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Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:06:13 AM   
TenchiRyokoMuyo


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Status: offline 		I've never been interested at all in phone sex. I've never really understood the point of it. No, I'm not talking about 900 numbers. I'm talking about with someone who's not getting paid. Such as a submissive/lover/partner, whatever you wish to call it.

What does it do for you (If anything), and why?
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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:08:35 AM   
shysub0951


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Status: offline 		Because i'm a touch feely type person, phone sex has never worked for me. i've done it a couple times with another Dom, and it was like having a regular conversation with another person.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:14:52 AM   
Shawn1066


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Status: offline 		I've never partaken in phone sex, but I'm pretty sure it'd work rather well if I did it with my Owner.

Why?  I'm very verbal/mental when it comes to sexual-type things.  Very much moreso than I am visually based.  Words and certain language has always had a very strong pull to me.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:15:11 AM   
venusinblu


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Status: offline 		It's a useful tool for those who are long distance - it's not preferable to hands on, skin to skin sex by any stretch of the imagination, but when you miss each other, whatcha gonna do? <shrug> .... 

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:28:51 AM   
EponasChylde


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Status: offline 		I'm a very verbal and mental person and even when I was living with my ex, I still enjoyed when he was out of town and would call me and have phone sex with me....It's fun to masturbate while listening to their voice in your ear and hearing all the naughty things they would do to you...It's just very much a mental stimulation.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:32:07 AM   
Gwynvyd


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Status: offline 		well you have to have a connection with that person.. and an imagination on both ends of the line.. otherwise it is boring as hell... but if you are both turned on.. and really well matched verbaly.. it can be really hot. I used to have daily phone sex with a pet of mine... *smiles* even call him at his office and make him squirm infront of his boss...

I loved it.

but I wont do it with just any one.

Gwyn

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:32:18 AM   
AMaster


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Status: offline 		Phone sex does nothing for me.  I need physical contact.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:32:35 AM   
venusinblu


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Status: offline 		And! Phone sex is not limited to indoors in bed ... you can take a cell phone anywhere ... have phone sex anywhere.  As was just stated it's very 'mental' and it's limits are bounded only by ones imagination - and my Master has an incredible imagination!



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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:36:56 AM   
Muttling


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Status: offline 		I have done it once and that was with a dear friend/ occassional playmate.   I never thought I could get into it, but it was fun with her.  Not nearly as good as the real thing, but a lot better than pure solo.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:39:42 AM   
KyttynTheMynx


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Status: offline 		Like, its been said, its got nothing on actual flesh slappin' sex, but for me its a close second.  If I cant touch a partner, the next hottest thing for me to do is hear him, and let him hear me, tell me what he wants me to do, things like that.  Sure beats sitting behind a keyboard and typing out random noises. lmao.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:42:25 AM   
Bamslilgirl


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Status: offline 		Hmmmm.....phone sex. I'd have to say that it falls WAY short of satisfying for me. I've done it just a few times, but it was rather wierd. I could have just masturbated by myself & had the same fun, only not had to listen to some stupid guy as I was doing it.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:50:25 AM   
ItalianSMistress


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Status: offline 		I have never understood having phone sex with someone you have just started talking to.  I have a friend that will right into it, with someone she just met on a chatroom somewhere.  There is no way that would work with Me, cuz if the other person does not know what I like, someone little could be said or done that would kill My urge to masturbate in a second.  However, with someone I have known a while, and we get along sexually in other ways, then it can be fun.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:51:52 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		What does it do for me? It gives me the giggles. Otherwise, it's worthless.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:54:30 AM   
lauren0221


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Status: offline 		I must be missing the phone sex gene. It actually has the opposite of the intended effect.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:55:11 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I've never done it, but my sub has in past relationships. He thinks its very erotic and a great way to masturbate, so I tried it once. I couldn't stop giggling and I don't know why, what he was saying was hot but it just struck me as funny doing it over the phone. I'd much rather do it in person so, we don't phone sex. 

~Lashra


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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 10:00:56 AM   
LadyLynx


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Status: offline 		When I 1st entered the lifestyle, I liked it quite a bit.  One of the 1st Doms I talked too, was down in Georgia, omg, he had the sexiest voice!  But now that i have experienced a fair amount, phone sex doesn't do much for me, i wish it did.

Doesn't help that over the summer I had a bad scare: I was on Literotica's chat and talking to a lady in Texas, after a while, she asked if she could call me, I said sure, and gave her my #. The phone rang and it was a man's voice.  He told me he was going to blackmail me into doing things.  Anyways I figured later on that it was a blackmail fantasy. but it still soured me on phone sex with ppl I don't know. which is prolly just as well


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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 10:02:24 AM   
Bound2One


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Status: offline 		::shrugs::  When I can't be with my One ... it's lovely to hear him enjoy himself on the other end of the phone.  It's exciting to know that my words and voice alone get him there.  It's fun sharing whispered dirty thoughts with one another. 

It's not a substitute for the real thing ... but it's a fun addition!

I couldn't get into it with someone I didn't know, though.  That would be way too awkward.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 10:18:06 AM   
venusinblu


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

Like, its been said, its got nothing on actual flesh slappin' sex, but for me its a close second.  If I cant touch a partner, the next hottest thing for me to do is hear him, and let him hear me, tell me what he wants me to do, things like that.  Sure beats sitting behind a keyboard and typing out random noises. lmao.


LOL! .. "Sure beats sitting behind a keyboard and typing out random noises. lmao." ... exactly! ... I have had thoughts about that and think that Mac should come up with a special cyber-sex key option for their next keyboard .. press it any time during cyber and it types various 'Mmmmms, OMFGs and yes, yes, yes!' statements at random!  

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Louis: Do you think I would let them harm you?
Claudia: No you would not Louis. Danger holds you to me.
Louis: Love holds you to me.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 10:24:46 AM   
KyttynTheMynx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: venusinblu

quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

Like, its been said, its got nothing on actual flesh slappin' sex, but for me its a close second.  If I cant touch a partner, the next hottest thing for me to do is hear him, and let him hear me, tell me what he wants me to do, things like that.  Sure beats sitting behind a keyboard and typing out random noises. lmao.


LOL! .. "Sure beats sitting behind a keyboard and typing out random noises. lmao." ... exactly! ... I have had thoughts about that and think that Mac should come up with a special cyber-sex key option for their next keyboard .. press it any time during cyber and it types various 'Mmmmms, OMFGs and yes, yes, yes!' statements at random!  


I've heard the voice programs on Mac, and we played with the voice feature, and its too funny to even get aroused by because the voices are so expressionless and monotone.  But yea...Good for a hell of a laugh.


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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 10:31:25 AM   
wisteriaV


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Status: offline 		I hear the condoms for phone sex are pricey and it can be a tight fit shoving the phone up your hole ..so it isnt on the priority list of my life.

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