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chyanna -> How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 7:44:19 AM)
Please i need some help here, from All you Masters out there on how to see a fake from a true Master, i am sick of being used as a punch bag sincerely chyanna

mnottertail -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 7:46:05 AM)
first thing, hit munches, do the public before you consider the private....all stems from that act. Jack the Ripper

Jeffff -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 7:46:33 AM)
Ron is fake............. Jeff (passes the torch)

OldBastardly1 -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 7:47:45 AM)
In my opinion, they are respectful in their actions. They are reasonable. They are patient when teaching. They will admit they make mistakes and are not perfect. They do NOT have a God complex. And their's is not the one true way. They don't insist on hiding in the shadows and keeping your involvement secret. And much more that I am sure will be added from others with more experience dealing with them.

mnottertail -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 7:49:07 AM)
Let the word go forth from this time and place, to friend and foe alike, that the torch has been passed to a new generation of kinksters -- born in this century, tempered by war, disciplined by a hard and bitter peace, proud of our ancient heritage -- and unwilling to witness or permit the slow undoing of those human rights to which this lifestyle has always been committed, and to which we are committed today at home and around the world. OldGuardMaster

Jeffff -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 7:50:38 AM)
Damn dude.....you are good The Literary Review

mnottertail -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 7:51:35 AM)
My apologies to JFK. I remember his inauguration speech, as I sat in front of the blonde cabinet black and white motorola tv, enraptured--------- by other than Saga Magazine or Captain Kangaroo Teddy

Jeffff -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 7:53:00 AM)
Gasps!!!!!! Mary Jo Kopekne

mnottertail -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 7:57:04 AM)
Theres where you fucked up, swallering all that water without no gills. The Creature from the Black Lagoon

Leatherist -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 8:08:57 AM)
Not everyone is or wants to be a master. But conventional steroetypes in places like this seem to insist on some sort of uniform "code" that a guy has to follow to make him one. It's often our own prejudices and suppostions that set us up for failure. Happiness is not going to be guaranteed by some fantasy construct being met. Strangely-it seems to be more about having a need met. Rather than having all of the checks on a shopping list filled in.

chyanna -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 8:10:30 AM)
thank You Sirs, and im an ice cream cos only just had the courage to post....im deffo not vanilla lol

IrishMist -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 8:12:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chyanna Please i need some help here, from All you Masters out there on how to see a fake from a true Master, i am sick of being used as a punch bag sincerely chyanna There are no fakes. There are no reals. There is only what you decide you want and can live with.

littlebitxxx -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 10:08:59 AM)
A thick skin, hip waders, a large shovel (sometimes a backhoe), Webster's dictionary on text-speak, a delete/block button, Job's patience and psychic ability....all should be in the repertoire of a "sub looking for Dom" in my opinion. Use the wannabes and fakers to make your list of what you don't want (see? they have a purpose). Set your criteria, wade through, laugh a lot, and be ready for the unexpected. Not all the pretty stones on the beach are just cut glass, just most of them. Wait for your diamond.

batshalom -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 10:10:28 AM)
If you seem to be a punching bag, chyanna, perhaps the tweaking needs to be done in your selection processes. You can't spot a 'real' Dom as easily as you can spot a blue car. You take your time getting to know this person, assess this person for compatibility over a period of time, and figure out if he makes you want to know him better. This process is absolutely no different than a vanilla one. You are not unsublike for having common sense (see the barbed wire thread) or having preferences and hard limits.

Mercnbeth -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 10:23:46 AM)
quote: How to determine the wannabes? I have a simple method whether determining a wannabe "Master" or a wannabe "Businessman". When they start a sentence or a begin a discussion with a resume bullet point, you can be assured that if they aren't a 'wannabe' they lack confidence in who/what they are. As if they need a reference to their resume to lend quality or validity to their opinion. As if you as the recipient of that gem of knowledge should now not challenge their absolute authority. For instance; "While studying nuclear physics I realized that, in theory, you can split the atom by swinging a single tail at sufficient speed and almost did so once during a demonstration I gave at the first international convention of the ancient royal order of the Swiss chard in Berlin in 1997 where I and my slave, who died in a tragic fire play accident in 2003, were awarded the highest honor - election to the 'Grand Order of The Yellow Collard'." The grander the qualifier - the bigger the wannabe.

Jeffff -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 10:30:20 AM)
It was near the summit of Mt. Everest.(something I do every spring), that I realized I was indeed a true Dom. I spent the entire Cannes Film Festival with George and Brad searching for a REAL submissive, Sadly there were none in all of France. Thus I am here in search of one for Me...........(please note the capped Me) Jeff

subtee -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 10:33:54 AM)
i'm right here! (note the little "i") i have my weal sub seal and everything! Guess where i got it??? Yes---the OTHERSIDE

liminalRapture -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 11:01:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Let the word go forth from this time and place, to friend and foe alike, that the torch has been passed to a new generation of kinksters -- born in this century, tempered by war, disciplined by a hard and bitter peace, proud of our ancient heritage -- and unwilling to witness or permit the slow undoing of those human rights to which this lifestyle has always been committed, and to which we are committed today at home and around the world. OldGuardMaster Wouldn't that make the oldest one 7? I know kids are growing up earlier these days, but this seems a wee bit premature.

CalifChick -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 11:22:41 AM)
If he's 18... you might wanna keep looking. Cali

sexyred1 -> RE: How to determine the wannabes (12/14/2007 11:23:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chyanna Please i need some help here, from All you Masters out there on how to see a fake from a true Master, i am sick of being used as a punch bag sincerely chyanna chyanna, I read your profile and from what I can tell, you have had some bad experiences with people online. You cannot tell about anyone from just online. You have let a bunch of pixels on a screen upset you. When I read what some guys wrote you, I snorted. Where is your self-esteem girl!! Who cares if you are a BBW, hell, so am I and I know I am the bomb and so are you. Never let anyone take your self respect away from you and certainly never let anyone who calls themselves Dominant make you feel that way simply because you identify as submissive. There are many, many people who use the labels of D/s to mask their own insecurities and they are the ones who lash out at newbies like yourself with this nonsense. If you let yourself get used as a punching bag, you will. Don't let it happen, Punch 'em back. Just because you are new to the scene does not mean you are new to life. You are a grown woman, you are very pretty by the way and some guy will be lucky to find you. A wannabe is someone who cannot get over on you; that is my take on it. I tell guys off all the time, because I do not take crap from anyone. I am very sweet until you act like a moron, then watch the fuck out. Are you with me here, chyanna?? P.S. why ask the Masters how to determine a wannabe Master. Ask the subs.

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