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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/25/2008 11:03:03 AM   
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"Thankfully, your dream will remain a fantasy. Abortion isn't such a problem that we'll ever have to resort to such extreme measures. It's an unfortunate fact of life that women have to terminate pregnancies: but it's not the end of the world. Only anti-choice people would have us believe that. "

Actually, it is the end of someone's world.  Quite literally so.  Whether that someone was considered human at the time their world ended- or would have become human at some point in the ensuing months- the world did, indeed, end- for them.



Why does everyone ignore that?  IMO that is the greatest tradegy


i think you would find, if you talked to people who actually had abortions, that they are well aware of this. it's not a procedure that is done without thought or heavy decision making. it's the best choice for them at the time that they had the procedure. i'm assuming that this was not your intention, it's just my general opinioin on the matter, but making this argument suggests that women who have abortions are heartless or have no awareness of the fact that the fetus is alive on some level. i think that does a disjustice to a large amount of women. but as i keep seeing on this board, your mileage may vary.

again just another random opinion here and not necessarily related to this response, but i think that it's more of a fallacy to assume that abortion is ever a truly easy choice to make. while there may be some women who do have abortions as a form of convient birth control, at the same time, i think most women who have them have had to put an extreme amount of thought into that decision, and some may actually have regret that things couldn't have worked out better for them but knew that it was the best option for them at that point of their life.

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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/25/2008 11:56:31 AM   
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I was gonna stay away from this, lots of other ot button subjects but I figured I'd weight in since someone brought up maine and the whole contreceptives to kids thing at school. I was all for this movement and glad it went through. Parents are deluding themselves if they think their UMs aren't out there experimenting. This is also why I believe Abstinece only classes are a crock or shit. Now what happens after the classes and talk is totally on the person his or herself.

To the main topic is a fetus human? By DNA standards yes. Many states make for the provison of the death/murder of a fetus at a certain point in pregnancy if killed at the same time as the mother or killed but not the mother. Does being human mean that it should be safe from beign destroyed. Perfect world? Yes. However since we are a world of Capital Punishment, something I am for in the most heinous of cases, thats not true.

We kill fellow humans every day both innocent and not so innocent.  When we put an end to things like that then we'll have standing ground to say anything against abortion.

now to something Stephan said about a a minor child's pregnancy being the responsiblity of her parents. Thats true only if she has no clue who the father is.  I have seen more teenage boys be real MEN than I have adults whenit ccomes to stuff like this whether its because they are being pushed into it or because they do it of their free will. and even if they guy flakes the parents of the boy may step in.  Thena gain this is only if we're talking about mature parents and we all know how many of them are around these days.

I'm pro choice and even though I believe that a fetus is human I believe it does not gain FULL human standing until it has been born and is recognize by everyone including the goverment as a member of society.




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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/25/2008 12:17:55 PM   
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I'm pro choice and even though I believe that a fetus is human I believe it does not gain FULL human standing until it has been born and is recognize by everyone including the goverment as a member of society.


Hiya,

Also, while I prefer choice, I have a strong belief that government follows societies lead.  Just because a bad thing is legal, doesn't mean it's not bad anymore.  I just have a deeper belief that people should, generally, be free to do bad things so long as it doesn't infringe on the rights and opportunities of others (including their desire to do bad things.)  For example, I think it should be legal to possess and actually drink alcohol in a car while driving, but I also think that cars should be equipped with systems to monitor blood alcohol levels and shut down when one is over the legal limit.  It shows where I'm free to do whatever I like, so long as I don't carry a major risk to the rest of the people around me. 

As for killing innocents, just because 'it happens' doesn't mean we should open the floodgates.  Your comments along those lines could easily be used to decriminalize murder.  After all, innocent people die anyway, right?

