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Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 12:48:49 PM

CelticPrince

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this will be an adjunct to my prior Characteristics of being "Property"

there were many interesting posts that shared real content aside from the jocular one liners that always show up.
I expect only those that "feel it" will contribute to this thread; but now that being said consider this!

you consider yourself the property of your Master. Now Master wanting to show off his control of his sub/slave wants to share you with his friends while he iattends as a safeguard.

Question 1 Would you agree?

Question 2 if not why not?

question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel?

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 12:57:10 PM

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so long as I am not repulsed and he is present and all necessary precautions are taken.

I might be happy if I had always had an attraction to the fella. Or if not, doing it to make Master happy. I would be happy if it pleased him but perhaps not all starry eyed about it.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 12:59:03 PM

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We've talked of this, he has expressed a desire to watch me play with others and it will happen when the time is right. So 1. I've already agreed, 2. NA. 3. I expect it would make me hot.

Many years ago, long before I knew anything of WIITWD I was in a relationship where I was asked to service the BF's friend. Since the request came out of the blue, it took alot of convincing before I did it, but there was something about doing what he wanted when I wasn't to keen on it and having him watch that was kind or erotic.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 1:00:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince
Question 1 Would you agree?

Question 2 if not why not?

question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel?

CP

This should have been agreed upon before/when the submissive BECAME submissive to that dominant. The sub should already know that this is a possibility and be ok with it before agreeing to it.

If they haven't, well that's work that needs to be done.

For me, it depends on how I'm feeling and how fun the guys are. I've done this before and sometimes it's awesome and fabulous, and sometimes it's boring, and sometimes it's annoying and a waste of time except that I'm providing good service. And it wouldn't be to prove anything, it would just be because he wants to use me like that.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 1:05:19 PM

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as a Dom:

yes there is definitly something to be said about showing off your property... but its not just about the kudos to your Twue Dom ego. at least for myself its about the Pride I have in my submissive. the pride I have seeing her get through a scene because of her strength, abillities, ect.

its also about learning. the more experience you have the better for the both of us. watching my sub scene with others helps me gain that outside perspective that I don't get when I am involved in the scene. Also seeing how my sub reacts to different things that I wouldn't normally do (or haven't done yet)

then of course there is the lazy factor:
sometimes i just want to sit and relax and watch someone have fun with my woman. perhaps while i'm having a wonderful conversation.

then lastly there is the Joy in other peoples joy:
If I was going to let me sub play with someone else...it would be because I trust them. If i trust them, then I most likely Like them as a person. if thats the case then I just get real joy from watching two people I care about have fun.

The aboslute only thing it is NOT:
it is not a way of Bragging by saying"hey look i'm such a Twue Dom I can make my property play with whomever I want them to"

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 1:51:27 PM

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quote:

Question 1 Would you agree?

Question 2 if not why not?

as Master's property, this slave has no right of refusal, so agreeing or not would be a moot point.

BL---if He wants to do it, so mote it be.

quote:

question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel?

happy and most appreciative for yet another opportunity to serve Him for His pleasure.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 2:02:47 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

this will be an adjunct to my prior Characteristics of being "Property"

there were many interesting posts that shared real content aside from the jocular one liners that always show up.
I expect only those that "feel it" will contribute to this thread; but now that being said consider this!

you consider yourself the property of your Master. Now Master wanting to show off his control of his sub/slave wants to share you with his friends while he iattends as a safeguard.

Question 1 Would you agree?

Question 2 if not why not?

question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel?

CP

That would be hot.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 2:03:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

you consider yourself the property of your Master. Now Master wanting to show off his control of his sub/slave wants to share you with his friends while he iattends as a safeguard.

Question 1 Would you agree?

Probably would. It's something I'm rather open to but it does depend a bit on the person in question. It would be a new thing that was not agreed on when I became hisso, as LA pointed out, there would have to be some discussion about it. If I thought they were high risk for STI or might turn into a stalker or want sexual favors every time they saw me, Valyraen and I would need to discuss it very seriously and I would need to know that he had seriously considered my concerns.

