online.
 
For some reason, you feel you can put me on trial and also be judge and jury.
 
Well this is what I have to say to you:
 
I don’t know or care what or how many nicknames you might have online, since I don’t know you, I don’t care what you do.
 
Since, the highlight of your life tonight is questioning me, I will say this.
 
My name is Mz Mia, if you don’t feel that my answer gives credence to your claims, well too bad.
 
Happy Holidays!
 
 

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 3:27:47 PM   
MzMia


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ORIGINAL: missturbation

Can you back up you know it as fact?


Thanks missturbation for speaking up for me.
Tell KC on some nights I am DG and also Harry Potter.
 

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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 3:30:02 PM   
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RE: Do you try to take the High Road on Collar Me? - 12/9/2007 3:36:51 PM   
kc692


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Can you back up you know it as fact?


Thanks missturbation for speaking up for me.
Tell KC on some nights I am DG and also Harry Potter.
 


and also MistressDoMe and about 6 other nicks.  I(I apologize I lost count),  No you do not fascinate me, I just hate to see some that think they are in a lofty place espousing one thing and doing another.  Last I checked, in part, every one here is judge and jury in the fact that the knowledge we have helps form our opinions.  I see you twisted and answered that you didn't care how many nicks I had online, but CONVENIENTLY stopped short of answering my question.  Let me ask it again:
SNIPPET
when the OP answers themselves with another one of their usernames to give creedence to their own sense of self righteousness, while the thread being the subject of taking the high road, someone has to point out just how low that road in reality is.....

wonders what in the world could explain that occurrence, or if the remarks made will be totally negated.
END SNIPPET
 
So I ask you again the same question, this time devoid of diversions...I am glad you do not care how many nicks I have, I normally would give a rats ass about the number of yours.  The only reason I care at this point is it is germane to my question.

EDITED TO ADD: MY APOLOGIES TO MOD 11 I TRULY WAS ONLY ASKING A QUESTION., I WILL BACK OFF AS I DO NOT WANT TO VIOLATE TOS

< Message edited by kc692 -- 12/9/2007 3:37:59 PM >

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Anyone can overpower; not many can INSPIRE.....

This is only MY opinion. If it's not yours, let's agree in advance to agree to disagree, OR, you can just get the fuck over what I had to say:)

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