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Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:25:17 PM

daddyncherry

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This topic may have been done before but i wanted to attempt to start anew thread in hopes of new responses from the posters i am used toreading.

Soooo...

How many of you Dominants/Ms like to share your s types with others?
Do you like to share them sexually?
Or for Sm play only?
What do you get out of it on a relationship level when you share them?
On a sexual level?
Do you like to share with alot of people or only a very select few?
How does it impact your relationship positively/negatively?
Do you like to do it in a swinging context or only with other BDSM minded people?

s types? Same questions only from your point of view.

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:27:10 PM

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I don't share

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:27:36 PM

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i should hope and pray its not sexually..you have no idea how many std's the person you plan to share her with has.

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:29:03 PM

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what if they come to the party with a bloody sample and test results? eh eh?

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:29:07 PM

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I love the idea of being shared or gifted out, esp. for like a birthday or other special occassion ... But the unfortunate reality of STDs and such makes it not as hot ...

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:31:30 PM

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I'll just assume you're going to be safe... as in using protection.. and that means gloves as well as condoms...

I 'share' my boi in a sense, but I don't farm her out, or lend her.. or give her to anyone.. if she wants to do something with someone, she can.. according to the rules we have between us...

have we done stuff with others.. yes, we have shared others... but I don't 'lend' her out or anything similar...

all this talk of STDs is amazing.. has anyone ever used protection? uhmmm... hello.. its called condoms.. and gloves.. not to mention dental dams...

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:32:56 PM

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my Daddy likes to share to an extent, what extent that will go to only time with tell.

So far he has shared me both sexually (with a couple of women, a man and a Master digitally/manually) and in Sm play with 3 people.

What we actually get out of it and what i hope to get out of it in the furtue are different....So far i look at the experiences as being stepping stones to the real deal stuff....so from those have been gained some experience, insight, knowledge of likes and dislikes

What i hope to get out of it in the future would be a closer bond, a deeper submission and feeling of being owned by him, knowing that i am pleasing others to make him happy. Also, it will be helping to open me up more sexually.

So far he hasn't shared me with alot of people at once, though that is a hope and something that was attempted (failed thanks to scared,whipped vanilla swinger type men ICK!)

So far it hasn't seem to impact us all that much, i feel great after for a few days but because the experiences have been a bit on the milder side they don't have the impact that they may otherwise have.

i can say from my pov that i MUCH prefer it to be in a BDSM context, vanilla swinger guys are soooo not my thing make me wanna hurl (LOL nice visual huh?)...Swingers who are vanilla just don't know how to take a woman in the same way (IMO).

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:33:20 PM

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condoms are not affective for all STD's, nasty ones like warts etc can be around the penis and vagina and warts are uncurable, they come back time and time again. So condoms isnt the only issue. my two cents

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:35:12 PM

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I am a selfish sort.

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:36:51 PM

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Wow that was fast responding lol....

and YES safer sex practices are used and from my experiences in life i am really not so worried as long as condoms etc. are in place....i'm not going to do a body condom though just to go out and have fun and the majority of STDs aren't a big deal (aside from HIV, herpes, hepatits)....as long as you use your brain as well as your genitals you should be able to have fun.

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:36:53 PM

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they're still a start... with anyone, whether you share or not

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:38:06 PM

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yes they are, but you were rolling eyes at everyone panicing about STD's.

Personally I like to be tested before I start an intimate relationship and ask for the same, but then im ultra safe

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:38:42 PM

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Why share a great toy. Go find your own.

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:39:26 PM

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I have shared my pet for play scenes and there are always restrictions with sex. Most often this sharing of my pet is done in more of a community service type of way. Someone needs a demo boy, a strong back for moving or the latest..two lifestyle friends of mine are putting their house on the market and needed someone to paint.

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:42:26 PM

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speaking from and for both povs - no we don't share each other with others. i'm the selfish type and wouldn't like having to share Daddy with others. same goes for Daddy.

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:43:09 PM

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I'm safe too.. and please don't characterize my words.. I wasn't rolling my eyes, I would have said if I was...

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:44:39 PM

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Sorry you are right, that did come off as rude which is out of order. Sorry again.

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:46:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: bleusparkles

I love the idea of being shared or gifted out, esp. for like a birthday or other special occassion ... But the unfortunate reality of STDs and such makes it not as hot ...

i understand that STD's can put a damper on it, but i also agree with you the idea of being gifted, loaned, chared or whatever is very very hot and with precautions i think could be a wonderful and amazing thing.

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:46:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: colouredin

yes they are, but you were rolling eyes at everyone panicing about STD's.

Personally I like to be tested before I start an intimate relationship and ask for the same, but then im ultra safe

FYI HIV can take years to show up on a blood test further more there is NOT a blood test for warts. The easy to cure STD's there is a bloodtest for.

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RE: Sharing - 3/3/2008 3:47:44 PM

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HIV takes 6 weeks after infection to show up, and no warts can only be tested for once they are showing.

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