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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/25/2008 12:27:29 PM   
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What I said was that when we stop mindlessly killing each other good or bad then we can have some standing on the grounds of abortion. Again thats a perfect world scenerio and not mine. A perfect world for me inone where some shit does happen to make you appreciate the good, plus some goodies for me but I digress. And to be honest at this point in our society murder has varying levels. Look at the law and just what we do in everyday life. Eating meat is murder (not a vegetarian) the flower industry is built on the murder of plants. All our paper goods murder of thousands of trees. As for the law we have murder, manslaughter, involuntary, voluntary, self defense and so forth. Its all a matter of prospective.

As for the drinking and driving comment one that would require full and idiot proof equipment that couldn't be tampered with (unlikely) and the millions of familes affected by a drunk driver not protesting this idea from the get go.


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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/25/2008 12:53:58 PM   
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There's a part of me that goes along with Stephann's idea. If it were up to me, no one would be capable of procreating until they have graduated high school, and college, held down a job and supported themselves in their own home. Then again, I think that cars shouldn't be able to turn unless the driver uses the turn signal.







Hehe I am soooo with you there.

On the whole abortion thing I will say I am pro-choice. This doesn't mean I love the idea of abortions but neither do i believe they are horrible things that never have a time or place in anyone's life. I simply cannot get into the "Is the fetus human" debate because to me it is just so narrow minded. I certainly don't advocate a human being's right to take away anothers life but neither do I think these things should be discussed in such black and white terms.  Even if the fetus is technically human i would ask why does this fetus that has not even fully developed have rights that supersede those of the mother and her choice of what to do with her body? As someone else said I would like to see those that advocate that women don't have a choice carry these babies to term and then raise them. I would like these people to be at each and every household that has a young girl who has to tell her strict parents she has gotten pregnant and take her to safety before she's thrown out of the house or beaten. Or in a less extreme example I'd like them to be there as the child has to grow up with a mother who can't help but show the strain that an unplanned child has put on her. Seems to me this child's life is going to be far more painful than what happens to a fetus that may or may not even be able to feel pain yet. I am not saying this is what happens in all unplanned pregnancies but it certainly can.

Anyway, I didn't mean to go into all that. My main issue with the abortion debate is why anyone believes they have the right to tell anyone what to do with their bodies. Even if i thought abortion was the worst thing ever and on par with murder i would still be pro-choice because pro-choicers aren't trying to tell anyone what to do. They are simply advocating....choice.

If all the people who spend so much time and effort trying to convince people that they shouldn't have the right to have an abortion spent their time and effort educating people about safe sex, contraception and the need for personal responsibility I believe they would prevent a lot more abortions than they are now with their efforts. I mean seriously, make something illegal and that won't stop people from doing it. Do we really want to go back to the days of, well, less safe ways to abort? Because believe me, back when it was hard if not impossible to do it in a clinic women were still doing it. I imagine most of you know how.

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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/25/2008 2:04:41 PM   
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If a mere collection of cells without a nervous system, (a zygote is a fertilized egg for the first 14 days) let alone a brain and a personality is "human" how then can we condone killing or torturing animals who can feel pain, have personalities ( they treat mental disorders in parrots with Zanex!) and are far more aware of what is happening to them than a zygote or even a fetus?

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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/25/2008 4:47:12 PM   
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Point being.. back when white people enslaved black people from Africa here in America. 


Yeah... just can't get past this point...

They were enslaved by other people of color (namely Arabs, but also other Sub Saharan Africans and both were usually Islamic BTW) and sold to whites.

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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/25/2008 5:40:46 PM   
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True.  Those people didn't mind selling out their own for wealth.

Here in America, though, where human rights have been a big deal.. it's my impression that their slavery was justified in denouncing their humanity, that they were considered as animals.. human-like animals in a way, but still also similar to monkeys or cattle.

I imagine abolitionists hit home with slave keepers just about as much as pro-life do with pro-choice today.  A lot of tension and a lot of people who perferred to take advantage of defenseless human life who just didn't want to have to acknowledge that it might be wrong.  It was just too easy and with too many positive results for them to give up.

