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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/26/2008 8:19:26 PM   
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I can recall several from my childhood I was about 7 or 8. 

Bullwinkle - Natasha, loved her clothes, she was a huge influence

The Addams Family - Morticia Addams poor Gomez didn't stand a chance - his need to be her everything, he worshiped her, I wanted a Gomez

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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/26/2008 8:37:35 PM   
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The Rifleman....OMG.

This thread has also served as a memory refresher for all those old shows and romance novels. 
And the way he would flip that rifle to lock and load.  *chuckle*



Remember "sea hunt"?

http://www.whirligig-tv.co.uk/tv/adults/other/seahunt.jpg

How about this one ?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-CH0es5afo

Rubberrrrrrrrr

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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/26/2008 8:45:43 PM   
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Or this one?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYwu4F5LFUQ&NR=1

OO LAA LAA!!!!!!!! She can dive with ME anytime!

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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/26/2008 8:52:13 PM   
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quote:

'kiss chase' with the boys ..



Oh my.  Have we all played that one?  I suppose so.  LOL


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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/26/2008 8:54:20 PM   
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The Addams Family


And the way Gomez would take her arm and kiss his way up to her shoulder, then neck.  And, she remained aloof and would say something like..."Gomez, Darling, would you get "Lurch" to put on some music"  And, then they would dance the tango.
*chuckle*


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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/26/2008 9:02:39 PM   
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How bout this one!!  RAWHIDE!!  I love the whip crack at the end.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=EG_hMLWSSR8

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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/27/2008 11:37:36 PM   
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Tonight..i have learned..once again..i have no need to worry about it anymore.. that i wasnt different then many others whom developed sexually at a young age.



Just an FYI:   If you read up on the usual patterns of human development, you will find it a NORMAL development for 2-3 year olds to fondle their genitals.  After all, they have just discovered them!!  It is why many children of this age run around naked and you can't keep their clothes on them.  And, yes, I believe it is the "prudish" social conditioning that ends up suppressing these curiosities until puberty, and the hormones that go with it, supercede some of this conditioning.  Unfortunately, sometimes the social conditioning is so strong, these sexual urges are suppressed way into adulthood.  Until another "usual" stage of human development comes into play around the 30's.  The "introspective" stage.  I believe this is when many come into the lifestyle.  Somewhere in their 30s.  Not ALL mind you.  But you will find a large percentage do.
Thank you for your story.  It was delightful to read.






Glad You liked reading my story Ma'am.. i have enjoyed reading everyone elses as well. i love that You brought this out as a thread..thanks

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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/28/2008 12:33:30 AM   
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i remember being in elementary school, and organizing the neighborhood children to play 'Aztec Sacrifice' in the park. Read about it in my children's encyclopedia.

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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/28/2008 10:10:52 AM   
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organizing the neighborhood children to play 'Aztec Sacrifice'


And, what, pray tell...was the ceremony of actual sacrafice?  *chuckle*


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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/28/2008 10:14:44 AM   
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Lol, when I was little, somewhere around 7, they were showing that 60's Batman show on tv. When I was fantasyplaying alone, I often played to be catwoman trapped and ropd somewhere waiting for Batman to come and rescue me. :D



Oohhh... I always wanted to be Batgirl.  Captured by the bad guys and awaiting rescue though being tormented.  ::sigh::

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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/28/2008 10:19:53 AM   
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MIstressVnus, it was the Aztec ceremony where the put the sacrifice on a stone alter, and cut out thier heart with a knife.

my memory of it is not very clear.. not sure what grade i was in.

who knew i would turn out to be a submissive...

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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/28/2008 10:23:25 AM   
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and, of course, it was mimed. no actual knives or stone alters were involved.

baby doll

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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/28/2008 3:38:16 PM   
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Thank you for sharing that, Lady Gray.

If you don't mind my asking, do you think self-infliction of pain at such an early age was a form of an emotional release for you due to a stressfull enviroment, or other similar factor? Or, just a fascination for it, plain and simple.



Well, I could get all psychological about it, because my childhood wasn't exactly peachy, but honestly I think I was just fascinated. I don't remember doing much self mutilation stuff when I was upset, just when I was bored or curious.

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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/28/2008 3:55:12 PM   
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I caught on a lot slower than some of those here on the forum. I think I've always been attracted dominant guys, it just took me forever to figure it out. I've known about sex since I was 5 or so, I had an older friend who always told me about the things she learned, but BDSM never clicked for me until puberty. But the first time I read about a D/s relationship, I must have been twelve or so, I knew it was for me.

Actually, looking at my childhood, mostly it seems that I would have come out as a Domme and not the sub I am. I was a terribly manipulative child. I distinctly remember in third grade convincing a boy to show me his jiggly bits on the playground. But I do remember my first vaguely BDSM experience. I was at a boy down the street's house, Sam, and he locked me in a closet with him. Nothing happened, but I remember it feeling incredibly sexy to be locked in a small room at the mercy of an older boy.


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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/28/2008 7:20:07 PM   
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I was going to comment on how young everyone seemed to have started... until I really started thinking back to my first inklings of submission.

I remember being in my bed at the first house I lived in. We moved half way through the second grade, so it was at some point before then. I had a small blanket I would wrap around myself like a diaper and imagine someone (I don't know who now) was forcing me to wear it despite my begging for it to be removed. It was so deliciously embarrassing for me at the time. Though I'm not into diapers now, I do love chastity.

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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/29/2008 1:27:46 AM   
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it was mimed. no actual knives or stone alters were involved.


LOL...yes, I didn't think there would be any great finds if an arheological dig were to occur.
I was just more curious if you were actually "acting out" the sacrifice of life, or having the victim perform some other sacrifice that might have been a bit more "doable."


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RE: VERY FIRST memory of indication - 1/29/2008 1:45:39 AM   
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I was watching "We Love the 80s" or some show like that. (Scary how it's now considered retro) And I realized that most of my fetishes were most likely birthed by watching MTV.

I distinctly remember the leather clad women tantalizing and torturing the prisoner in the "Twilight Zone" video by Golden Earring and getting "warm fuzzies". This was before I was even old enough to know what warm fuzzies were. "Hurt So Good" by John Cougar, made me go "Hmm??? I must ponder this supossed dychotomy." Or something along those lines.

BTW - Does anyone else think "Father Figure" by George Michael is a Daddy Dom song? Funny thing, I hadn't thought of that song in years, and it just happened to be playing on the radio as I was driving to meet the man who is now my master.

~A

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