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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 12:17:50 AM   
LittleWench


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Status: offline 		Dear Lord why have you not blocked him?

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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 12:31:12 AM   
ClosetSinner


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Status: offline 		What's his username?  I can pretend to be a submissive for more than $1800!

Seriously though not to beat a dead horse, but if your gut said it was wrong IT WAS WRONG! Block him and get over it.  There are plenty of "sane" online Doms if that is the route you are choosing.  Although if they are named Frank, live in the Tampa area, are balding, fat, and missing teeth you may not want to talk to him.  I know for a fact he's a scam artist. (No, he didn't scam me just businesses and people on another alternative matching site).

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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 12:52:25 AM   
Owner4SexSlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ClosetSinner

What's his username?  I can pretend to be a submissive for more than $1800!

Seriously though not to beat a dead horse, but if your gut said it was wrong IT WAS WRONG! Block him and get over it.  There are plenty of "sane" online Doms if that is the route you are choosing.  Although if they are named Frank, live in the Tampa area, are balding, fat, and missing teeth you may not want to talk to him.  I know for a fact he's a scam artist. (No, he didn't scam me just businesses and people on another alternative matching site).


Gee... there is even a female in tampa that's doing basically the same thing...

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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 1:08:15 AM   
SailingBum


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

Just when I thought I was pretty open minded, I find myself being judgemental of somebody else's twisted activity they find enjoyment in.    Having a slave fuck barbwire literally... not sane in my mind.



I have seen similar to use your words insane things in real life.  The girl loved it.  One persons kink is anothers horror.  What he did to her, at her request was at a play party I attended.  Literally cut several <she had huge breasts> like 3" or 4"  diameter circles in her breast peal away the skin and leave it hanging there like a flap.  Where the flesh was cut away it was red with blood.  Similar to when you were a kid and skinned your knees.  I guess this was known in the community for this.

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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 1:11:15 AM   
SailingBum


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dedj

so i was released for the final time from Master Angelo because i was "disobedient".  Last night He had ordered me (via cam/online) to fuck my pussy & asshole with my barbwire...  this just hours after He decided i should be His slave and that He would educate me and i should trust His judgement about what i could or could not do..etc...   [side note--had known Him since October and He had previously released me twice for "disobedience"... the 1st time because i did not complete a task fast enough and was one that i had told Him before becoming His slave that i would have problems doing and it would take me some to learn it if He wanted me to but was willing to try.  the 2nd time... also for "disobedience" He asked me to do something that He also knew was a hard limit for me]  i went from happy & content to utter disbelief and emptiness as i was completely devoted and loyal.  i feel very foolish & stupid.  and He actually said to me this morning among other things...
already I had more patience with you that with any other slave and a slave does not consider ever the actual pain or the actual humiliation like a limit, its sole purpose is that of to make happy its Master.  you will never be a true slave, but alone a sub that seeks every so often some session bdsm..
 
i guess i am just very very upset because i was foolish enough to neglect myself & my business for the past 2 and half months while i was trying so hard to please Him and it has left me in a bad way and i simple do not see any hope any more.  i suppose i just want support more than opinions, but i'm sure i will get both...   just wanted to make sure that i was actually the sane one. 
 


You have to help me out here What was your motive for taking him back 3 TIMES?  If you ask me your both "out there".  I guess it bears repeating you should prolly stay away from this guy.

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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 3:59:29 AM   
Mastaziel


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Status: offline 		you were silly, you know you were silly, I'm glad your sanity eventually returned despite your brain having softened. lots of hugs for the pain, lost and loneliness you might be feeling. but I have to say that that guy is a total F**KING $#!7 eating bi7ch whom I would gladly piss on if he was on fire, but only so I could watch him suffer in agony. Mmmm, not a very constructive post I know, but hay...I feel better.
hope you take care of your self, hugs.

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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 12:12:31 PM   
tdslittlehelper


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Status: offline 		the scary thing is that when people like this are allowed to do things like this online they believe that the "power" they have is real power and then they go out and find people and put them in barrels... 

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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 12:15:42 PM   
OldBastardly1


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Status: offline 		I am amazed at the guys that disguise themselves behind a female profile. Or the ones that go after cheating women, then blackmail them with threats of outing them. Or even the ones that threaten to call DFCS ( child welfare agency ).

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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 12:18:30 PM   
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Okay... so I didn't read the last page and my comments will probably get me 'virtually' shot on here but ... hey, that's what this thread seems to be about.

So,... here we have a 'submissive' woman describing a situation that we all know nothing about.  Well, that's not quite true, as we do have her side of things, and only her side of things.  She is making some pretty wild accusations and yet no one is interested in how true, or not true, these allegations are.  We do not have his side of things.  We do not have an impartial side of things.  We have a 'submissive' woman who is online to seek our advice.

Ahhh, and the advice.  I have never heard anything so asinine in my life.  Who for a moment would think it was 'Okay' to insert non-sterilized, jagged, metal into areas that could cause permanent harm or death?  Ohhh, wait, I know .... the OP would.  After all, she is here to try and determine if she is 'sane' for saying no - omg, who the hell would say yes?

