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RE: Isn't there Just one Left? - 9/13/2005 4:41:25 PM

RainGod

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Hi dark angel and all others too...
dark angel wrote:

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Not everyone agrees with all... but there are some good people here(as you have seen by the emails you have reportedly received) -

I can definately agree on that with you. I suppose as long as the world has had humans there have been different opinions, and that's cool. I have also noticed certain posters here will never be pleased no matter what I write. I was not insulting anyone in My explaination post. I believe I said "To some I suppose an apology would not matter for the way I reacted to the rather close-mindedness I received from a few here.". I do not see any names mentioned... it was open. If the posters who still want to badger Me over it are miffed by that, I can only say "if the shoe fits...".

I am here to try and learn, and maybe share something along the way. I can see there will be a few here who will not agree with Me even if I said the sky was blue, but c'set la vie, nez pa?

There were some who originally reacted to Muy negativity and then said they understood what I meant, and they were cool about it. To those... thank you from the bottom of My heart. I do not try to be a bastard, but sometimes My black-and-white way of seeing things would make it appear so. I will endevour to be more friendly.

Thanks again everyone.

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RE: Isn't there Just one Left? - 9/13/2005 5:10:23 PM

softysub

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hi

maybe this is off the topic, but what about a sub who has been asked to have a session with a Dom and that Dom tells her that He is spending the weekend with another sub?

What do you say to that?

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RE: Isn't there Just one Left? - 9/13/2005 5:39:32 PM

Mylee

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ORIGINAL: softysub

hi

maybe this is off the topic, but what about a sub who has been asked to have a session with a Dom and that Dom tells her that He is spending the weekend with another sub?

What do you say to that?

i'd say im sorry, and that that must feel horrible ..though i dont know what the dynamics of the relationship or how it was defiened maybe the Dom is polly...i dunno, but if i was on the receiving end of my playmate wanting to play with another after inviting me, my feelings would be hurt....

...and Rainglod Sir, im glad you decided to stay and give us another chance

~my'lee

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RE: Isn't there Just one Left? - 9/13/2005 6:31:53 PM

OsideGirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: softysub

hi

maybe this is off the topic, but what about a sub who has been asked to have a session with a Dom and that Dom tells her that He is spending the weekend with another sub?

What do you say to that?

Is it just a session? To me negotiating out a scene or session is one time time deal. It's a play date, nothing more and the committment doesn't extend past that point. It's completely different if you're going under contract, collar, or ownership.

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I do not try to be a bastard

But, wait! Bastards can be fun!!

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RE: Isn't there Just one Left? - 9/13/2005 6:59:06 PM

1CHRONDOM

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all i can say is, there are those of us out there for whom this isnt a game, but you have to try the glass slipper on many a foot before you find your cinderella

I liked this qoute from mylee. When I first met my tesha I had sent out numourous emails to several subs. When she responded and agreed to meet I was pleased. We met and by God's will we had an instant attraction. I stated in the profile(not on this site mind you) I was poly and she had to accept that to be with me. I first told her the same. Not to speak with any other Doms. As I kept up with her and another sub it donned on me that it made no since to limit her ability to speak with others and still claim I am poly. I then changed my mind and told her it was ok. I hadn't collared her at that time so I had really no right to limit her in that way. Maybe I wasn't the One for her. Maybe I was. At such an early stage it is impossible to tell. When I did collar her my feelings were not changed. She still may chat with other Doms. The funny thing is SHE doesn't WANT to. My point is that submission is a gift. Why not let HER give it to YOU. I am so glad tesha made her choice in me to guide her. I have no fear of her leaving me for another..but if she does then its on her. I think its a compliment to be the One she chooses to be her Daddy. She still gets tons of emails from other Doms. That just makes me feel alot better about MYSELF to know such a treasure is known to be a treasure by others and yet they can't break the lock.

"I can see I came here to gain insight and got nothing more than a bunch of bullshit from some folks with too much self pride to care about anyone but themselves and their own agendas.
Peace out... besides, this is just online, you dont mean shit."

Of course..you don't care what online people have to say when it is negative...but why add to the negativity? Just don't follow or pay attention to those posts that offended you and move on. I hope you find what you seek.