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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 3:36:56 PM

greyangelus

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10 years?? I'll be dead by then!! lol

One of the blessings of being young. We can afford to be patient once we finally figure out what that word means.

Then again, I'd love to have the blessing of being old too. I'm greedy like that

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 3:46:55 PM

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what blessings? the only good thing about being over 40 is that you get to complain about being over 40! (& generally get away with it) ha ha

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 3:55:14 PM

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I'm sure in my profile it makes no mention of sadism or extremeism

my guess it they are assuming so, due to the name that you have chosen to use, gives kind of an impression that you are into extremeism

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 4:02:04 PM

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yes i undrstand that... however if they then actually read the profile they should realise im not extreme so surely not waste their time sending a message?

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 4:03:26 PM

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They're so mesmerized by your presence that they can no longer understand the written word. I'm just sayin.'

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 4:06:53 PM

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lmao..... someone with a sense of humour!!!!!!

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 4:16:00 PM

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yes i undrstand that... however if they then actually read the profile they should realise im not extreme so surely not waste their time sending a message?

Try putting it in your profile instead of your journal maybe? I don't always read journals.

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 4:18:31 PM

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shoots off to check profile since i kinda thought it did say!!

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 4:23:20 PM

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Well you don't spell it out like you do in your journal, athough I would leave out the move on part personally. People will still contact you that don't fit whats in your profile anyway, but it might cut down the numbers.

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 4:24:11 PM

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I would also suggest continuing to post on the forums. Alot of the people on cm who are interested in getting to know more about a person than their measurements and kinky fantasies spend time over here and if I see someone who looks interesting in the forums I'll perv their profile, and usually read the whole thing. For me personally, taking part in the forums shows someone's interest in getting to know people, as friends, or more or at least just have interesting conversations which is far more interesting to me than someone who just browses profiles all day. Master contacted me because of somethign i wrote on the forums and even though he had nothing in his profile at the time I had seen him around the forums so I wrote him back. Most of the friendships we have made on cm come from people we interact with here on the forums.

Side note, faerytattoodgirl, I LOVE your tats!

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 4:25:35 PM

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damnit...my tattoos always get loved....but i dont!!!

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 4:28:59 PM

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thank you charlotte i fully intend to continue using the forums as you can never have too many friends and since i have started to i have found it very interesting and informative

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 4:30:30 PM

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i can't see your tatoos lol

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 4:43:03 PM

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damnit...my tattoos always get loved....but i dont!!!

Awwww I was going to say I love your pics period but since I had never seen fairy tattoos I liked so much I mentioned them.

I think you look great with the red hair. :)

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 4:52:21 PM

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i think its gonna be impossible to find love here.....my profile gets viewed by 500 men to 1 woman who views my profile....so fat chance of finding love lol

not to mention..the women that view me are already taken...like you for example... your already taken :(

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 5:38:02 PM

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I read profiles. There's usually something I can find in common, besides being kinky. I've been to 16 countries, so I've accumulated a few travel stories. I used to own a restaurant in Va-Highlands, so I can talk about food and cookbooks. I can write a passable sentence in German. I own my house. I play drums. I garden. I have a lot of interests. I'm guessing there are as many assholettes as there are assholes, though. Really full of themselves. "I've been in the lifestyle for 3 centuries! (you do look like a shrivelled up old vampire) I'm TWOO! (what an achievement)" Then, every once in a while, an unpretensious friendly and decent woman will either contact me or reply. If she contacts me, I may not always be interested, but I'll answer (unless I screw up and completely forget) because that is the polite thing to do. I almost always let non-repliers slide, but once in a while I send out another email fucking with them. As in, "You know, it seems like we have a lot in common, so it's " and let the sentence and email die. Or I'll write a brief erotic message using another woman's name. Nothing malicious, though. Not my style. I have a pretty good grasp of my personality, my skill-set, my economic status, and my knowledge of female anatomy. And it might sound egotistical, but "her loss". Peace

Va-Highlands?? I used to live in L5P :)

Grateful to be outta ATL though.... friggin traffic...

Yeah, Va-Highlands. Poncey-Highlands, really. How long ago were you there? Where'd you live? I live in East Cobb (buncha goddamn Fascists out here...)

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 5:59:12 PM

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I always read profiles and write a personal reply to those who interest me. I had to put a disclaimer in mine though that I am NOT interested in K-9 training at all, ( unless she absolutely begs me to), because all any one remembers about Pavlov is the damn dog.

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 6:06:09 PM

Maya2001

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ORIGINAL: Baddsir

yes i undrstand that... however if they then actually read the profile they should realise im not extreme so surely not waste their time sending a message?

I find it helps to put the most important point right at the beginning of my profile so it ends up in quotes in large print just above my pictures, since that seems to end up what most are focusing on when they shoot me an email instead of reading through a profile.

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what blessings? the only good thing about being over 40 is that you get to complain about being over 40! (& generally get away with it) ha ha

Speak for yourself lol being in my 40's has been great and now that I close to hitting 50 I don't think things will change too much entering my 50's either

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 6:13:05 PM

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i think this is a topic we all have a problem with as it's happening to all of us. Here i am Owned, i've been owned for 5 years and that is more than clearly stated in my profile however my inbox is filled with gentleman who dont seem to take the message that states not to bother contacting me for that purpose.

My advice is read but, dont reply it's just a waste of time....

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RE: Does any one actually read profiles? - 2/4/2008 11:01:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

They're so mesmerized by your presence that they can no longer understand the written word. I'm just sayin.'

Cali

Well, I'm so mesmerized by that ass in your avatar that, if I were a cobra and that ass was charming my snake I'd be weaving to and fro trying to sink my teeth into it. I'm just sayin'.