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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 10:34:40 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		I actually had one "Dom" tell me that I'd be kept constantly pregnant. Keep in mind that I'm a cancer survivor and because of the radiation therapy, I'm sterile. I told him that we weren't a good match, that I didn't wish to go through the mental anguish of someone so focused on breeding, he started arguing with me. He told me that I obviously hadn't been with a real Dom if I was unwilling to try to get pregnant. I told him that God outranked him.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 10:38:40 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania


but that does not make his telling her what he desires "wrong" either.
I didn't say it was wrong. But, I was addressing the fact that some felt that she had mocked his desires. People sometimes miss that it's about the situation and not about the person.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 10:41:33 AM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		ok... I gotcha!

As far as outlandish requests. There have been many that made me chuckle, a few that revolted me, but I did not think they were necessarily outlandish. To me outlandish is not speaking with friends or family, disregarding stated hard limits, or having me commit a crime, or just ignore my moral compass... everything else as a request, I figure my profile is on a kink site... they have the right to ask I suppose


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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 10:41:57 AM   
servantheart


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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

You could give him the address to your nearest police station...that would be fun.


Perfect! 

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 10:50:49 AM   
christine1


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Status: offline 		this thread started out being amusing and fun and i think the OP intended it to be that way...but as usual, another thread is turning into an argument. 

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 11:10:30 AM   
takenbyjohnr07


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Status: offline 		i haven't been on here that long, just several months, but i have been on other message boards and on them we have a few trolls, etc that come and gom because the moderators or moderator in some cases, do not let things get out of hand. i have never seen anything like this in my life. Do i feel like a victum? No, not any more, Not after one of the posters explained to me that The people who thrive on insults and hurting others are the victums for they are doomed to a life of anger, bitterness, contempt, which now makes them feel powerful, but in the end they will dig a hole so deep for themselves that they will be swallowed up by their own actions. Whether  a person believes it or not. We, pay for everything that we do, one way or another. It's just God' s choosing when they will get theirs.

On the bright side, i have made many interesting and intelligent friends on here who don't like what's going on either. The good news is nothing lasts forever.

i'll get off my soap box now. :)

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 11:21:34 AM   
sapphirepleasure


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Status: offline 		Let's see, I think the most outlandish one I recently encountered told me that he liked to 'view' nenstruation and therefore I would always be required to bleed onto a towel or into a receptacle, that my money would be direct deposited into his account and that he would have my name legally changed to a specific name he had chosen (what he considered to be a childlike first name along with his last name) so that I could become his daughter.  Um, no.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 11:32:39 AM   
takenbyjohnr07


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Status: offline 		You win the pize if they were giving one. Yuck! If he wanted that imagine what else he wanted that he hadn't gotten around to tell you about yet. 

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 11:33:03 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Yup, one person said ifI was their sub I'd do anal sex when he wanted weather I wanted to or not, and he'd regularly cane my feet, and one time someone told me my dom should be fucking me everyday I said something an he's like well if I was your dom you'd be having tons of sex.

One person told me after telling him how horrendous my first time at anal sex was, that that was hot he'd frequently hurt me like that again.

One other dom said that he'd consider me as his slave but his slaves don't get a say in anything don't get to say no, don't get to talk back, and I hadn't even said I wanted to sub to him let alone be his slave, he was just someone I met for a spanking.
quote:

ORIGINAL: taintedgypsy


Well obviously I am not meant to be His sub ... but what outlandish things have you been told by a Dom would be reality "were you to be owned by Him/Her"?



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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 11:38:02 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		I'm thinking if he was actually a good dominant or someone in general the sub shouldn't have the desire to escape, there for chaining them up would be for kink and not keep you here against will type situation lol.
quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

accept the idea of being bound and chained in his home, to make sure I never get the urge to try and escape.


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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 11:48:15 AM   
cherrypez


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Status: offline 		Fast reply***   Although I have had my share of what I felt were strange comments, after reading through the posts all I can say is what may seem outlandish to some, I would not consider outlandish at all.  For example, forced anal whether I wanted it or not is a mega hot turn on for me but reality dictates, and I know if I were ill or leaving for work or in the middle of cleaning the oven, he wouldn't force it on me.    I typically share fantasies with my Master that are pretty outlandish and probably would never be possible for us to even attempt to try.   The point is we both know it's fantasy and it meant purely to heighten the moment or whatever.   I doubt I would ever message someone I didn't know and share some of these fantasies, but I can sort of understand where they stem from. 
      