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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/25/2008 5:47:51 PM   
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Would I take that choice away from my 15 year old daughter? No, I wouldn't.
Would I force my 17 year old son to step up and take responsibility for his actions? You bet I would.


I'm a bit confused.  Don't get me wrong, I agree with the second statement.. but it doesn't make sense in combination with the first.

So the girl always opt out of her responsibility, but the guy can't?  This seems a little odd to me.  Could you elaborate?

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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/25/2008 5:53:56 PM   
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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/25/2008 7:53:53 PM   
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Here in America, though, where human rights have been a big deal.. it's my impression that their slavery was justified in denouncing their humanity, that they were considered as animals.. human-like animals in a way, but still also similar to monkeys or cattle.



This is where your shaky command of the English language becomes the more obvious to all who read you. Put yourself in the shoes of the innocent reader, CL, and feel our pain.

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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/25/2008 8:39:34 PM   
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Would I take that choice away from my 15 year old daughter? No, I wouldn't.
Would I force my 17 year old son to step up and take responsibility for his actions? You bet I would.


I'm a bit confused.  Don't get me wrong, I agree with the second statement.. but it doesn't make sense in combination with the first.

So the girl always opt out of her responsibility, but the guy can't?  This seems a little odd to me.  Could you elaborate?


sure thing...
my daughter is 15... it's her body, it's her choice...I would explain every possible end result to her, and I would support her decision, whatever it is...I am very thankful that she's not remotely interested in sex.

My viewpoint may be skewed to some, but seeing as I've been there, most boys/men really have little responsibility when it comes to stepping up and doing what's right, whether it's telling his own parents that he's gotten a girl into trouble, or to sitting next to the mother of his child while she tells her own parents. The puffed up chests and jutting chins come out, and they deny that it's theirs.

I guess my point is, is that if the guys are gonna screw around, they really should be thinking about the end result and whether they are really prepared to step up and be a man. I'm not condoning unplanned/teenage pregnancy in any way...I don't let anyone off the hook when it comes to irresponsible behavior...I would just make sure my daughter knows the ramifications of her choices.

In other words, my son needs to keep his pecker in his pants, and my daughter needs to keep her jeans on.

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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/28/2008 1:14:53 AM   
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Still, isn't there some inconsistency in allowing your daughter to opt out with respecting her decision yet forcing your son, threatening to do whatever it is you would to compell him against having a decision himself?

I get you've been in the situation, so you may sympathize with your daughter more, but it seems you're stripping your son of options you'd give your daughter.








My apologies for making it personal to you.. with "your son" and "your daughter".  I didn't see a way around it, considering that was the example provided, though I understand it can be distasteful to use your family in a conversation such as this.  For this, I'm sorry.  If you chose to respond, I'll understand if you don't want this particular point to continue.

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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/28/2008 5:07:20 AM   
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Still, isn't there some inconsistency in allowing your daughter to opt out with respecting her decision yet forcing your son, threatening to do whatever it is you would to compell him against having a decision himself?

I get you've been in the situation, so you may sympathize with your daughter more, but it seems you're stripping your son of options you'd give your daughter.









My apologies for making it personal to you.. with "your son" and "your daughter".  I didn't see a way around it, considering that was the example provided, though I understand it can be distasteful to use your family in a conversation such as this.  For this, I'm sorry.  If you chose to respond, I'll understand if you don't want this particular point to continue.


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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/28/2008 7:11:22 AM   
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Abortion debates often come down to, "Is a fetus human?"  This leads to indecision, and the spectacle leaves me exasperated.  So let's talk about it.

Words aren't set in stone, and being "human" isn't some kind of universal truth.  Our DNA is highly similar.. but it varies.  Fortunately for our simplistic notions of life, it doesn't vary continuously.

Point being.. back when white people enslaved black people from Africa here in America.  Their argument is, "They're not human!"  And, in their narrow definition of humanity.. they were correct.  (Their definition, of course, being what we might call "white humans" today.)

