LaTigresse -> RE: Not getting what i need. (1/24/2008 1:06:52 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Colour me confused. Sooo, you want a top that coddles you? Sounds more like a case of childish and petulant "I want" rather than need. Actually, I disagree with this. Everyone has the right to want what they want, and not be judged for needing what they need to be happy. If coddling, a pet or D/lg dynamic is what she wants, then that's fine. What isn't fine is that the op isn't mature enough to realize her bf has the same rights to want what he wants. And insufficiently mature to realize that sometimes two people just aren't compatible. She wants her stuff at his expense. And that's where I draw the bottom line. Either you find a win-win situation or you suck it up or you walk. Those are the options. So, am I off the chocolate weekend list for disagreeing? Of course not, I believe in the idea of "agreeing to disagree"
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