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RE: What makes you who You are? - 2/28/2008 12:27:08 PM

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its in the genes. Faerytattoodgirl.

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RE: What makes you who You are? - 2/28/2008 12:37:08 PM

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My past made me who I am

Essentially true for me with a few additions.

My past experiences shaped me to be the person I am.
Just as important, my perception of each of those experiences shaped me to be the person I am.
My heritage shaped me to be the person I am.
A few specific individuals notably shaped me to be the person I am.
Genetics played a role, so far as it affected how I perceive the world around me (i.e., excellent hearing, lousy vision, etc.).

All these things influenced who I have become. But there is one last thing that played perhaps a bigger role than anything in who I have become.

Who I chose to be.

This says what I was going to say, only better. (except I have excellent vision too!

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RE: What makes you who You are? - 2/28/2008 12:37:26 PM

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Froyd would have a field day with me lol, i grew up with my grandmother and then moved in with my mum on my grandmas side, our extended family is really close and it is 90% women, who up untill i was about 17 were the people who the ones that kept me in line, i turned out as a Dom now people could say that is the reason why im a dom in some kind of way to it is because i need to exert my controll over a woman and all kinds of crap but the truth is I don't really know the real reason i am the way i am. I could come up with lots of things but i think the most importent thing is not why you are the way you are but about enjoying who you are for who you are.

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RE: What makes you who You are? - 2/28/2008 1:15:30 PM

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The answer is as simple and complex as life.

Nature-an inborn need to survive no matter what was thrown at me. A indomitable will and a highly adaptive body. I bend but do not break.

Nurture- a birth mother who neglected me nearly to death. A foster father who molested me. Adoptive parents who divorced and shuffled me between two levels of hell. A mother who as a child social worker knew every possible way to emotionally batter a child and to whip without leaving a mark. A English Professor for a Father who was a sadistic pedophile, who branded me when I was 12 to mark me as his. Neither of whom would accept anything less than a A and honors from me going through school.

Nature- multiple hospitalizations for bronchitis, pneumonia and tonsillitis that gave me respite from the torment growing up, but left me with difficulty regarding attachments and abandonment.

Nurture- A court system that placed me in a boarding school when I kept running away and kept refusing to believe my parents would harm me. The abortion of my fathers child at 14. My escape finally at 16. An era of free love and hippies, drugs and freedom. Widowed. married, divorced..two beautiful children, a third still born.

Life- wonderful beautiful life, that I have experienced in all it's wonders and tragedies and do not give up so easily.

Master- who makes me feel that I am finally..safe at home

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edited for spelling and I am sure I still missed something

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RE: What makes you who You are? - 2/28/2008 1:44:24 PM

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The choices that were made for me before I was old enough to be responsible for my own choices. Then the choices that I've made that I was responsible for. I'm sure my childhood, teenage years, young adult life, past, family, friends, lovers, etc have all played a part in who I am today. But it all boils down to me and the choices I've made for myself that make me who I am. Who I am is me.

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RE: What makes you who You are? - 3/4/2008 7:03:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

chloe knows, lana knows, clarks parents know, his best friend pete knows...and in fact was the first one....lex luthor knows but he's too dumb to see it....

girl, give Lex a little time to figure it out becuase he's so fucking HOT!!

edited to add: yes i know this is an old thread, i'm in one of those moods, maybe i'll just answer old threads for a day or two. ~~walks off whistling~~

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