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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

(FYI it's "dominants")

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ORIGINAL: subnstudent

For me, I can say that I'd enjoy them because it would give me another opportunity to express my submission. Training to and remembering protocols is wholly voluntary. A lot of the times there's no physical overpowering or wearing locked bonds so every time you do the protocol thing, you're being actively submissive.

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07


i also love sitting at his feet with my head on his thigh as he pets me. i use to dream of that.

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ORIGINAL: cherrypez

There are a few, but I guess my favorite is respecting the impliment---kissing the cane, for example.   

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ORIGINAL: geishagurl

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ORIGINAL: cherrypez

There are a few, but I guess my favorite is respecting the impliment---kissing the cane, for example.   

That's interesting, cherrypez. :)   I remember having a Dominant tell me in a discussion, that he enjoys seeing his submissive bring the flogger to him in her mouth, on hands and knees and asking him to please use it on her. I wonder if this is a common enjoyment for Dominants.....
 

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: geishagurl

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ORIGINAL: cherrypez

There are a few, but I guess my favorite is respecting the impliment---kissing the cane, for example.   

That's interesting, cherrypez. :)   I remember having a Dominant tell me in a discussion, that he enjoys seeing his submissive bring the flogger to him in her mouth, on hands and knees and asking him to please use it on her. I wonder if this is a common enjoyment for Dominants.....
 

Yes, I think that there are many who enjoy this.  Daddy enjoys it when I lay the toys out, whether at home or at the dungeon.  He will put them in the order that he wants to use them, but he likes it when I take them out of the bag and sort them.  While I hate the initial sting of the quirt, I love the way it can bring me to the tips of my toes when I am hooked to a St. Andrews cross and Daddy has it in full swing.  Therefore, I usually give the quirt a little kiss before I set it down for him to use.  He gets a smile out of this because of my love-hate relationship with this particular "tool."

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ORIGINAL: geishagurl


Submissives, do you enjoy protocals?  If so, what are some that are asked of you that you really enjoy doing, that you do not mind sharing with us?
 
 
Dominates, what are some protocals you enjoy seeing your submissive do, if you also do not mind sharing?
 
 
Geisha
 
 

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Hello, geisha.

I enjoy the protocols that Daddy and I use very much.  We do not have many that are discussed prior to, but rather, implied by eye contact or by him guiding me with his hands.  I do know (by having him explain it to me in the beginning) that I am not to answer him with "yeah" or "nah" or simply "no."  When he asks me something in our normal everyday goings-on, I answer him with "yes, Daddy" or "yes, Baby."  If we are in a scene or during intimate moments, I always answer him with "yes, Sir/Master/Daddy" - one of those choices. 

The unspoken protocols are ones that have almost created themselves over time.  When we are about to do a public scene, I get on my knees in front of him and hand him my collar to place around my neck and he then assists me in standing back up and then we proceed with the scene.  When he comes to visit at my home, I always greet him at the door and hug him with my head on his chest so he can wrap his arms around me in a very protective way.  During intimate times, I always assume a submissive posture in the bed or while performing orally on him.  I know that there are certain things that he likes to know when we are making love and that he wants to hear me say.  I also know that there are particular things that he enjoys right before he reaches his "gold star moment" and I do them. 

When we are hanging out with our fellow lifestylers that we know from CM or from the dungeon, I also make sure that he is well taken care of if we are at a function that involves eating, etc.  I make sure that he has his drink, his utensils, etc. and that if he would like something else to eat, I always offer to get it for him.  These are little things that serve to remind us of our positions in the relationship, but they have become a natural part of who we are and how we relate to one another.

I hope this is the type of answer you were looking for.

~ DRH

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ORIGINAL: fullofgrace69

for me its simple things like calling him sir, and asking permission to enter a room or sit or anything, the little things for me show him that im submitting to him on all levels and i enjoy being given tht opportunity......thts wen im with a dom of course lol