I'd also want to talk about why he wanted to show off his control - there several motivations I can think of and not all are good. Some would speak of a problem in the relationship.

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question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel?

That's not something I can answer without things being more specific. If we talked it over, looked at it from all angles, we moved at a pace I was comfortable with and it was a person I was comfortable with, I imagine I'd be happy - I pleased my owner and got laid in the process. If he forced me into the situation too quickly and with a situation I'm not comfortable with (ie. he calls me on his way home from work to announce that he's bringing a co-worker home and he expects me to fulfill their every fantasy)... well... we'd have problems and I would feel very betrayed.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 2:12:44 PM

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As LA said, this should have been discussed and agreed upon from the outset, and for us it was, long before I offered him my complete submission, and before He took me as His slave and most cherished possession. He told me He would not allow any other male to touch me ever, and I breathed a sigh of relief that this is not and would not be a possibility.

Now, we also discussed if His friends were female, and i would absolutely do whatever He wanted, regardless of how i felt at the time. Without hesitation or doubt, I would do my very best to make him proud of me!

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 2:15:08 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

this will be an adjunct to my prior Characteristics of being "Property"

there were many interesting posts that shared real content aside from the jocular one liners that always show up.
I expect only those that "feel it" will contribute to this thread; but now that being said consider this!

you consider yourself the property of your Master. Now Master wanting to show off his control of his sub/slave wants to share you with his friends while he iattends as a safeguard.

Question 1 Would you agree?

Question 2 if not why not?

question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel?

CP

Question 1: Yes. We have actually done something similar, without the BDSM aspect. He would love to see me, and I would agree if I was attracted to the man, and My Lord was there for protection. It was initially my reason for signing up here, though that purpose has fallen by the wayside.

Question 3: I think I'd love it, as long as My Lord was there. I have actively persued the possibilities of brining in a third, male or female. I wouldn't do it without his protection, though, since he knows my limits, and they may not.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 2:21:19 PM

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Question 1 Would you agree? Yes...but it wouldn't be what I wanted.

question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel? Like a piece of meat....Like I didn't mean that much to him or he wouldn't want to give me away in such an intimate way. Him being there would not change anything to me.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 2:23:24 PM

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Been there and done that many times.

Not a limit of mine so it is my Master’s choice.

Actual experience of the events range from great to awful from exciting to incredibly boring.

The mental aspects of receiving the order and afterwards are very powerful. It probably is the most powerful use of power over me that I have experienced and since power is my fetish once I know my Master got something or enjoyed the situation it pretty much destroys me in an very delicious way well after the event took place.

It is for me a classic dread/how can he do this to me to I hope he does this again to me every single time that I have been involved in a situation like you described. It is intense objectification with a dash of humiliation and degradation. Yummy for me but not for most.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 2:25:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

this will be an adjunct to my prior Characteristics of being "Property"

there were many interesting posts that shared real content aside from the jocular one liners that always show up.
I expect only those that "feel it" will contribute to this thread; but now that being said consider this!

you consider yourself the property of your Master. Now Master wanting to show off his control of his sub/slave wants to share you with his friends while he iattends as a safeguard.

Question 1 Would you agree?

Yes i would agree. It was made clear that this was a possibility before i accepted His collar. i trusted Him enought to do so in a mannor that would not put me in any undue risk. and He has since never betrayed my trust in Him

Question 2 if not why not?

Obviously this does not apply

question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel?

Usually it has been for oral and my feelings have varied from it being an erotic sensation to being boring to sometimes being embarassing or humiliating. It depends on the man, the circumstances and whom else might also be there. Of course too His reasons have also varied from His enjoyment, to wanting to impress a friend, to wanting to humiliate.

CP

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 2:37:58 PM

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i would agree because my Master owns me. i would agree because it would make him smile, and that is extremly important to me. i would agree because i am powerless, in my own mind, to tell him no. As to how it would make me feel, i know i would feel proud to have served him.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 3:09:30 PM

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This question is kind of useless where my relationship was concerned.

