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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 12:55:28 PM   
AquaticSub


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The creepiest, in my opinion, was "if you are my sub you would be bred and kept constantly pregnant".

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 12:58:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I also am completely missing where people are arguing.  There seems to be more agreement on this thread than most around here.  People seem to be stating the same thing, just a bit differently.  More semantics than huge differences or opinion.


I don't see much arguing either. There are some posters who perennially step on their shaky soapboxes to lecture others on how they are going to hell in a handbasket because these posters cannot cope with anyone disagreeing with them. It is so hilarious especially these self same posters supposedly block everyone so how do they even see the arguing?

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 1:22:37 PM   
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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 2:17:50 PM   
daisymae03


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Status: offline 		hmmmm. . . . id say forme it was " if you were my slave/sub you would marry me" amd if i had known the guy more than 2 hours it might not have been so creepy, well tat and teh fact that he told me he stilled lived in is parents garage.  

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 2:50:19 PM   
meticulousgirl


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Status: offline 		maybe the guy was just trying to impress who knows, some Doms enjoy seeing a sub or slave look their best instead of what they consider to be average or in an everyday appearance. 

i would love to have a pedicure, manicure, and massages done on a regular basis....geesh no one ever said being a slave is suppose to be difficult and tiring but, in many ways it is....that's not me saying i dont enjoy though, it's just saying yeah in many ways i wish i could get pampered on occassion.

~meticulous~

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 2:51:54 PM   
meticulousgirl


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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The creepiest, in my opinion, was "if you are my sub you would be bred and kept constantly pregnant".


yeah Aquatic, i think i remember that one a few years back, prior to meeting my Current....

nope obviously i wasn't interested.....i still dont have kids thank God, i'm nowhere near ready yet!

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 3:09:29 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		I didn't find him outlandish at all.  However, I did find him laughable.  More than a few men I have chatted with online believe that a true submissive is one that would accept him into her life, with out knowing his name, or anything else about him except what he wants.  It is some peoples kink, but from my point of view, one I would not tolerate. 
Kyst
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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The "gentleman" that stated those desires was making an attempt to change someone's personality. Which to me is distasteful. Trying to make a tomboy into Barbie is outlandish. And I'm willing to bet that he had a very real clue that she wasn't a Barbie before he made that comment. You're confusing saying that his desires were outlandish vs. saying that his desires were outlandish in that situation. Just like black tie is elegant, but not always appropriate.


In her photo there are two pictures of her, both in dresses, one she is wearing "fuck me" pumps. I do not agree with your estimation of what you think this dom may have or may not have known. I also do not think it is outlandish for a dominant to state what his requirements are for a submissive... no matter who she is. She obviously wasn't what he sought, but that does not make his telling her what he desires "wrong" either. Perhaps she may have accomodated him, and then this thread would never have been born. He wasn't outlandish at all in my opinion.



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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 3:15:47 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		The worst thing that has been suggested to me was that I not "show off" by speaking without slang.  He casually mentioned that I appeared to be too intelligent and it was making people feel I was looking down at them.  One casual remark.. and yeah, I took it to heart.
Some people make requests in subtle ways once you are already a couple.  And that is far more of an issue than being told what they want up front.  At least when you have no involvement it is easier to see them as someone who just will not work for you.
Kyst

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 3:42:51 PM   
IvyMorgan


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Status: offline 		There was the Dom who wanted to give me rohypnol and abduct me.  I said "no it's dangerous" and he asked "why"...

I think that's possibly the weirdest thing, aside from the "come and travel the world with me" and the very nice middle eastern chap who wanted to use me to sweeten his business dealings.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 4:32:44 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		I would of done like someone else said earlier and given him the address of my local police precinct hehehe.

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ORIGINAL: batshalom

The most outlandish thing I heard was from someone I really think was a psychopath who said he would come rape me after I was in bed asleep. Then he asked for my name and number. ~laughing heartily~ So ... what we learn here is that psychotic episodes do not require great brilliance.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 5:06:38 PM   
subantionette


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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The creepiest, in my opinion, was "if you are my sub you would be bred and kept constantly pregnant".


Yes that would be really scary, i have met a few people online that have been great and have a full profile and are forright with information when asked, and some that have no profile and are not forright with information; these are the ones i tend to avoid. I have gotten the "if you were my sub you would not have control over your own bank account, i would give you an allounce like when you were a child" and thats not cool, a budget yes totaly ok, total control over my account not ok. thats just one subs opinion.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 6:19:14 PM   
fullofgrace69


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Status: offline 		i've been told if i was his sub id bow down and f**k all of his mates, id go out wearing just a jacket (n yeah sure maybe id do tht but not on a first meet lol) oh and if i were his sub id follow a random stranger and f**k him in the toilets of a bar without protection..........wen i told him thanks but no thanks i was informed that all girls said no to him but that just meant they wanted to be chased. surprisingly enough he got blocked LOL.
i love some of the messages u get on here they brigthen my day right up.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 6:21:30 PM   
littlebitxxx


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Status: offline 		"If you were my sub, you would..."   usually got the response:  "Good thing I'm not, eh?"

