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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

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ORIGINAL: stripmymanhood

i love it when people try to analyze me from posts made in black and white...tell you what...i won't analyze your kink...keep your analyses of my kinks to yourself.

*giggles and thinks to self why do they make it so very easy?*

No, i think i'll tell you what.  You go ahead and read my profile, check out my pics and read my thousands of posts.  Go right ahead and analyze my kink, my apparent mild homophobia, my trust issues my grief issues, my bad grammar, the way i cringe at most all labels and my obsession with my hair or even my obsession with redheaded bathycolpian beauties.  There is a ton of information out there, i'm sure it's enough for any learned Jungian or Freudian to demand i be locked up for my safety and the safety for society at large.

Ok, i really do have a point here:  This is a public forum, in placing anything on a public forum you are opening yourself up to criticism, being analyzed and scrutinized.  I would have hoped you would have realized as much by now. 

So, as long as you show me yours and i show you mine; we are both free to point, laugh and tell our friends.

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ORIGINAL: TNstepsout

I do not believe that it is some kind of deep seated psychological or genetic flaw. I believe that it's natural for humans (as with all other animals) to arrange ourselves into a heirarchy and to feel more comfortable when one has found his/her place. The difference with people is that we have to do this many different times in all of the various groups we are a part of. A relationship is one area, and some people prefer to be in the dominant spot and others the submissive.

I think it's true that feminine sensuality and sexuality has long (always) had a power over men. Some seek to control (dominate) that which makes them weak and others seek to surrender to it.

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ORIGINAL: stripmymanhood

no worries...if one calls themself a chylde...it should be no surprise they act as one

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

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ORIGINAL: stripmymanhood

no worries...if one calls themself a chylde...it should be no surprise they act as one

You must have been in a rush, if you're going to be blatantly insulting; please try to be a little more imaginative about it.  I think i'll just turn around and let you think about it some more.

I'm not a moderator, but you put the bait out there, so what did you expect in return??  

Perhaps the two of you could just "let it go", begin to act like adults and continue the discussion on an interesting subject, while keeping posts a bit more on-topic that show at least some degree of tolerance and sensitivity toward others?  It would be nice to see that happen, instead of more posts that reduce things to personal attacks regarding the kinks and desires of others who post in this forum.  To me, this kind of behavior just seems so opposite of what CM is supposed to be about!

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

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ORIGINAL: stripmymanhood

no worries...if one calls themself a chylde...it should be no surprise they act as one

You must have been in a rush, if you're going to be blatantly insulting; please try to be a little more imaginative about it.  I think i'll just turn around and let you think about it some more.

darchChylde,
I'm not a moderator, but you put the bait out there, so what did you expect in return??  
 
Perhaps the two of you could just "let it go", begin to act like adults and continue the discussion on an interesting subject, while keeping posts a bit more on-topic that show at least some degree of tolerance and sensitivity toward others?  It would be nice to see that happen, instead of more posts that reduce things to personal attacks regarding the kinks and desires of others who post in this forum.  To me, this kind of behavior just seems so opposite of what CM is supposed to be about!
 
 - pixel

Edited for spelling and clarity 

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

then you didn't read my posts, else you read what you chose to in them; at no time did i make them personal... i made honest observation, i wasn't judging kinks, just questioning terms... you can have the soapbox back, it fits you well

and as for my response to him, i was merely hoping he could continue in the form of intelligent debate, instead he went and decided to call names

It's clear to me from your response, that you've missed the point of my last post to you.  Telling me I can have "the soapbox back" and that "it fits me well", is what most here would consider a personal attack that would seem to only escalate some kind of conflict between us.  I do not seek nor desire to have a conflict with you.  As such, I'm disappointed this is the kind of response you chose to post.  This approach also seems to me to be counter to the sort of intelligent debate you claim you'd like to continue.  Thus, I don't understand it's origin or the source of the anger toward me that appears to have fueled it.  And yes, I did read your prior posts.

I'll bow out for now and let you decide where you'd like to go from here with your participation in this thread.  I have no desire to provide fuel for anyone's rants or personal attacks; especially those that appear to me to be aimed at a member simply for revealing a part of themselves that exists deep on the inside; where comments made about that part of them can hurt them very deeply when not done with some degree of empathy and tact.

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

then you didn't read my posts, else you read what you chose to in them; at no time did i make them personal... i made honest observation, i wasn't judging kinks, just questioning terms... you can have the soapbox back, it fits you well

and as for my response to him, i was merely hoping he could continue in the form of intelligent debate, instead he went and decided to call names

darchChylde,
It's clear to me from your response, that you've missed the point of my last post to you.  Telling me I can have "the soapbox back" and that "it fits me well", is what most here would consider a personal attack that would seem to only escalate some kind of conflict between us.  I do not seek nor desire to have a conflict with you.  As such, I'm disappointed this is the kind of response you chose to post.  This approach also seems to me to be counter to the sort of intelligent debate you claim you'd like to continue.  Thus, I don't understand it's origin or the source of the anger toward me that appears to have fueled it.  And yes, I did read your prior posts.
 
