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EvilGenie -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/22/2007 7:45:27 PM)

Sexynmental are you drunk in that pic? Just curious



Sexynmentalinkc -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/22/2007 8:07:24 PM)

I don't really recall...it was more than a year ago. I might have been a bit tipsy but....LOL





Surrenderwithin -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/23/2007 2:08:56 AM)

I may be a slave,but I am not just anyones slave. I figured I would practice a lil cliche today.
Maggi



HRGreyDragon -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/23/2007 2:23:34 AM)

Seems like a simple thing to do. Read someone’s profile before making an ass out of themselves.

I really don't know what it is with so called pushy Doms. It would seem to me that any coming on like a bull in a china shop should get just what they deserve and nothing more ‘A bill for all the breakage and a ring thought their nose’



HRGreyDragon -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/23/2007 2:46:19 AM)

Fairly good advice

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

We all get those emails.  Instead of whining about them we ignore them.


Your going to have to grow thicker skin, and learn that your not going to find any help from those that call themselves Dominants, it's their stock in trade to stick it to newbees which you are. Most have long forgotten their days as one. even  submissive s .

Or will they all say they were born to it and never had to learn a thing!



julietsierra -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/23/2007 8:33:20 AM)

wow... I've read all the posts on this thread..

And all I can say to the OP is be very careful of how you lump people together and what you say about them. Many many times, one unthinking comment can come back to bite you in the ass.

I was like you once. I said "I'm no slave" (as if "slave" was something to be abhorred...)

And in time, with the right person, I have found that that's exactly who and what I am..

You may too.

You have no idea - even if you think you do. Time and perspective tends to change many of our deeply held beliefs - this may be one of them, even if it seems impossible right now.

(oh yea... and it wouldn't hurt to apologize to the people you've insulted for the misunderstanding. A little crow eating tends to go a long way)

juliet



dreamysubmale -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/23/2007 4:16:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Sexynmentalinkc

quote:

ORIGINAL: SingleRarity

...the OP was treated so disrespectfully by the people who act as leaders on this board. 




Posting a lot hardly makes one a "leader".  Gaining the respect of others due to rational, helpful and thought-provoking posts does, in my experience (of online communities).


- Mr. S

P.S. I do agree that there can be negativity from long-time forum users of most any community. Not sure why that happens but I see it a lot here and there.



May be the people you are talking about have isolated themselves in their own cocoon. Not being disrespectful to anyone, but in my opinion when like minded people gather together in isolation, or as you say longetivity they tend to get more extreme in their views.

But no matter how painful though, listening to opposing views is what helps us define our own voice. And in my short experience at Collarme, I’ve found the views of many posters here very diverse, thoughtful, educational, witty, and intelligent and at times humorous.

Even with views that some of us think are rude and judgmental, there is a lesson in them to be learned.


Thank you EvilGenie for answering me.

Wishing you all at Collarme, all the peace, joy, and love of the season!
Season's Greetings!
                                                 
 
If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow

The worst sin toward our fellow creatures is not to hate them, but to be indifferent to them; that's the essence of inhumanity. — George Bernard Shaw

 



YourhandMyAss -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/24/2007 2:46:44 PM)

No.I think you need to stop clicking on obviously whiney complaining threads, and then expecting something other than rant fests, whine fests, or anything else boring. Problem solved.
quote:

ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

I think we need a new section on these forums where everyone can post their whiny rants

Then, at the very least, I won't have to waste time clicking on the threads in the hopes of something interesting to read.



SL4V3M4YB3 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/24/2007 3:47:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SingleRarity

What the fuck is wrong with you people? And no I don't mean the OP.  I'm talking about the members of the 'Thousand Post Club'. 


The damn elite always raising the bar so us mere mortals can't join.[:D]
 
I was picturing a thousand lamp posts when you said that.



Leatherist -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/24/2007 5:59:09 PM)

I dunno,it can be fun to get emails from jerks.

Imagine the fun you can have,making a witty and rather biting rort, and then deleting further replies unread....No, don't block them, then they just get a new account. Let them keep trying for a while. Maybe two more,  THEN block them.



mnottertail -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/24/2007 6:02:51 PM)

A rort?  He retorts;  it would read sommitch better than that, I can assure you....

Dan Blocker



leomaster2 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/28/2007 11:02:57 AM)

Questions that are NEVER successfully answered:

1. Why are all online Doms pushy?
2. Why are all online subs so overtly submissive to everyone they meet (i.e., "*curtsy* Hello Sir. Please forgive me for interrupting you, but...")?
3. Why are all emails that begin with "On your knees bitch" seen as obnoxious (except to those that crave them)?
4. Why is the "accepted" progression Master/Mistress>Dom(me)>Switch>Sub>Slave?
5. Why do all these annoying subs contact me begging me to Dominate them online?
6. Why can't people spell? Punctuate? Write?
7. Why all the hate? Love? Sex? Dirty wet stuff?
8. Why does it seem that there are tons of male subs looking for Mistresses, Male doms looking for female subs, and so many people wanting the perfect physical, emotional, financial, and mental package that they forget that "growing" a relationship is what builds the perfect relationship?
9. Why do people think you need to capitalize Dom and Mistress, but not capitalize Sub or Slave?
10. Where can I find a female slave, 5'4 to 5'8, 30-35, slim to fit, with long legs, large breasts (b-d cup), good kisser, who is loving, creative, cuddly, strong enough to survive on her own, and call me on my crap when it's needed, but who really wants/needs to be protected, taken care of, and who loves the freedom of being owned? I prefer brunettes, with long hair and a sultry look who is into oral, anal, and basically everything that doesn't involve drugs, scat, too much blood, animals, or group activities.... is that asking too much?

