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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/21/2008 4:43:35 PM   
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As much as I am a nihilist at heart, the strong pragmaticist in me beleives in the "common sense".


I too believe in common sense MadRabbit... the reality is (sadly) that not everyone has common sense.

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/21/2008 4:51:03 PM   
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Which is where nihilism leads, because if the world is devoid of all meaning and nothing is ever certain and we can never really know anything, then nihilism must be uncertain and we can't ever really know if everything is devoid of meaning.


Hmmmmmmmmmm.  Ya know. Sometimes people don't always say things, or share things, that they "know" because if they did, someone might kill them.  Or lock them up.  But that doesn't make what they know is any less valid.  It just makes it unsharable at this point in time.  And the masses, secure in their box, with their views of nihilism, have been contained a little bit longer.  Right where the "hopeless" need to stay for the purpose of other powerful forces.  But, we are getting waaaaaaaaay to deep now.
So, Mad, I will leave you to hopping along on your bunny trail.  And respect your opinion just for the simple fact that it is yours.  And, that's what makes you , you.  A great philosophical conversationalist.  Without a doubt.  *blowskiss*

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/21/2008 4:56:07 PM   
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As much as I am a nihilist at heart, the strong pragmaticist in me beleives in the "common sense".


I too believe in common sense MadRabbit... the reality is (sadly) that not everyone has common sense.

girly


And yet, we sometimes experience inexplicable moments in life that rend the fabric of our reality-changing it forever after.

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/21/2008 4:57:23 PM   
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These existential "what if's" are have what led us to the "truth" that the world is round.


As far as I know, that truth was based on observation (Why do we see the top of the sail of the ship first, and not the whole ship, if the Earth is flat?).  That's not the same as beginning with a "what if".

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That man "CAN" travel to the moon.  AND, that we can blow up the freakin world in one fatal swoop.  That we can clone ourselves.  That we can have medical breakthroughs and cure diseases.  Even cancer!!  Who would have thunk it back in the 1600's or even sooner?


Copernicus died in the 1500s, but there were writings pointing toward heliocentric theory well before that.  There is nothing you mentioned that came to be by any method other than observation of what is.

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/21/2008 4:58:23 PM   
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Which is where nihilism leads, because if the world is devoid of all meaning and nothing is ever certain and we can never really know anything, then nihilism must be uncertain and we can't ever really know if everything is devoid of meaning.


Hmmmmmmmmmm.  Ya know. Sometimes people don't always say things, or share things, that they "know" because if they did, someone might kill them.  Or lock them up.  But that doesn't make what they know any less valid.  It just makes it unsharable at this point in time.  And the masses, secure in their box, with their views of nihilism, have beem contained a little bit longer.  Right where the "hopeless" need to stay for the purpose of other powerful forces.  But, we are getting waaaaaaaaay to deep now.
So, Mad, I will leave you to hopping along on your bunny trail.  And respect your opinion just for the simple fact that it is yours.  And, that's what makes you , you.  A great philosophical conversationalist.  Without a doubt.  *blowskiss*



Hey, don't get me wrong. I am not selling the idea that it's okay for preachers to keep shoveling horseshit because it's better than the alternative. I don't even want to fall close to being on that side of the argument.

Just saying beleive it because it's plausible, not because it's possible.

Thanks for the discourse. I'm glad I didn't change your opinion

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/21/2008 5:04:34 PM   
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As much as I am a nihilist at heart, the strong pragmaticist in me beleives in the "common sense".


I too believe in common sense MadRabbit... the reality is (sadly) that not everyone has common sense.

girly


And yet, we sometimes experience inexplicable moments in life that rend the fabric of our reality-changing it forever after.


The old knowledge is still what allows us to beleive the paradigm shift to be true and incorporate it into the mass of common knowledge that we call "common sense"..

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/21/2008 5:08:56 PM   
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Thanks for the discourse. I'm glad I didn't change your opinion


Likewise.  I enjoy the discourse as well!!  And, you can't change my opinion.  Cause if I told you everything I knew, they'd have to kill us both..or lock us up.  And, hell, they're ready to do that to me even WITHOUT all the other factors..LOL.
So my urges to point minds in certain places, is squelched.
I hope you understand.  And, if not.  You will one day soon.
See you on the next thread!!!  LOL *blowkiss*


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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/21/2008 5:16:41 PM   
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Thanks for the discourse. I'm glad I didn't change your opinion


Likewise.  I enjoy the discourse as well!!  And, you can't change my opinion.  Cause if I told you everything I knew, they'd have to kill us both..or lock us up.  And, hell, they're ready to do that to me even WITHOUT all the other factors..LOL.
So my urges to point minds in certain places, is squelched.
I hope you understand.  And, if not.  You will one day soon.
See you on the next thread!!!  LOL *blowkiss*



Oh, I understand there is things I don't know. That understanding just won't be compelling me to learn about moons of green cheese from JoeBigBalls69 on the Internet.