Discussion of likes and dislikes during the interview part of the relationship is one thing.  Demanding or assuming from the get-go gets the heave-ho.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 6:51:10 PM   
AquaticSub


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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 9:20:48 PM   
thegirlincharge


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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 9:30:41 PM   
corsetgirl


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Status: offline 		I had a very anxious dom who just wanted to start "training me" from CM.  I did not mind following his instructions about meeting him at a public place, what to wear, and don't speak to him unless he spoke to me first.  However, when I was on my way to the date, he left a voice mail on my cell phone stating for me to make sure my bottom was throughly cleaned because he was going to do some anal sex on me. 

I cancelled that date and told him that he does not know how to treat a sub like a lady first...goodbye and good luck.  In a few days, his took his whiny "Where are all the real slaves?!" profile off this site.  Gee, might have been something I said?

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 9:41:00 PM   
Vampirate


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Status: offline 		I've been told, "If you were mine, I'd take you to get implants." Which kind of depresses me in a way.

And another about dressing up like Mini Moon from this one kiddy Japanese cartoon.
Although that really doesn't bother me.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/14/2008 12:06:48 AM   
taintedgypsy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I didn't find him outlandish at all.  However, I did find him laughable.  More than a few men I have chatted with online believe that a true submissive is one that would accept him into her life, with out knowing his name, or anything else about him except what he wants.  It is some peoples kink, but from my point of view, one I would not tolerate. 
Kyst
quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

The "gentleman" that stated those desires was making an attempt to change someone's personality. Which to me is distasteful. Trying to make a tomboy into Barbie is outlandish. And I'm willing to bet that he had a very real clue that she wasn't a Barbie before he made that comment. You're confusing saying that his desires were outlandish vs. saying that his desires were outlandish in that situation. Just like black tie is elegant, but not always appropriate.


In her photo there are two pictures of her, both in dresses, one she is wearing "fuck me" pumps. I do not agree with your estimation of what you think this dom may have or may not have known. I also do not think it is outlandish for a dominant to state what his requirements are for a submissive... no matter who she is. She obviously wasn't what he sought, but that does not make his telling her what he desires "wrong" either. Perhaps she may have accomodated him, and then this thread would never have been born. He wasn't outlandish at all in my opinion.




WOW ... ahhh yes this post was made as more of a laugh than serious ... but on a more serious note ... it was not so much the regime of girliness as I do attempt to look after nails and hands (though the caluses are proving a problem to get rid of and the gloves are helping but the handles on the bottles are just so rough and the weight is winning over the gloves and hand treatments) ... it is the fact that I am who I am ... and I like who I am ... I enjoy the freedom of driving the truck, the ability to stop and have lunch by the beach on one run and a nice river bank on annother, also that I am left prety much to my own devices and I am not forced into a conventional social enviroment like found in offices, but still have the social outlet of convos with my regular customers ... I would be like a fish out of water in an office ... I enjoy being strong and fit and enjoy working hard with my hands and the feeling of accomplishing something when at the end of the day my run sheet is completed and my truck reloaded ready for the next day. I can not imagine not working ... it actually frightens me a little ... I only do not work for health reasons, so I equate not working with being unhealthy in my personal prespective.

His requirements were not outlandish to annother but were inappropriate for me personally ... I love to dress up and do the barbie thing but I would not like to live as a barbie doll ... that would be a slow death for me.

As to the other posts on here ... I am torn between the "kept for breeding" and the "menstrational one" as to which is the most creapiest lol.

warm smiles to all and thanks for contributing ... it made for a great read.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/14/2008 3:58:22 AM   
fluffyswitch


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I also am completely missing where people are arguing.  There seems to be more agreement on this thread than most around here.  People seem to be stating the same thing, just a bit differently.  More semantics than huge differences or opinion.

yeah i was wondering that too...

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/14/2008 9:14:23 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: TreasureKY

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

...The best one I can come up with though, is the guy in Egypt who wanted to buy me from Himself.

The price: Two camels and some goats, but he was willing to negotiate!



Celeste


lol... Good thing he didn't offer three camels; that might have been enough for himself to seriously consider it. 

I agree. I'd like to think I'm worth at least three camels.

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