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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/4/2008 9:24:42 PM

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LOL nice...

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/4/2008 9:36:13 PM

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My take on that is that most of them don't have real time experience and thus don't know how to treat actual subs and slaves.

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/4/2008 9:46:29 PM

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They don't THINK you should obey them. They merely HOPE that you WILL. And if you don't? ... Move on to the next one and try again.

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 10:11:05 AM

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try this one guys .... bored of getting one hundred gazillion (didn't keep and exact count but its roughly around that number) i came up with a solution

set up a camera ... get halfway through eating something particulary gross looking ... and take a picture of you kneeling with you mouth open displaying half chewed dinner ...

send them that back as a reply ... asking "Like this oh Lord Almighty Dominant One?"

since I took the picture last week ... hasn't had any kneel bitch cmails

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 10:11:55 AM

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ok, thats just twisted, softness! LOL

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 10:37:47 AM

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Oh my goodness this is so true when I frst started out I was talking to this so called switch who wanted to be a Dom to me. He told me I had to watch all his favorite black and white boring ass movies and write a three page essay on each and send it to him! At the time I was really ill, and the doctor wanted me strict bed rest for a week. he knew this, I was stupid and naive at the time that I did it. After the third essay I explained to him that I couldn't do it anymore because my doctor had me on strict bedrest.

He finally said ok whatever and Our relationship and his abuse when on for 6 months and stupid me I put up with it. Then the last straw came when he wanted another girl and me to submit to him and he knew that was a hard limit in the begining. He kept bugging and bugging me about it, I told him No and he still kept on. Finally he dumped me and good riddens because I have great Daddy who treats me well now. I remember the begining days of wanting to serve so bad that you have to be degraded to be owned.

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 10:41:49 AM

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When they are not even your Dom...I just told this Dom who pmed me that I was not interested and he said:

"You will obey bitch..this daddy needs his daily cum and you will help...understood"

nice, eh? I get this constantly by wanna-be Doms online...They just start talking to me and start ordering me around LOL wtf...I'm not just going to follow orders from someone I do not even know.

I get a lot of emails like that....the last one said "Give me your messenger id!"...to which i replyed "NO"....but some i have messed with....its like screwing with telemarketers....play with them for a little bit ...make them think their getting some were then laugh at them and block them....

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 10:45:46 AM

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bit disappointing that you ladies can't kneel and open your mouth. How can we expect more difficult things then :P

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 10:47:30 AM

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bit disappointing that you ladies can't kneel and open your mouth. How can we expect more difficult things then :P

We have to stop laughing, first

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 10:49:00 AM

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bit disappointing that you ladies can't kneel and open your mouth. How can we expect more difficult things then :P

We have to stop laughing, first

lolllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
(it is winter..and cold :( not my fault )

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 10:52:00 AM

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lolllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
(it is winter..and cold :( not my fault )

That's what they all say.

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 10:53:10 AM

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beat me to it, trapped..LOL

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 10:55:58 AM

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if they all say it..then it is not me or the cold *grin* yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 11:03:14 AM

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ok, thats just twisted, softness! LOL

dont pretend it hasn't made you hot as hell!

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 11:12:41 AM

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bit disappointing that you ladies can't kneel and open your mouth. How can we expect more difficult things then :P

I guess about as disappointing as a male who can not just kneel. God knows we don't expect a male to do anything more difficult as their brains are incapable of thinking with more than their cocks.

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 11:30:40 AM

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I remember the begining days of wanting to serve so bad that you have to be degraded to be owned.

And there are those twisted people out there who see "new to the cene" in a profile (even if you haven't said it in so many words) and prey on that kind of feeling.

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 11:38:15 AM

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I remember the beginning days of wanting to serve so bad that you have to be degraded to be owned.

i consider his actions towards you and your limits to be disrespect, not degradation. Degradation is HOT, actual disrespect is anything but (to me at any rate).

Not that this has anything to do with the actual topic at hand so i think i'll shut up now

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 11:41:21 AM

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Last one I received was from someone who started right off with a/s/l?

I responded - I'M YOUR MOTHER (name).

It worked.

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 12:57:56 PM

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bit disappointing that you ladies can't kneel and open your mouth. How can we expect more difficult things then :P

I guess about as disappointing as a male who can not just kneel. God knows we don't expect a male to do anything more difficult as their brains are incapable of thinking with more than their cocks.

you can't kneel..and don't know what fun is?
:( wil pass

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RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive ... - 3/5/2008 1:17:07 PM

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I am sorry, I am probably going to get flamed for this but I clarified my last post wrong. I meant utterly disrespected not degraded. Being humiliated is what I like and find extremely erotic, but I don't like the word degraded, the word makes me think of being less than human, that's just me and my opinion.

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