But what if we lived in a world where creatures continuously varied in DNA and features?  Right now, when we say "human", it's easy enough to make a cut off.  Any human you pick will have DNA that is in such and such a manner similar to any other's.. and then, at some point, it's not any different.  To make an example, let's say DNA is hypothetically represented by this short series of characters:

asfas3325235asdfasdfafds5234ok  Is a pure-blooded Irish man.
asfas3325235asdfasdfafds5234ol   Is a pure-blooded Irish woman.
asfas3325235asdfasdfafdt5234ok  Is a pure-blooded African man.
asfas3325235asdfasdfafdt5234ol   Is a pure-blooded African woman.
asfas3325235asdfasdfafdt12  Is a pig.
asfas3325235asdfasdfa2  Is a worm.
asfas33252  Is a complex single-celled organism.
asfa1  Is a simple single-celled organism.
a1  Is a virus.

It's pretty easy, if you examine a asfas3325235asdfasdfafdt51235ok, to call it human.  It's a rather slight deviation.. maybe has a third arm or something, but you can see it as being human, right?  Since DNA actually has far more components than the strings of characters I provided, we can also consider something with even smaller variations are human.  Now what about a asfas3325235asdfasdfafasddt5234ok?  Or a asfas3325235asdfasdf234234afaaaasddt5234ok?  Or a asfas3325235asdfasdfafasddt5234okasdf12as?  At what point does it vary enough that you no longer consider it human?  At what point is a creature different enough to not be human?  When it has four arms, but is otherwise normal?  How differently must it think, act, reason?  As, surely, we all have variation, but to what extent is it no longer human?


It strikes me that arbitrarily classifying as "human" vs. "not human" is not a valid, congruent system of morality.  Rather, it's prone to interpretation and seems to be flawed in its very concept.

So, if we can't just call something human or not, then how do we approach it?  Well, why does being human even matter in the first place?  This answer may vary among people, and others are free to address it, but I feel it's largely because each of us is human and it's necessary for our mutual survival and our empathy to accept others in this category.. we see ourselves in others similar to us.  (Then, I must acknowledge that many people just learn humans have value without understanding the reasoning why.  However, to consider the follower's "I was told so" reasoning does little for earnest contemplation.)

This also suggests a more continuous, congruent view of things more similar to one's self being more "human".  This also goes hand-in-hand with our natural view, as we see those more like as.. those we can empathize with.. as more human.


My philosophical bit taking a break to be applied.. we can see this as valid in the abortion debate.

Is a fetus human?  Well, it's not immediately human.. because, well, it's not extremely like me.  I can still empathize with it, though, to some degree, knowing I was once one and that it may someday be like me, able to feel love, pain, etc.  It's simple minded now, but so are newborns who know nothing.. and I still see them as human.

But it's also different.  It's not fully developed (particularly true if it's an early fetus as opposed to a late one), it's not able to think like I do, it's world still consists of living inside of its mother.

So does it deserve values I associate with those who are colloquially considered to be human?

There's no generally accepted pre-existing answer, so we have to derive one.  The semi-human aspect of it suggests that it has human rights to some lesser degree.  Now, does this mean it has almost all of an adult human's rights, or does it have very basic, pretty ignorable rights, or somewhere in between?

Personally, I haven't answered this question yet to my own satisfaction.  My working guess is along the lines of, "It has the right to life, but not to the same extent as an adult human."


What do others think?

Please, think first.
 
 
PS-  I've been using the example of DNA and differences caused by different types of DNA as one sort of difference things can have.  It is not, however, the only difference or consideration by any means.  My point was to show that picking something of some arbitrary difference strikes me as rather silly.


