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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

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ORIGINAL: camille65
Hey luci, for what it's worth I've never considered you to be a braggert.  I do like reading about other peoples happiness. Sometimes I mention my own.

Thank you, camille.  It's worth a lot, actually.  I also like reading about other people's happiness and I've often read about yours.  Congrats.  The genuine happiness of some of the folks here really does shine through.  When I read posts by you, ownedgirlie, mercnbeth, beingchewsie, julietsierra and many others, there is no doubt in my mind that what I'm reading is the genuine report of a happy, healthy relationship.  That's what I hope people read in my posts as well.  For anyone who sees it as red did, I'm afraid you've got a very warped sense of perception. 

There was a thread started awhile back asking people to "brag" about their relationship.  While most people didn't care for that word, I felt I knew what the OP meant and I shared the facts about mine.  I didn't "brag" there and I don't "brag" anywhere else on these forums.  I simply tell how it works for us.  If that comes off as so wonderful that it must be bragging, well bully for us, I suppose.  Thanks for the kind words................luci

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Oh come now Jeffff honey, you can tell us alllllll the intimate little details.......it's okay it'll be our little secret....

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

This may sound cynical, but I think that those who proclaim the loudest are trying to convince us and them that they are in a wonderful relationship.  When I've been in a great relationship I've talked a little about it, mainly I've enjoyed it privately, because I don't want it to be a thing of public consumption.  I may share good things with a few people.  I think that people who gush constantly on the message board need to have public approval for what they do.  Perhaps because they aren't getting that acknowledgement in their relationship.

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Oh come now Jeffff honey, you can tell us alllllll the intimate little details.......it's okay it'll be our little secret....

No!!.... and you can't make me..

Jeff

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

any time sweetie pie.........:)

Jeff

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ORIGINAL: BeingChewsie
I only have good things to say about the man. He has given me and my um a life that I never would of thought possible a decade ago. I'm grateful for every moment as his. I hope that serenity and I guess "bliss" comes through in my posts. That is one thing I don't think anyone should apologize for or feel that they can't express here

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

Happiness should be taken whenever we can get it, and it should be shared. There is far too much negativity in the world.

It depends on the source of one's happiness. My new found love of crack and snuff films brings me the most delight I have experienced in over a decade. I would like to share it with you but I think it might be against tos if I go into the graphic details. For some reason when I shared the cause for my new found glee with the people who attend my pottery class it was not well received.

Anywhooo, there are many who treat relationships like drugs...It's a momentary euphoria followed by the stealing from your loved ones and lighting some hobos on fire.

It isn't about happiness...It's fine to be happy when there is a legitimate cause to be happy for someone...This is more about learning certain social skills...Ya know, when you hear someone comment for the umpteenth time that they have found "the one" or their soulmate...You learn not to laugh, blow pop out your nose, hold you "circled" right hand in front of your chest and move it up and down demonstrating the mock hand job or roll your eyes in their presence.

I wonder if the subs who come out here and proclaim there happiness are told to do so by their Dom? It would be great pub..Make her comment on my perfection as a mate and a Dom...How I don't fart. How I fuck like I just got rescued from a deserted island. That I am deliciously diabolical...Hmmmm...Might have to create a new profile for that sub I just collared...I think she is going to say that I am dreamy. Tragically she will be killed in a fire.

Maybe it would be refreshing if they had a "Low Expectations" thread

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci
Now I find out that if one expresses it TOO much, they are just trying to convince themselves, it seems.  Those who talk about being the happiest are really the loneliest, right?