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RE: How to determine the wannabes - 3/1/2008 8:31:57 PM

Jeffff

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Thanks for reopening this old thread.......I realized.........I'm a funny motherfucker!

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RE: How to determine the wannabes - 3/2/2008 8:45:54 AM

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I think you are better off asking subs this question, than asking doms. I have little knowledge of how others function, and even less of the fake "masters", other than what I have been told by some of my subs.

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RE: How to determine the wannabes - 3/2/2008 8:52:44 AM

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Many wannabees: try to rush things quicker than seems/feels natural, spew a lot of quotes from various BDSM readings, keep secrets under the guise of "I'm the Dom, that's why..."(and you know when they're doing this), are waaaay too focussed on sex and play stupid head games (and I don't mean the fun mind-fuck kind....I mean the uncalled for manipulative kind). In any case...if you've been through one or two wannabees you get to the point where you can smell them a mile away. Your gut instinct is your best tool....hone it....listen to it.....use it!

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