Not only are you racist, you are sexist as well.  If personality can begin at conception, then life begins with conception.   It is an issue that is a woman's choice. 
I am totally anti-abortion now.  I used to be pro until I saw a film on abortion.  I was totally shocked, and reexamined my opinion on it.
I always say, we should practice proper birth control and live like we are supposed to live so that abortion will  not be an option.
It begins with education.  They should teach that in schools rather than how to get pregnant at 16.
 
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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/28/2008 7:28:29 AM   
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Still, isn't there some inconsistency in allowing your daughter to opt out with respecting her decision yet forcing your son, threatening to do whatever it is you would to compell him against having a decision himself?

I get you've been in the situation, so you may sympathize with your daughter more, but it seems you're stripping your son of options you'd give your daughter.

My apologies for making it personal to you.. with "your son" and "your daughter".  I didn't see a way around it, considering that was the example provided, though I understand it can be distasteful to use your family in a conversation such as this.  For this, I'm sorry.  If you chose to respond, I'll understand if you don't want this particular point to continue.


I agree; this sort of example throws a wrench in the whole 'my body my choice' gears for me.  I understand that it is, indeed, a rejection of thousands of years of man deciding where his woman sleeps, eats, and if she has children (or not.)  Still, the concept that the mother should have sole choice to carry a child to term or not, and that the father's right to make that decision started and ended the moment he got into bed (or the backseat, or wherever) comes across as misandrist (male-hating.)

I make the statement, of course, understanding that this is a difficult subject and it is only my opinion which I'll gladly discuss calmly; flames won't be addressed.

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RE: On Abortion: Is a fetus human? - 1/28/2008 7:39:37 AM   
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He's a lot of things I don't particularly approve of but, so far, racist and sexist does not seem to be among the terms that fit.

The point is quite simple: we have no workable, consistent definition of what a human is which does not also either exclude some humans or include some other species. Should we find one, we'll still be left with the problem that there is also no argument that supports abortion of a foetus that does not also support involuntary euthanasia of some individuals as an extended definition of the term, except for arguments that are entirely arbitrary (which is about as valid, ethically speaking, as saying "I felt like it," except the latter is more honest). Furthermore, once you open that door, even if we disregard the unintended consequences (genetic monoculture, slimming tail end of distribution curves, etc.), you are still left with the simple fact that it creates a slippery slope which pretty quickly leads down the road to active eugenics, which has been deemed incongruent with Western morality since WWII, for the most part (exceptions exist up to present day, of course; we're nothing if not a hypocritical species). When does one draw the line?

If a line is not drawn based on objective criteria, then it's ethically no more sound than determining it at the roll of a dice, and it's likely- nay, guaranteed- to shift over time.

The rest of this post will likely offend most, and intrigue a few, so I'd advise all to skip it.



My line is two-fold: the one I draw for my home, and the one I'd support as a community convention (i.e. law).

The community one is drawn based on criteria that are based in objective fact, but still involve a value judgement: I support the right of an organism to act to the detriment and possible demise of another in the interest of self-preservation. When carrying a child to term becomes a self-preservation scenario, I have no objection to the mother defending herself against the threat posed by the unborn child. But I do object to killing the child when it is not in self-defense. And a termination is, after all, just that: legally sanctioned killing. As for what to do when the parent fails to plan ahead to avoid getting into such situations, I would suggest that vasectomy or tube-tying seems like a reasonable option; it's usually reversible, after all.

This view is internally consistent, as it has the feature of appealing to a more general principle.

Or, strictly speaking, it defers the question of consistency by asserting equivalence with the consistency of the general principles involved.

The personal one comes down to something harsher and simpler: the unborn child is not, strictly speaking, entitled to jack shit. It depends on the mother, but she's neither obligated to provide it with a vessel to grow in, nor with sustencance, nor with anything else it needs. But that argument holds at any age. It's internally consistent, but it's not particularly congruent to prevailing norms in Western ethical thought. Hence, it possesses integrity, but does not feature the usual assumption that children are entitled to anything, including life support.

Which is not to say that I'd think highly of one who didn't go "above and beyond" that basic ethic.

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