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/21/2008 5:17:15 PM   
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u0T8YtIat7o


Hey Leatherist, you know what is the most ironic about that clip?  It's the following line that the Jimmy Hendrix impersonator says right before he sings (or gets hysterically funny, take your pick)  which is,

"I'm gonna play one song for you before I get back into my box."
*grin*
However, being the sadist I am...this one is even funnier!!!  ROFL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wfGD5FgtNtY&feature=related



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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/21/2008 5:34:05 PM   
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moons of green cheese from JoeBigBalls69 on the Internet.


Well, that's one thing we have in common then!!!  However, if Joe's balls are THAT big....and his "moon" is relative of green cheese, I just might have to make something entertaining out of that somewhere. *chuckle*


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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/21/2008 6:29:06 PM   
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u0T8YtIat7o


Hey Leatherist, you know what is the most ironic about that clip?  It's the following line that the Jimmy Hendrix impersonator says right before he sings (or gets hysterically funny, take your pick)  which is,

"I'm gonna play one song for you before I get back into my box."
*grin*
However, being the sadist I am...this one is even funnier!!!  ROFL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wfGD5FgtNtY&feature=related




Uh huh. But it's even funnier with a sub in a straight jacket, diapers and a full bladder.

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/22/2008 3:24:50 PM   
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I think you give people alot more credit then they are due, but I'm thinking of people as a whole, not just this cross section and I know of plenty who are still praying for me to find my way back to the "One True Church".  The reason why I left was the inability for people to see that anything other then the culturally indoctrinated paradigm was also perfectly acceptable.

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/22/2008 7:33:26 PM   
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Just because we recognize what reality IS doesn't necessarily mean we're closed off to what it COULD be

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/22/2008 7:34:46 PM   
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I don't believe anybody can see something from another's viewpoint. And I think it very arrogant when people claim to have this magical ability to read minds. I can be openminded enough to hear another's view, to read about it, and to think it over in relation to my viewpoint.

But what it comes down to is the fact that my pov is informed by my past, my experiences, my emotions. Of course I'm egocentric and nothing wrong with that. If I tried to live someone else's life I'd do a piss poor job of it because I'm not them, I'm me. And the only things that will make me happy are those things that fit with my history, my background, my value system etc.

Nothing wrong in being egocentric. What's wrong is not recognizing that everyone else is, and that they have the same right and responsibility to make choices designed to make them happy also.

Amen to this!  I loved this post, DesFIP.  It really sums it up for me.  Thanks..............luci

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/22/2008 8:48:02 PM   
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I loved your post very interesting and very thought provoking and has spawned a couple of questions of  my own if you don't mind taking a moment to answer them from your perspective.

1.  In your post you stated there is an objective reality that is or is not. There is an impression from my education that sometimes subjective reality overwhelms objective reality. There is evidence in history of this sort of mass delusions taking place in societies, where what is plausible is more determined by what the aggragate whole believes rather then a sound logical and well reasoned position. Do we accept this limitation of plausibility in acceptance in order not to be dismissed entirely?

2. I also get an impression in my education while science is progressing nicely, a lot of discoveries are either made by accidents or by inspired persistance. In inspired persistance people have a vision of what they want to do and are presented with obstacles that make the project implauisble and keep working at the problem till they figure out a means of making it a reality by approaching the problem from an angle no one ever thought of. Should we discount everything that is implausible and not take the time to explore even remote possibilities?

3. Objective reality is defined by our knowledge and what is plausible is also limited by our knowledge and that often has us discount ideas. A good example is the naturalist idea the earth was very very old (billions of years). This was discounted very early by Lord Kelvin because he calculated the mass of the sun and did computation of every material that burned and the evidence indicated that the sun could only burn for around 6,000 years. So how do we factor out what we do not know to prevent us from recognizing the plausible from the implausible?

I guess I am looking for how you seperate between gullibility from open mindness especially when the opportunity for the pursuit of happiness (or at least lust) hangs in the balance?

