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sexyred1 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/20/2007 3:32:32 PM)
moany growls are good, how about earth shattering screams?

LaTigresse -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/20/2007 3:35:26 PM)
If I get to wear earplugs. Oh wait, I forgot........duct tape! Turns earth shattering screams into moany growls real fast.

sexyred1 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/20/2007 3:41:23 PM)
or gags, or biting a pillow, you get the moany growls that way too. and less headaches from the neighbors in thin-walled apartment buildings, LOL

daddyncherry -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/20/2007 4:11:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy I am Jack's complete lack of surprise. Love the Fight Club reference...thanks for the smile

Kellendra -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/20/2007 4:47:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: womyn Obviously the people who look at my profile do NOT read through it. I get so many obnoxious people calling themselves dom (mes) that seem to think I'm a slave and can order me around! I am a SUBMISSIVE NOT a slave....yet! Why, WHY are people so disrespectful?! Has very very rarely had anyone approach me on here in a disrespectful manner...now I wonder if I am doing something wrong?... Removes tongue from cheek and runs away

lusciouslips19 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/20/2007 4:59:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Oh and be nice to the regulars or they'll rip ya a new one![:D] No, you don't have to be nice; just not a humorless, smug, twat. Not talking about you, I'm just saying. Baisically what Red is saying is you cant be thinned skinned. Honey, I knew you werent talking about me. I'm one of the funniest people I know! Uh oh, that sounded smug...didnt it?

sexyred1 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/20/2007 5:04:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Oh and be nice to the regulars or they'll rip ya a new one![:D] No, you don't have to be nice; just not a humorless, smug, twat. Not talking about you, I'm just saying. Baisically what Red is saying is you cant be thinned skinned. Honey, I knew you werent talking about me. I'm one of the funniest people I know! Uh oh, that sounded smug...didnt it? Yes, I meant you have to go with the flow, be yourself, don't let pixels on a screen upset you, jump in if you feel like it, joke around (we all make bad jokes, but sometimes amazing jokes) and add value where you can. It is the ones who whine about everything and start post after post about nonsense or ask the same question in 10 different ways that irritate me. Confidence is cool, arrogance and smugness is not. See, you said you were funny? Confident attitude, rock on!

lusciouslips19 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/20/2007 5:26:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Oh and be nice to the regulars or they'll rip ya a new one![:D] No, you don't have to be nice; just not a humorless, smug, twat. Not talking about you, I'm just saying. Baisically what Red is saying is you cant be thinned skinned. Honey, I knew you werent talking about me. I'm one of the funniest people I know! Uh oh, that sounded smug...didnt it? Yes, I meant you have to go with the flow, be yourself, don't let pixels on a screen upset you, jump in if you feel like it, joke around (we all make bad jokes, but sometimes amazing jokes) and add value where you can. It is the ones who whine about everything and start post after post about nonsense or ask the same question in 10 different ways that irritate me. Confidence is cool, arrogance and smugness is not. See, you said you were funny? Confident attitude, rock on! Not only do I teach tough kids from the streets that I have to keep in line and gain their respect, I am also a submissive. We all know how strong you have to be to be a (twue) submissive. How else are we going to rock on???

dreamysubmale -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/20/2007 6:04:01 PM)
It is the ones who whine about everything and start post after post about nonsense or ask the same question in 10 different ways that irritate me. You can tell a lot about the person from his questions rather than his answers

sexyred1 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/20/2007 6:25:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dreamysubmale It is the ones who whine about everything and start post after post about nonsense or ask the same question in 10 different ways that irritate me. You can tell a lot about the person from his questions rather than his answers Come again, Yoda?

EvilGenie -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/21/2007 9:31:37 AM)
LMFAO sexyred! Though me thinks Yoda may be too cute for that post above you.

grlneedstolearn -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/21/2007 11:42:44 AM)
That's why you have the delete button option, plus you just gotta move on. i've been there several times with Doms contacting me.

ksub4u -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/21/2007 8:34:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sexynmentalinkc quote: It would be soooo nice if others thought (and acted) as you did. I think it would save a lot of time and frustration for many people. I have talked with s/s's that basically thought, "I'll just sit back and wait for him to find me and...." What's that all about?! Probably because females feel they can just sit back, get tons of emails and sort through what they receive. They may feel they're actually accomplishing something,but if what's coming into your mailbox is trash - you need to start being more proactive. First, beef up the profile if need be; second, seek and ye just may shall find.

dreamysubmale -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/21/2007 11:41:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EvilGenie LMFAO sexyred! Though me thinks Yoda may be too cute for that post above you. LOL..me thinks I am cuter than Yoda. He’s short, green, bald and with big pointy ears. I am tall, dark and handsome. Besides, he’s is a Grand Master…but me? I am just a mere submissive. EvilGenie, can you please tell me what’s wrong with my post? Honestly now, I’m asking seriously. It meant to be in agreement to what sexyred was saying.