I'll bow out for now and let you decide where you'd like to go from here with your participation in this thread.  I have no desire to provide fuel for anyone's rants or personal attacks; especially those that appear to me to be aimed at a member simply for revealing a part of themselves that exists deep on the inside; where comments made about that part of them can hurt them very deeply when not done with some degree of empathy and tact.
 
 - pixel

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

EXCUSE ME!!!!

I'm not feeling the lurve!!!

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

ok, you're right on the comment of the soapbox; except for my intent; which i was admittedly not clear on

several of my recent posts i have ended with *he steps off the soapbox and brushes it off for the next speaker*

i honestly have no anger or ill will towards anyone here, though there are certain things that are pet peeves of mine which have come up in this thread; but that is something i admit to as a fault of my own... no, i'm not always the most tactful person and can be abrasive, but i generally do not intend to be abusive to anyone, and i was not at all abusive to anyone here in this post

as far as how i acted on this thread, which was off topic... he was the one who brought up analyzing another's kink; and that is what i did, then i went on to show how silly it is to go on a public forum and not expect your words or, in this case, kinks to be analyzed

he went on to choose to take it as a personal attack; when if you read my posts, you will see they were anything but... it is not my fault he took umbrage where none was given... but when he decided to call me and my actions childish, thus stepping out of the intelligent debate; i was reasonable in my willingness to allow him to come up with a more intelligent response, more in line with his previous posts

I don't think there's any need to explain further.  In my experience, Mistresses are fond of listening for a "Yes Ma'am" or "No Ma'am" respsonse to help keep things simple and to avoid having to listen to excuses or lengthy explanations.  

How 'bout we "agree to leave it where it is" as suggested by stripmymanhood?

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

EXCUSE ME!!!!

I'm not feeling the lurve!!!

Yep

But nevertheless interesting, given the title of the thread

E

Although rutting season is over, I think we were originally talking about the psychology of male submission to dominant women, not to other men; nor was the subject how to best establish pecking orders within the heirarchy of male submissives that post here on the boards of CM.

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha



Deep down, I think all mean have a secret desire to be fucked in the ass and forced to wear panties.
It just takes some a little longer to come to terms with it.

Akasha

Ma'am? Have you seen my Ma'am, i know She's around here.  Ma'am!!!  Please come help me, the mean woman's scaring me.


-great response AAkasha, i don't know how much of it was serious and how much not; but it seriously made my testicles do double duty as extra adam's apples

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

Lady E,
Although rutting season is over, I think we were originally talking about the psychology of male submission to dominant women, not to other men; nor was the subject how to best establish pecking orders within the heirarchy of male submissives that post here on the boards of CM.
 
 - pixel

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Deep down, I think all mean have a secret desire to be fucked in the ass and forced to wear panties.
It just takes some a little longer to come to terms with it.

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

I think the one thing you can learn from this thread is that submitting to women doesn't do a thing to help you get along peaceably with other men!    Some bucks are going to bash their horns together no matter what.

I want to thank all the men who have been replying, though.  I do think that there are some interesting points emerging.  The urge to submit appears to be primal, but the way it filters through the individual person and expresses itself at various stages of life is infinitely diverse.

Shine on, you beautiful snowflakes you... 

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ORIGINAL: stripmymanhood
maybe this is why some of us think of being neutered from time to time...i'll admit i do

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ORIGINAL: rob247bot

i won't call it psychology, is more like a philosophy of life. i thought many times why i feel so natural as a submissive...thought of my first years of lief, of my family and i have to say i found nothing on this side, i call it psychological. And i never had a shock in my childness to make me submitted to Women. That is why i think (it's my opinion, i'm sorry if i'm not accepted by any of Y/you) it is a philosophy of life that i developed in years. Since i was young my altruism was very obvious when a Woman needed (my) help. And althought i work as a manager with over 100 people leaded by me, 30 of them Women i still have this altruism, no matter what happent during the day affecting my job.

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i'll always thank the Woman that saw this side of me and molded me to fit in this lifestyle i never knew before. She showed me the way i feel confortable and give all the love i have in me. Yes, Freud was right and i felt it so many times in my vanilla life, the kinky sexual part has a lot to do with my submission, but then i wonder how do i get so happy when i'm denied and i see the satisfaction of the Woman above me or why i get so happy doing house chores for Her, nothing sexual, just cleaning Her house? Or, why am i not happy and aroused if someone else would whip me? i guess (at least in my case) it's not the whip, not the pain, but the Woman who holds the whip and Her satisfaction that make me be aroused and happy... That is why everytime my Mistress ask me if i'd like something i always answer Her "it's not important as long You want that, Mistress and if i won't take it i will tell You". So, i guess i made my philosophy of how i would love to love a Woman during the years of my life and be happy the same time (am i selfish? lol). If W/we talk here about psychology i smell problems and a psychologist. And i'll never admit i have problems, it's just my way to love, period.
Thank You so much for reading my post and please forgive my poor english.