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If you want to complain to someone for putting down fat chicks, start looking in the collective feminine mirror.

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ORIGINAL: TracyTaken

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If you want to complain to someone for putting down fat chicks, start looking in the collective feminine mirror.

Ain't that the truth.  They are brutal too (recent threads on obesity are evidence of that).  I also believe women dress much more for each other than they do for men, even if they don't realize that's what they are doing.

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol
There's a tradition of being brutally cruel to women the clique feels is below standard; and simultaneously, a habit of being bitchy to women the clique is jealous of. Nobody can win. I say: abolish cliques and start thinking for ourselves :-) .

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Cliques are just people gravitating toward like matter. 

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ORIGINAL: rhiannon36

I am new to the site and found this thread interesting. In my experience, women who attack other women are usually very insecure, especially women who feel the need to even ask the question, are women born to be bitches? I would expect men to possibly ask that, not women, unless of course, the woman already knows the answer, since, she herself, is one.

As for cliques, again, the women who feel left out cry foul the most and start attacking those they are jealous of. Sort of like the little boy who pulls the pigtails of the girl he really does want, but who will never give him the time of day.

Those who feel left out, tend to stir up trouble from those they seek approval from. What a sad statement this makes on those who feel unworthy to support other women, when we have enough trouble getting equal rights in life.

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ORIGINAL: Kalista07

Kittin, i'm sorry i don't understand Your post here..could You explain it to me? Sorry...

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ORIGINAL mnottertail

not just here, in general.  See memoirs of a geisha.

I know what these bitches are talking about, I owned 4 slaves once.

Carolus Magnus

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ORIGINAL: domahpet

that says to me that unless youre actually with the 'in' crowd, you detest them,
and the makes you look very sad

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There's a tradition of being brutally cruel to women the clique feels is below standard; and simultaneously, a habit of being bitchy to women the clique is jealous of.

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Seriously now, I detest cliques because of my personal experience (it doesn't matter what they're made of - women, men, co-ed, take your pick). A clique speaks to me of a group with a negative agenda whose main reason is to self-perpetuate. The particular kind of bitchiness that concerns me is often fed by all-women cliques (the ones that bully vulnerable, or simply different, outsiders).

It's very different from a group of friends, for example, or from an fraternity. But I suppose all of us have different opinions on the subject. Yours is welcome.

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that says to me that unless youre actually with the 'in' crowd, you detest them,
and the makes you look very sad

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ORIGINAL: domahpet

that says to me that unless youre actually with the 'in' crowd, you detest them,
and the makes you look very sad

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I doubt seriously you would ever find any of us degrading each other and sniping the way the woman on this thread have.

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ORIGINAL: rhiannon36

I doubt seriously you would ever find any of us degrading each other and sniping the way the woman on this thread have.

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But then again, my friends and I are very secure with our looks, lives and each other.