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/22/2008 8:55:06 PM   
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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/22/2008 10:09:16 PM   
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1.  In your post you stated there is an objective reality that is or is not. There is an impression from my education that sometimes subjective reality overwhelms objective reality. There is evidence in history of this sort of mass delusions taking place in societies, where what is plausible is more determined by what the aggragate whole believes rather then a sound logical and well reasoned position. Do we accept this limitation of plausibility in acceptance in order not to be dismissed entirely?


People choosing to ignore facts and logic doesn't make the objective reality any less objective. The laws of mathematic, science, and eptimology don't change just because people choose to ignore them. 2+2=4 even if people want to say it equals 5. This is why we call these subjective realities "delusions" and "fantasies" (or in many cases "religion").

If I cut my arm, I will still bleed to death even if I am not aware or do not recognize the cut.

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2. I also get an impression in my education while science is progressing nicely, a lot of discoveries are either made by accidents or by inspired persistance. In inspired persistance people have a vision of what they want to do and are presented with obstacles that make the project implauisble and keep working at the problem till they figure out a means of making it a reality by approaching the problem from an angle no one ever thought of. Should we discount everything that is implausible and not take the time to explore even remote possibilities?


I am not in anyway whatsoever trying to set the standard for what is plausible and not plausible. That has to be determined by the individual. If you find what I am writing to be wholly unbelievable, then please, beleive it to be wholly unbelievable. If the knowledge you have acquired leads you to conclude that the possibility of growing wings out of your back to fly is impausible, then by all means, dismiss that remote possibility and don't buy Magic Wing Lotion for a website on the Internet.

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3. Objective reality is defined by our knowledge and what is plausible is also limited by our knowledge and that often has us discount ideas. A good example is the naturalist idea the earth was very very old (billions of years). This was discounted very early by Lord Kelvin because he calculated the mass of the sun and did computation of every material that burned and the evidence indicated that the sun could only burn for around 6,000 years. So how do we factor out what we do not know to prevent us from recognizing the plausible from the implausible?


I would chalk that up as simply the limitation of human perspective. Thats the thing about ignorance. You can't factor in what you do not know. It's kind of like people who go on a rant, berating young people for their age and telling them how they will understand when they are older.

Well...that might very well be true. What does that do for me now? How do I drastically change my opinions when I don't have this experience that will bring on this new understanding?

Personally, I would rather be wrong, because I did my own thinking based off what I knew as opposed to being wrong because everyone did my thinking for me or I beleived someone who I really thought to be unbeleivable.

How other people want to risk error is up to them.

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I guess I am looking for how you seperate between gullibility from open mindness especially when the opportunity for the pursuit of happiness (or at least lust) hangs in the balance?


To me, gullible is beleiving an idea just because it's possible. Openmindness is thinking an idea through and concluding for yourself thats its plausible or not plausible.

How everyone else wants to differentiate between the two is up to them.

People do far fetched things that are completely crazy to me and risking heavy stakes in the process all in pursuit of their own summum bonum. I don't get it. I don't understand it. I think it's stupid and will certainly express those viewpoints at the appropriate time. In some cases, I won't condone it.

However, I will be happy if they at least thought for themselves and came to their own decision, regardless of how much head-banging-against-a-wall I do in an attempt to understand how in the hell they got from X to Z.



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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/22/2008 10:56:21 PM   
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Leatherist,

I have a joke line I love, "nobody is better at modesty than I am".  That is how some of us see posts like this.  You ask "why do so many of you stay inside boxes" unlike you yourself. 

How exactly do you know your box is bigger than LA's?

Since by your own admission you can't grasp LA's reality, nor mine, you can't see how we see things.  Just as some people can "name a tune" in just a couple of notes (and I couldn't do it till you handed me the album) some of  us have done enough of this stuff that we can "name that tune" in a sentence or two. 

I can, with pretty unfailing accuracy, spin out the whole relationship structure, the problems they will face, and what will break them up, and the drama that will ensue from rather small tidbits.  Does that make my box small or large?

I don't think telling someone that gravity pulls down, the sun rises in the east, and that the moon will wane in 30 days makes my box small, others think that reinventing the wheel, either the round one or the square one is more open, personally I don't.

Considering what all LA has done relationship wise, how out of the box her relationships are, I don't think her's is the windmill you want to tilt against.

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/22/2008 11:24:40 PM   
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I've done poly and D/s relationships as well. And one poly thing that had four of us, not just the standard three.

But you didn't know that, did you? 

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RE: Self projection, stepping outside of the box. - 2/23/2008 6:33:27 AM   
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You missed the point.  Announcing from your box that you can tell how big other's boxes are is silly if you predicate it on your thesis.

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