EvilGenie -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/22/2007 7:09:41 AM)
Actually there is nothing wrong with your post. I was simply just joking with her and trying to imagine Yoda sitting at CM typing. It does read though, upon reading it again, as though it was a direct reference to her and her questions rather than covering the plural you. When I want to say what you did, I usually place it in quotes as that is a quote anyway and use generic term one, to mean anyone. I sincerely don't see anything wrong with your post, dreamysubmale.

sexyred1 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/22/2007 7:14:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EvilGenie Actually there is nothing wrong with your post. I was simply just joking with her and trying to imagine Yoda sitting at CM typing. It does read though, upon reading it again, as though it was a direct reference to her and her questions rather than covering the plural you. When I want to say what you did, I usually place it in quotes as that is a quote anyway and use generic term one, to mean anyone. I sincerely don't see anything wrong with your post, dreamysubmale. Yes, thank you EvilGenie, I felt that way and did not quite understand the statement, so I humorously asked about Yoda. But dreamysubmale, if you were agreeing with me, cool!!! (and I am sure you are way cuter than Yoda!))

Sexynmentalinkc -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/22/2007 7:22:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ksub4u quote: ORIGINAL: Sexynmentalinkc quote: It would be soooo nice if others thought (and acted) as you did. I think it would save a lot of time and frustration for many people. I have talked with s/s's that basically thought, "I'll just sit back and wait for him to find me and...." What's that all about?! Probably because females feel they can just sit back, get tons of emails and sort through what they receive. They may feel they're actually accomplishing something,but if what's coming into your mailbox is trash - you need to start being more proactive. First, beef up the profile if need be; second, seek and ye just may shall find. Yes, I'm sure that is it - they know they get traffic so just sit back and deal with the onslaught. I guess that's one strategy to take. The only issue is that you have to wait...and wait...and wait...on the hopes that "He" just *happens* to stumble upon you (and then will write an email to which you'd respond). That, to me, is like waiting on job offers for crap jobs and not looking for the job YOU want and need. Somehow, it's all bass-ackwards. The s/s's I've chatted with that have taken this approach usually end up as frustrated as the Doms that email lots of potentials and don't hear back (for whatever reason). I've often thought that finding O/one can be more successful when the s/s does the looking and identifies a short list of guys that seem to really strike a chord. Now serving - 2 units of your local denomination, - Mr. S

SingleRarity -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/22/2007 8:58:24 AM)
What the fuck is wrong with you people? And no I don't mean the OP. I'm talking about the members of the 'Thousand Post Club'. You were unbelievably rude to this obviously new girl. I mean come on, just because you spend all your time on here building up your little paddles does that give you the right to treat others like shit. What's wrong with wanting someone attractive? She's a good looking, fit girl who seeks the same. Some of you have requirements in your profile. Are you shallow because you want someone over 5'8"? We all have requirements. I'm not trying to be rude, but it seems like you forgot what it was like to be new, and confused. You've got your little 'thousand post' friends so you gang up on people, make fun of them, and take over their posts with stupid jokes and inside talk. To the OP “ I'm sorry. Not all of us are judging you”.

sexyred1 -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/22/2007 9:04:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SingleRarity What the fuck is wrong with you people? And no I don't mean the OP. I'm talking about the members of the 'Thousand Post Club'. You were unbelievably rude to this obviously new girl. I mean come on, just because you spend all your time on here building up your little paddles does that give you the right to treat others like shit. What's wrong with wanting someone attractive? She's a good looking, fit girl who seeks the same. Some of you have requirements in your profile. Are you shallow because you want someone over 5'8"? We all have requirements. I'm not trying to be rude, but it seems like you forgot what it was like to be new, and confused. You've got your little 'thousand post' friends so you gang up on people, make fun of them, and take over their posts with stupid jokes and inside talk. To the OP “ I'm sorry. Not all of us are judging you”. Oooooo..someone has some bad PMS going on!! Don't worry. you too, can become a member of the 1000 post club and still actually find a way to live a full, meaningful life, have relationships, and yes, still manage to have fun on collarme. And hopefully, you won't have anyone judging you as you have just judged others who spoke their minds. I guess you did not read the part where the OP was being rude in the way her question was couched. As usual, people often reply to the WAY something is asked, as opposed to the topic. Gee, when I was new, I never asked inflammatory questions, therefore was not flamed. Tsk, tsk....someone needs a timeout.

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! (12/22/2007 9:05:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SingleRarity What the fuck is wrong with you people? And no I don't mean the OP. I'm talking about the members of the 'Thousand Post Club'. You were unbelievably rude to this obviously new girl. I mean come on, just because you spend all your time on here building up your little paddles does that give you the right to treat others like shit. What's wrong with wanting someone attractive? She's a good looking, fit girl who seeks the same. Some of you have requirements in your profile. Are you shallow because you want someone over 5'8"? We all have requirements. I'm not trying to be rude, but it seems like you forgot what it was like to be new, and confused. You've got your little 'thousand post' friends so you gang up on people, make fun of them, and take over their posts with stupid jokes and inside talk. To the OP “ I'm sorry. Not all of us are judging you”. As a member of the "thousands post"club you may be correct about the say as I say club but I for one won't come down hard on anyone unless they need it...Pull in the horns girl I catch as much flack for my opinions as anyone and I let it roll off my back like pigeon shit...bounty

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