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 11:54:57 AM   
Sirsinini


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Status: offline 		what outlandish things have you been told by a Dom would be reality "were you to be owned by Him/Her"?

That I am still who I am and will always be so, no matter what.
 
This was refreshing to me, only because I have been told, like that person told you gypsy, I would be something else.
 
Sir's devoted Inini



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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 12:00:18 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Yes, but I feel it is unusual to have them do so, so they look like someone else,  and remind you of someone else, or you're trying to recapture the look of an old sub that dumped you.

NOT so that they're healthy and fit. and hygenically pleasing to you.
quote:

ORIGINAL: TreasureKY


Don't get me wrong... I do think there are some outlandish desires out there, it's just that from both a societal and lifestyle perspective there isn't really anything unusual about a woman having a regular exercise and grooming regime.


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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 12:04:05 PM   
Sirsinini


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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07
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The people who thrive on insults and hurting others are the victums for they are doomed to a life of anger, bitterness, contempt, which now makes them feel powerful, but in the end they will dig a hole so deep for themselves that they will be swallowed up by their own actions. 
~~snip


I dont want to hyjack this thread but you know taken, this is TRUE!!  My Sir told me this week that the accounts manager in my office will be a "broken man" by the time he reached my age.
 
He gets a thrill out of humiliating others for the sake of seeing them cringe and his behaviour has vacated many positions and office spaces.  The staff turn around has been immense since he came to town (promotion from another office). We all wonder why his regional boss doesnt recognize this.
 
Sorry everyone.
 
Sir's devoted property
 

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 12:15:00 PM   
TreasureKY


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Status: offline 		Christine, I don't think there's any arguing going on here.  There's just some differences in interpretation and opinions. 

It doesn't really matter, anyway... since we don't really know the details, it's all just opinions from our own perspectives. OsideGirl shared her perspective and I agree that a dominant trying to make someone into something that they are not is distasteful.  Then again, there are those, however, who enjoy the idea of someone doing that to them.

But there isn't an real disagreement in the main idea, either.  OsideGirl said, "You're confusing saying that his desires were outlandish vs. saying that his desires were outlandish in that situation."... my comments were, "there is nothing outlandish about his desires.  You two were simply not compatible."  If you think about it, we said pretty much the same thing.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 12:15:13 PM   
BitaTruble


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I, generally, think it's a matter of compatibility, so don't consider anything asked to be particulary outlandish if that's their kink. The best one I can come up with though, is the guy in Egypt who wanted to buy me from Himself.

The price: Two camels and some goats, but he was willing to negotiate!



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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 12:18:04 PM   
TreasureKY


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

...The best one I can come up with though, is the guy in Egypt who wanted to buy me from Himself.

The price: Two camels and some goats, but he was willing to negotiate!



Celeste


lol... Good thing he didn't offer three camels; that might have been enough for himself to seriously consider it. 

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 12:26:38 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		I also am completely missing where people are arguing.  There seems to be more agreement on this thread than most around here.  People seem to be stating the same thing, just a bit differently.  More semantics than huge differences or opinion.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 12:38:19 PM   
takenbyjohnr07


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Status: offline 		i hope he's not your boss.

i had a bosss like that who got away with doing such. He now has a crippling disease that leaves him in constant pain every day. Par for the course since he casued everyone the same pain he is feeling now.

i didn't  wish it on him, It's just what goes around comes around.

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RE: Hve you ever been told ... If you are my sub you wo... - 1/13/2008 12:52:40 PM   
batshalom


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Status: offline 		I had a Master once who turned me from a complete tomboy into a fairly feminie woman. I didn't want to do it, fought it, wound up doing it ... and found out I liked it, and not just because he liked, so the op's original statement isn't outlandish at all to me.

The most outlandish thing I heard was from someone I really think was a psychopath who said he would come rape me after I was in bed asleep. Then he asked for my name and number. ~laughing heartily~ So ... what we learn here is that psychotic episodes do not require great brilliance.

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