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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 8:18:53 AM

sexyred1

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There is nothing outlandish about anything that two people agree on, but what I find amusing is every time I reject someone, they say the same thing:

"If you were my submissive, you would be better trained, need to be beaten more, blah blah blah"

Very unoriginal statements.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 8:19:51 AM

christine1

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i was contacted not long ago by a mistress who's husband was a sub and they were raising their young son to be a master. she wanted me to be the slave of their son but she wouldn't tell me how old the son was, not that i would have been interested in this situation anyway, but i was curious. to each his own, but that was a little squicky for me.

i also last week had a man from CM tell me that if i were really submissive i'd shave my head and post the photos on my profile....yeah, right.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 8:30:01 AM

sexyred1

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OMG, me too christine1! Someone had the nerve to ask if I would be interested in Hair Play. I said you mean hair pulling? He said no, I love shaving off beautiful hair and having my subs wear wigs.

He said it would be deeply symbolic of submission. I told him where to put his symbolism; deeply.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 8:30:01 AM

MistressNoName

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mislead

please help,anyone who has some input...i am fairly new to this lifestyle and have a question.i have a D who is interested in meeting me,but demands that the first meeting will take place in my home.he wont tell me his first name{real name}and he calls me from a private#,he states he will reveal all information necessary when i meet him.i told him i wanted to meet in a public place for the 1st timewhen requesting this he says he is a very private person.i said,hey you may not like me,nor me you.that didnt matter to him i guess.he has already mad his demands of what i will do to him and him me upon the first meeting..thanks, mislead and very confused

Why does this sound like the sub who cried wolf? Being in the life, sub or dom, does not mean you abandon common sense. If he proudly waves numerous red flags in your face, err on the side of caution. Protect yourself. Cut contact. Give this troll the boot.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 8:40:32 AM

christine1

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

OMG, me too christine1! Someone had the nerve to ask if I would be interested in Hair Play. I said you mean hair pulling? He said no, I love shaving off beautiful hair and having my subs wear wigs.

He said it would be deeply symbolic of submission. I told him where to put his symbolism; deeply.

lol...stop making me spit my coffee all over the computer screen!

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He is my Master, my lover, my best friend my everything.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 8:41:58 AM

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 8:48:38 AM

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I once had a "dominant" describe in detail the anal punishment I would recieve (has to do with glass bottles of different sizes) because I would not submit to phone sex with him, on the first phone call we had.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 8:54:09 AM

BlackPhx

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Quick response..If you were my Dominant you would already know the answer. Sorry, Hi Poenkitten here, 1/2 of the Blackphx couple. This was actually the first forum posting that grabbed me as it scrolled past. Most I have ignored. Sexyred however had the rigtht attitude as far as I am concerned. Anything ANY DOM demanded of me when he did not own me met with the SAM who told him exactly where to go, what to do when he got there and how often. Master and I talk constantly about our needs, desires etc and he always takes into account what effect something will have on me before he does it and whether he is prepared to deal with those results. No that doesn't mean he shies away from doing what he wants, only that he takes full responsibility for his actions both before and after.

Too many fools out there think that sub = doormat. These doormats have teeth..Welcome..Count your Toes.

poenkitten

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 9:15:05 AM

takenbyjohnr07

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i've had many offers from Dom's i have met and heard from. Good and bad. This is the one that stands out the most.

i did a background check on him, because he was too good to be true. Everything he told me was true. this man was every prince every girl who had dreamed of princes's dreamed of.

We talked for a month or so, He lived in a different state. He offered me a two story cottage over looking the bay. The pictures were magnificent that he took. He offered me the world and i wanted to take it. We would travel, i would never want for anything. Even his voice on the phone was enough to make you do anything he wanted, He was so articulate, but not snobby. he knew almost everything and up to that point was the sexiest man i had ever known in my life. He wreaked of sexuality.
Although we still talk and e-mail each other, i decided not to go. i knew it would be incredible. i knew i would have the time of my life, but i knew a relationship like that would not be one to last and i would be devastated.

i'm sure he would of given me pleasures and treasures that i would remember for the rest of my life, (there were other factors too) but if i had gone i would of never met my Owner who gives me everything i could possibly want . His undying devotion and his never ending love. Plus he makes the best Nachos i have ever tasted.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 9:15:51 AM

lusciouslips19

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I was told by one that i was a victim and I needed to be punished for it. yea, right. His profile is gone from the website(although a new one could be up) along with the yahoo e-mail he had. poof. Nowhere to be found. Another one that amuses me. I'm sure many here have got one from someone from france. He will give the sub huge breasts by way of plastic surgery. I write : have you even looked at or read my profile at all? Do I look like I am in need of bigger breasts?

< Message edited by lusciouslips19 -- 1/13/2008 9:17:19 AM >

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 9:19:29 AM

Evility

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied
I'm with Treasure on this. I don't see it being a bad thing that he is communicating what he likes and how he wants it to be. Perhaps he is also testing the waters to see if she is amenable to these sorts of authority within a relationship. Simply, if you don't want to do that girly stuff, find a dominant more in tune with the things you like.