He would NEVER have lowered himself to ASKING my permission; or to ASKING how I felt about it.

He just would have done it and to hell with how I felt about it.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 3:19:06 PM

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Hi IrishMist, for my Master I know He would never view Him wanting to know how I feel about something as "lowering Himself" He wants to know how I feel, and what I think on a variety of subjects.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 3:25:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: breatheasone

Hi IrishMist, for my Master I know He would never view Him wanting to know how I feel about something as "lowering Himself" He wants to know how I feel, and what I think on a variety of subjects.

That's all good and fine; I was not insinuating that every man would see it in the same way.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 3:28:41 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

this will be an adjunct to my prior Characteristics of being "Property"

there were many interesting posts that shared real content aside from the jocular one liners that always show up.
I expect only those that "feel it" will contribute to this thread; but now that being said consider this!

you consider yourself the property of your Master. Now Master wanting to show off his control of his sub/slave wants to share you with his friends while he attends as a safeguard.

Question 1 Would you agree?

Question 2 if not why not?

question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel?

CP

My reply is based upon the fact that I knew this could/would happen prior to entering the relationship and thus, I agreed that this possibility will happen at some point.

Question 1) I would agree on the principle that I this situation would/could happen and I would feel a sense of satisfaction that he felt a sense of pride in me enough to warrant sharing me with his friends.

Question 3) Having this happen to me, I felt a mixture of excitement and turmoil. Turmoil mainly because it was entirely his decision one who he shared me with and I had no say in the matter. That was a tough lesson to learn knowing that I was unable to choose who I wanted to play with. We had different tastes and mine had no significance anymore.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 3:32:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

this will be an adjunct to my prior Characteristics of being "Property"

there were many interesting posts that shared real content aside from the jocular one liners that always show up.
I expect only those that "feel it" will contribute to this thread; but now that being said consider this!

you consider yourself the property of your Master. Now Master wanting to show off his control of his sub/slave wants to share you with his friends while he iattends as a safeguard.

Question 1 Would you agree?

Question 2 if not why not?

question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel?

CP

Excellent questions.
So in answer:
Question 1 Would you agree?
Yes i am his property and yes i agree to be shared. I cannot speak for Him but i feel like i agree to it for many reasons. Mainly because He is proud of me. Also because i have exchange value. I can be loaned whilst another is lent to Him and thus it gves im pleasure.

Three it gives me pleasure for which i am grateful. I work hard to be hospitable, to make arrangements and organise scenes for my Master. I believe it is my duty to do so.

Also it enables me to express my switch (dominant side) with women. I am also allowed pets for myself.

Question 2 if not why not?
I do not consent on equakl terms. If i am loaned whilst a 'no-limits' slave is exchaged for me, i do not consnet to having no limits with another. I do not consent to being another's slave, only their sub if it is a man i am shared with. Usually, but this is not fixed, i agree to be dominant with a woman i am asked to share with. I am allowed to express my own limits whilst with others as i am only no-limits with my Master. This we have arrived at because He has an insrtinct for what my limits are.

question 3 regardless of if you did or not, how would you feel?
I feel a mixture of emotions, deep involvement and also detachment, almost simaltaeneously. I am used to feeling ambivalent about most things most of the time as i am a Gemini and also a twin. i believe multiples feel ambivalence about eing alone or with others.

I always feel elated before a scene of being shared: part of me wants to avoid, part of me is afraid as every scene is unpredictable no matter what arrangements are made beforehand. We never share in public, or clubs so sharing is always 'privateratti' and therefore personally very intense.
There is a transition time which pases very quickly from the formal to the protocol to the intimate and back out into protocol and then formalities.

I feel respected most when i am in the lowiest position as slave.
I feel contented and quietened and left with a heightened awareness for many days after any bdsm/glbt combination share.
And most of all it strengthens and creates and consolidates my bond with my Master.

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RE: Property = sharing?? - 2/20/2008 3:49:57 PM

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i would, i trust his choices.

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