The money!  So it came out that he sent her money.  Why did he send her money?  Chances are he didn't send her money 'just cause'.  Most people send money with the idea of getting something in return.  What did she promise in return?  What did he expect in return?

This entire threat smacks of self indulgent bullshit.  I'm sorry if some guy on the internet hurt your feelings but both he and the relationship weren't even real.  He was an amalgamation of your fantasies and his own 'online' persona.  The relationship was all in your head.

There is another thread on this very board about a transgender UK woman being detained in the US, stripped, denied her medication, and housed in a 'male' detention center.  I'm sorry, but your online fantasy life that led to a few hurt feelings just doesn't rate in comparison to such a huge breach of human rights.

Wickad

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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 12:57:51 PM   
Peridot


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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 1:06:39 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Hon, get out from behind the computer and out into your local community. You'll learn a lot and have a decent chance at having fulfilling encounters and possibly a real relationship.

Master Fire



I'll strongly second this advice.

In fact, it's good advice for all of us!

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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 2:36:26 PM   
petpete


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Status: offline 		Dedj!! Online can be any mug that You will make up as an imaginative character. For gewds sake don't mess up your life for a mug who could be playing games with you on the other side of the world. Internet is only an introductory service. While it can develop to real life if the people make the effort to meet.

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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 2:51:22 PM   
CalifChick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ClosetSinner

What's his username?  I can pretend to be a submissive for more than $1800!



No kidding, huh.  I can pretend to be a lot of things for that kind of chump change.  If any UberDoms are reading that want an ubersub to pretend to do things for them, I have paypal... REAL paypal. 

Cali


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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 2:54:30 PM   
Prinsexx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dedj


you will never be a true slave, but alone a sub that seeks every so often some session bdsm..

 

ok ok no judgement here as i have been there a short while ago feeling how i had failed to the point of serious self neglect so no judgments...BUT in the things he said which so burned into you that you quote above.....can you see the manipulation, the generalisation, the twist of logic, the assumptive close as salesmen term it? can you see the error in what he said/ PLEASE see the error....
he said......you will never be a true slave...what he should have said was you will never be a true slave for me.....and guess what who cares...as his loss is another Master's gain...yes!
It was control, and power over and threat and yes it's possible to make another scar themselves with barbed wire, eat shit and throw themselves gagged and bound into deep iced rivers BUT it's also possible to dom someone as service to THEIR needs.....
and best of all to get both persons' needs met.....



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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 2:55:38 PM   
Dmsc1248


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Status: offline 		It's a good thing you did not meet this asshole in person.  Who knows what he would have had you do.  Fucking yourself with barbedwire is not only unhealthy but very dangerous.  Focus on your business and life in general and remember good things happen to those that wait.

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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 4:48:03 PM   
Heartisan


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Status: offline 		I'm sort of wondering why no one has mentioned that when he *released* you for refusing to do something that was on your hard limit list should have been a huge clue.  You HAVE a hard limit list for a reason, and any so-called Dominant that doesn't respect that, doesnt' deserve your dedication and respect.  Trust has to be established, and that takes more time in rl let alone online.  AFTER and only AFTER trust is established solidly should discussion and renegotiation about limits should take place... IMOHO.

You need to respect and value yourself, and take care of yourself.  Your submission is a gift that you need to make sure is a healthy and happy gift to give in the first place, and that a potential Dom is worthy of that gift in the first place before you offer it and tell him you are his.

I don't care how much money he sent, it wasn't enough to take advantage of you like that.  I believe online relationship can be *real*... from many years of experience, however, they take more thim than r/l relationships.  October is so not long enough to be even be collared in my opinion.  When you take more time, when you get the collar it means more.  If he can pop it on and off so easily, it wasn't nearly strong enough in the first place.

Sorry, I'm a bit steamed....but se la vie (did I spell that right?)


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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 5:11:30 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Barb wire? All online? You do realize he's underaged and iming only after he gets his homework done?

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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 5:52:41 PM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		I was filled with shock and horror when I read your opening post. Until I came across the 'Outdoor Bondage' thread in General BDSM, sorry for not knowing how to link a particular thread but I did quote it below.Now I am left wondering if this thread was nothing but a gambit for attention? 
quote:

ORIGINAL: Dedj

i've always wanted to be 'tied' to a tree with barbwire and then flogged...   just need to find a sane person to do it!


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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 6:01:36 PM   
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RE: Disobedience & Barbwire - 12/14/2007 6:34:20 PM   
ThinkingKitten


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Status: offline 		OMG. I feel some comment is in order about the OP's posts, but I honestly have no idea what to say. I simply don't know where to start. Perhaps I should just go and do something else.... Its not the barbedwire thing so much (although it is kind of "out there"), but more the whole know-a-guy-online-for-two-months-and-we're-already-in-a-full-blown-fantasy-dom-fantasy-sub-do-anything-give-up-all-common-sense "relationship". The only thing she hasn't said (or maybe she did and I missed it) is that he collared her in unremoveable (except by acetylene cutting torch) steel the first week.

*walks away from computer shaking her head in utter disbelief*

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