And one who will dominate her in precisely the manner that she dictates that she be dominated in. Isn't that what submission is all about?

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 9:27:49 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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i received a message like that - "if you were my pet slave, you would be at me feet worshipping me"

i simply replied back - "thank goodness, i'm not"

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 9:31:30 AM

sexyred1

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I once had a "dominant" describe in detail the anal punishment I would recieve (has to do with glass bottles of different sizes) because I would not submit to phone sex with him, on the first phone call we had.

Damn, why didn't you you send me his number??

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 9:40:18 AM

krista

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Just when i think i've about heard it all..i peruse the forums and discover..i am SOOOOOO wrong in my thinking...!!!!!..i swear i couldn't make shit like this up...!

an ever amazed
krista
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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 9:52:38 AM

eevin

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mislead

please help,anyone who has some input...i am fairly new to this lifestyle and have a question.i have a D who is interested in meeting me,but demands that the first meeting will take place in my home.he wont tell me his first name{real name}and he calls me from a private#,he states he will reveal all information necessary when i meet him.i told him i wanted to meet in a public place for the 1st timewhen requesting this he says he is a very private person.i said,hey you may not like me,nor me you.that didnt matter to him i guess.he has already mad his demands of what i will do to him and him me upon the first meeting..thanks, mislead and very confused

Under NO circumstances would i meet him the way he's acting. All that comes to my mind is seriel rapist, seriel killer, kidnapper, or worse. And letting someone know your personal information before you've ever met isn't a good idea. So i can understand his reluctance to give yoiu his real name because of that. But refusing to meet you ANYWHERE but in the privacy of your own home...that's not a good idea. Unless you're going to have a LOT of friends over for that meeting with him. But even then that doesn't mean he won't just stalk you and come back later when you're alone....

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 10:00:14 AM

KatyLied

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quote:

And one who will dominate her in precisely the manner that she dictates that she be dominated in. Isn't that what submission is all about?

That is not exactly what I'm trying to communicate here. I don't want someone is so wimpy that he will allow me to top from the bottom. But I think it's okay to weed people out knowing that there is going to be some compatibility issues.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 10:16:40 AM

juliaoceania

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Evility

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied
I'm with Treasure on this. I don't see it being a bad thing that he is communicating what he likes and how he wants it to be. Perhaps he is also testing the waters to see if she is amenable to these sorts of authority within a relationship. Simply, if you don't want to do that girly stuff, find a dominant more in tune with the things you like.

And one who will dominate her in precisely the manner that she dictates that she be dominated in. Isn't that what submission is all about?

Is that what you feel submission is all about?

I noted that you have a submissive, does she dictate to you how to dominate her? Or did she make sure that you were precisely the exact opposite of her desires for a dom so she could prove how submissive she was perhaps?

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 10:25:44 AM

OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: TreasureKY

I can see how his desires might not be compatible with you... and I agree that it's usually wisest to find someone who already closely meets your needs or shares your desires. However, I find it distasteful to mock someone else's desires and call them outlandish simply because they aren't agreeable to me.

The "gentleman" that stated those desires was making an attempt to change someone's personality. Which to me is distasteful. Trying to make a tomboy into Barbie is outlandish. And I'm willing to bet that he had a very real clue that she wasn't a Barbie before he made that comment. You're confusing saying that his desires were outlandish vs. saying that his desires were outlandish in that situation. Just like black tie is elegant, but not always appropriate.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 10:27:46 AM

OsideGirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mislead

please help,anyone who has some input...i am fairly new to this lifestyle and have a question.i have a D who is interested in meeting me,but demands that the first meeting will take place in my home.he wont tell me his first name{real name}and he calls me from a private#,he states he will reveal all information necessary when i meet him.i told him i wanted to meet in a public place for the 1st timewhen requesting this he says he is a very private person.i said,hey you may not like me,nor me you.that didnt matter to him i guess.he has already mad his demands of what i will do to him and him me upon the first meeting..thanks, mislead and very confused

Well, you obviously know something is wrong, otherwise you wouldn't be here asking this. TELL HIM NO.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 10:30:47 AM

juliaoceania

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quote:

The "gentleman" that stated those desires was making an attempt to change someone's personality. Which to me is distasteful. Trying to make a tomboy into Barbie is outlandish. And I'm willing to bet that he had a very real clue that she wasn't a Barbie before he made that comment. You're confusing saying that his desires were outlandish vs. saying that his desires were outlandish in that situation. Just like black tie is elegant, but not always appropriate.

In her photo there are two pictures of her, both in dresses, one she is wearing "fuck me" pumps. I do not agree with your estimation of what you think this dom may have or may not have known. I also do not think it is outlandish for a dominant to state what his requirements are for a submissive... no matter who she is. She obviously wasn't what he sought, but that does not make his telling her what he desires "wrong" either. Perhaps she may have accomodated him, and then this thread would never have been born. He wasn't outlandish at all in my opinion.

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