Bottom line here:
1. Stereotypes exist because enough people behave in a certain way that over time it becomes a recognized "type".
2. The internet allows people to react any way they want.
3. You are free to react how you choose, from taking offense to laughing your ass off to deleting and moving on. It's your choice, make it and be happy with it.
4. There's no such thing as a REAL Dom, or a REAL sub, there's only people, with all their mixed up complexity. Who said it would be easy?
5. If you treat other's with respect, you soon weed out the ones that don't deserve it.
6. Pushy and Dom seem to be synonymous, so in some sense, that IS EXACTLY what you should expect.
7. This is a group that exists BECAUSE they have decided NOT to conform to the largest sets of stereotypical behaviors. They're going to be different. They'll accept your difference if you accept theirs.
8. If you can't take the heat, get naked.



sexyred1 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/28/2007 11:08:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: leomaster2

Questions that are NEVER successfully answered:

10. Where can I find a female slave, 5'4 to 5'8, 30-35, slim to fit, with long legs, large breasts (b-d cup), good kisser, who is loving, creative, cuddly, strong enough to survive on her own, and call me on my crap when it's needed, but who really wants/needs to be protected, taken care of, and who loves the freedom of being owned? I prefer brunettes, with long hair and a sultry look who is into oral, anal, and basically everything that doesn't involve drugs, scat, too much blood, animals, or group activities.... is that asking too much?




Yes, she is taken. But the ones who are into drugs, scat, too much blood, animals and group activities are available. Be more flexible, would you?



CalifChick -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/28/2007 11:10:11 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: leomaster2

10. Where can I find a female slave, 5'4 to 5'8, 30-35, slim to fit, with long legs, large breasts (b-d cup), good kisser, who is loving, creative, cuddly, strong enough to survive on her own, and call me on my crap when it's needed, but who really wants/needs to be protected, taken care of, and who loves the freedom of being owned? I prefer brunettes, with long hair and a sultry look who is into oral, anal, and basically everything that doesn't involve drugs, scat, too much blood, animals, or group activities.... is that asking too much?



Well gee whiz, I was perfect until you asked for a BRUNETTE.  Darn.  Another ideal match ruined.

Cali



beargonewild -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/28/2007 12:02:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: womyn

Obviously the people who look at my profile do NOT read through it. I get so many obnoxious people calling themselves dom (mes) that seem to think I'm a slave and can order me around!

I am a SUBMISSIVE NOT a slave....yet! Why, WHY are people so disrespectful?!


Probably the same bloody reason why some PEOPLE are pushy. Suck it up buttercup and deal with it.



came4U -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/28/2007 12:16:05 PM)

I'm so bored that I read this thread.

besides, how can someone be pushy in typing, do the clicks on the keyboard sound louder than others? Do they pound as they communicate?  Are they the obnoxious 'letter on key rubber-offer-s'?

Pushy typers? sigh, I'm scared. [sm=hewah.gif]



MistressNoName -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/28/2007 12:17:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

No.I think you need to stop clicking on obviously whiney complaining threads, and then expecting something other than rant fests, whine fests, or anything else boring. Problem solved.
quote:

ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

I think we need a new section on these forums where everyone can post their whiny rants

Then, at the very least, I won't have to waste time clicking on the threads in the hopes of something interesting to read.




Here, here!

[Bolding mine - and edited to add color]



MistressS146 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/28/2007 2:01:04 PM)

Seems most submissives on this sight are pretty much fakes. They are pampered but yet thier in a lifestyle that dosnt reward pampering unless its infantilism. Hopefully there are some true submissives but I doubt it...



kc692 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/28/2007 2:10:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressS146

Seems most submissives on this sight are pretty much fakes. They are pampered but yet thier in a lifestyle that dosnt reward pampering unless its infantilism. Hopefully there are some true submissives but I doubt it...


What's with some dommes whose "website" you enter and you get bombarded with active x controls, and quicktime trying to lock up my computer.....Is it because I'm not a true submissive?????? Your site seriously locked up my browser. Just giving you a heads up on that.....



CalifChick -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/28/2007 2:19:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressS146

Seems most submissives on this sight are pretty much fakes. They are pampered but yet thier in a lifestyle that dosnt reward pampering unless its infantilism. Hopefully there are some true submissives but I doubt it...


No, I'm not a twue submissive.  Can a twue Dominant spell?

Cali



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