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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 6:39:54 PM

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Usually because you ladies dare to dicuss things that the guys are too chicknshit to bring up-for fear of chasing off the subs.

It's gotta be nice to have that freedom through a homefield adantage.

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 6:59:56 PM

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How do you people find the time????

I almost never stray out of Ask a Mistress because I cannot keep up with the number of posts here and they relate to my lifestyle.

How would I also find time to go read Ask A Master?

Much less then conclude the boys need enlightening by someone who is not a Master and will appreciate my penis-less words of wisdom (LOL!!!)

Masters coming here to answer questions addressed to Mistresses make me laugh most of the time. Some seem oblivious to their own inflated self-importance....and thats really funny

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 7:03:44 PM

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I'm still working on what stuff would scare the subs. After all, the nut-slicing thread was on the Master forum!

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 7:07:30 PM

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After all, the nut-slicing thread was on the Master forum!

*blinks*

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 7:10:18 PM

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Rudeness, high handed behavior, and name calling are not. Simple.

I actually stay away from Ask A Mistress because I see a lot of this here, Lady Hibiscus. Sorry. In fact, there was a thread about a month ago where a Domme and a Gorean got into it heavy. I made a one-sentence post about it. Both then emailed me, saying they would stop. Both continued, contrary to what they told me on the other side.

That's the worst example I am personally familiar with. But it seems that every time I come over, there's a snarkfest here.

That said, I really enjoy your posts, Lady H, and Lady Pact's as well. So I hope you keep "wandering around."

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 7:10:50 PM

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I used not to post in the Ask a mistress forum as I did not see that as my turf. When I said that some of you dommes got indignant that I would not post here and that changed my mind. So now infrequently I do post in your part of the forum.

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 7:26:12 PM

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Much less then conclude the boys need enlightening by someone who is not a Master and will appreciate my penis-less words of wisdom (LOL!!!)

I go where I want. I sometimes even offer a serious post. Being penis-less does not by definition negate any opinion you might offer in the Masters forum.
How many here have been angered by the statement " Women can't REALLY be dominant"
Your thoughts may have value anywhere.

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 7:41:11 PM

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Because not all topics have a response that is deemed worthy solely based upon what is twix your legs. See? Aren't you glad I chimed in to help you silly lil' girls sort this problem out.

On your knees.

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 7:42:56 PM

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I really wish you'd use the FR thing

Jeff

ANd btw..LaT?...will be mine!

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 7:43:55 PM

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Are You so certain it was not directed at You Jeffff? Now on Your knees

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 7:50:06 PM

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God Dammit!!!! Will someone just get on their fucking knees?....Oh for Gods sake, Jeff, get the fuck up...you are a fucking embarassment....It's going to be hard for you to acquire LaT groveling down there....You sicken us both.

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 8:01:57 PM

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I made a one-sentence post about it. Both then emailed me, saying they would stop. Both continued, contrary to what they told me on the other side.

Um...excuse me.

What actually happened was that you made a one-sentence post about it in public.

Then you emailed ME and literally begged me (and by this I mean repeated use of the word "please") to stop responding to Mr. Gor-face and to "let him win" because it would "prove I was the bigger person".

You may have sent him the same email--I have no idea. But I quite assure you, I did not intiate contact with you and I never agreed to obey your command/suggestion. Both would be entirely out of character, because I have never initiated email contact with a male dominant on this website, ever. For any reason. And because I do not promise to do things which are completely contrary to my character, to appease you or anyone else.

Repeat of facts: I made zero promises, ever, about eating shit sandwiches served by Mr. Gor-face. Or his six-foot boyfriend.

So please. I do not mind being called out about being argumentative when boy-doms get uppity with me--I truly loathe male dominance being imposed on me even in conversation--but kindly do not tell blatant lies. That is not necessary. I cop to my own bitchitude quite happily; there is no need to make things up.

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 8:38:06 PM

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Okay, DG, here I am on my knees. Hopefully you have read my previous posts concerning TEETH.

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 8:53:16 PM

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Okay, DG, here I am on my knees. Hopefully you have read my previous posts concerning TEETH.

I don't recall any posts about teeth....Unless your post was found in.."When is one too old for consideration?" thread...Then I would simply think that you might be referencing your dentures?

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 8:54:44 PM

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Well then aren't YOU in for a special surprise!

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 9:11:15 PM

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For me, it is fine for any orientation or any role to participate in this forum.

The observation I have to report by looking at the names reading the forums is that every so often I will come across a delicious name and will click on it to find there is no additional information. I have come this -> <- close to starting threads saying hey so and so, please introduce yourself ;-)

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 10:47:37 PM

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I just want to know why is it so many male subs and why do they still hit u even when your a lesban?

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 10:53:47 PM

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I just want to know why is it so many male subs and why do they still hit u even when your a lesban?

i'm having a thought here, perhaps they don't understand what you're writing.

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/3/2008 10:55:04 PM

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I made a one-sentence post about it. Both then emailed me, saying they would stop. Both continued, contrary to what they told me on the other side.

Um...excuse me.

What actually happened was that you made a one-sentence post about it in public.

Then you emailed ME and literally begged me (and by this I mean repeated use of the word "please") to stop responding to Mr. Gor-face and to "let him win" because it would "prove I was the bigger person".

You may have sent him the same email--I have no idea. But I quite assure you, I did not intiate contact with you and I never agreed to obey your command/suggestion. Both would be entirely out of character, because I have never initiated email contact with a male dominant on this website, ever. For any reason. And because I do not promise to do things which are completely contrary to my character, to appease you or anyone else.

Repeat of facts: I made zero promises, ever, about eating shit sandwiches served by Mr. Gor-face. Or his six-foot boyfriend.

So please. I do not mind being called out about being argumentative when boy-doms get uppity with me--I truly loathe male dominance being imposed on me even in conversation--but kindly do not tell blatant lies. That is not necessary. I cop to my own bitchitude quite happily; there is no need to make things up.

I have no idea who you are talking about, but it sounds fascinating.

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RE: Curious: why so many male doms - 3/4/2008 2:21:15 AM

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MsC, finding the time isn't that difficult. As I mentioned before, there aren't quite as many topics of interest when comparing the two boards. Some subjects on D/s are less gender specific than some would think. It's simple a matter or rearranging the pronouns.

Red, I appreciate the compliment.

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