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ItalianSMistress -> RE: Is Bisexual play bisexual? (2/11/2008 1:14:52 PM)
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The Kinsey Scale is perfect for this type of thing, you dont have to be closed into a box, just do what you enjoy. I know I am a dyke, but just the fact that I have BDSM sessions with males, and that it is a turn on, that puts Me at a 5, according to the test that is where I landed.
0- Exclusively heterosexual with no homosexual
1- Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2- Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3- Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4- Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5- Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6- Exclusively homosexual
Bisexuality is sometimes misunderstood as being a perfect 3 on the Kinsey scale, but very few people could then rightly be called bisexual. There are even people who define most of humanity as bisexual, leaving only the perfect 6s and perfect 0s as straight or gay. This isn't particularly fair since it is entirely common to experiment in one's youth until one's orientation is entirely understood. And anyway, there should be at least a little wiggle room for everyone to try unusual experiences a time or two in their life.
A problem with Kinsey's scale is how they rate you, you only get to use past sexual behavior therefore a virgin would have no rating at all according to Kinsey because they have had no sexual experiences. Also, a person with only one sexual experience would be automatically placed in the 0 or 6 column.
There are also assumptions that all sexual experiences are undertaken for pleasure and therefore have a direct bearing on sexual orientation. In reality, we know that sexual experiences are undertaken for other reasons. A lesbian might have an opposite-gender experience in order to have children. A prostitute might have sex with someone for money whom they would not ordinarily pair up with. People are also sometimes coerced into sex while inebriated or under the influence of drugs that they might refuse while sober.
It was also Kinsey that studied to find out that about 10% of the gen pop is gay. The is broken down to 13% of males and 7% of females. Even tho that number may seem low to someone today,,,back when he did the study, other researchers were shocked thinking that less than 1% of the population was gay.
I dont think that being trained to service males makes you bisexual off the bat. You may not be attracted to the male form, but will do it to please your Domme. You may not even be able to have a male on male experience without a female there, in which case, I would say you are kinky yes, bi no. Do you desire to kiss a male? Have sex with him? Could you ever be in a long term relationship with a male? Fall in love with him? There is way more to being bisexual or str8 or gay, then sucking some cock. I may be able to touch a cock to do some cbt and it might even turn Me on, but I am not bi, cuz if I had to do any of those other things I just said with a male I would DIE.
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