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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 9:23:59 AM   
need2bused6


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Status: offline 		The only way as a sub that I would get upset about my Dom masturbating is if he was doing it in front of me as punishment.  I would doubt the relationship if the Dom would not use me, unless asleep that is.  I have never heard of doing it in your sleep but if I woke up and saw my Dom doing it I would finish it for him.  I have noticed, in general, many Dom's worry way to much if their subs are sexually satisfied.  Really I serve for the Dom's pleasure which gives me mine.  I have never had a Dom not satisfy my needs.  I did have one who stopped sex and said "you win I can't keep up".  I didn't know it was a competition.  I respectfully tried to discuss this and he did not want to.  I never asked for anything sexually.  I think, looking back, he felt a sub should beg him to quit.  I thought it was up to him when he was done.  

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 11:18:56 AM   
ForcefuIHands


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Status: offline 		I hate to say this, basically again... but nothing sounds more conceited than when you girls act like you're artisans with a cock, or that's the only sort of attention a man should want ever. I'll defend the strokers out there, sometimes it has nothing to do with the person you're with, sometimes you just want to rub one out. Period.

Strutting around like a peacock only makes you look foolish. For example, I have never climaxed from a blowjob, ever. When I tell girls this, they are always, and I mean always, ready with the "Well, you've never had ME sucking you, so prepare for me to rock your world..." which is the cue for me to act like it's super hot and not exactly the same as every other bj. And then, so I don't hurt the girl's feelings, I have to act like I "just can't take it anymore" and move on to something tolerable.

Maybe this is a horrible analogy, but for the collectors out there, it's like when a girlfriend touches your Transformers. She's twisting the arms back, and bending it, and you know it's going to break. You've had the thing since you were a kid and played with it every day. You know exactly how it works, every subtle nuance to its design. You could work the thing blindfolded. But, she's your girlfriend, so you don't want to have to talk to her like an idiot and show her how to do it. She doesn't appreciate the value or your personal history, she just doesn't want to be outsmarted by a toy... Okay, that's actually a damn decent parallel.

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 11:20:09 AM   
AtlantisKing111


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she needs therapy, if she has that much insecurity.

just sayin'.


Amen to that.  I certainly would not place my member in bondage either.  Being bound is what happens to the sub, not the Dom.

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 11:21:30 AM   
kittinSol


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ORIGINAL: AtlantisKing111

I certainly would not place my member in bondage either. 



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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 11:23:17 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		tongue bondage perhaps.

what the fuck?
Ron


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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 11:29:59 AM   
OmegaG


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ORIGINAL: ForcefuIHands

I hate to say this, basically again... but nothing sounds more conceited than when you girls act like you're artisans with a cock, or that's the only sort of attention a man should want ever. I'll defend the strokers out there, sometimes it has nothing to do with the person you're with, sometimes you just want to rub one out. Period.

Strutting around like a peacock only makes you look foolish. For example, I have never climaxed from a blowjob, ever. When I tell girls this, they are always, and I mean always, ready with the "Well, you've never had ME sucking you, so prepare for me to rock your world..." which is the cue for me to act like it's super hot and not exactly the same as every other bj. And then, so I don't hurt the girl's feelings, I have to act like I "just can't take it anymore" and move on to something tolerable.

Maybe this is a horrible analogy, but for the collectors out there, it's like when a girlfriend touches your Transformers. She's twisting the arms back, and bending it, and you know it's going to break. You've had the thing since you were a kid and played with it every day. You know exactly how it works, every subtle nuance to its design. You could work the thing blindfolded. But, she's your girlfriend, so you don't want to have to talk to her like an idiot and show her how to do it. She doesn't appreciate the value or your personal history, she just doesn't want to be outsmarted by a toy... Okay, that's actually a damn decent parallel.


If you don't like the way your girl sucks your cock, teach her how you do like it.  A woman who truly enjoys sucking cock (as opposed to one that thinks she's the bee's knees of cock suckers) will appreciate learning how to do it just right for you.

And not all blow jobs have to end with a wad in ones mouth.  I know men who just like to be sucked, for hours.

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 11:32:03 AM   
DrkJourney


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Status: offline 		Are you guys Dom and sub or do you switch?   She sure seems to be calling the shots.  And the making fun of you, and "threatening" to record you?   I'm lost  on this one...I guess maybe I just don't understand how you have your relationship set up.

actually, if a slave/sub was going to take that attitude with me, I'd simply tell them I bet me wanking in my sleep won't bother you if I keep your ass caged or chained on the floor at night instead of  you having the privledge of this nice bed.


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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 11:39:50 AM   
mnottertail


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OmegaG

quote:

ORIGINAL: ForcefuIHands

I hate to say this, basically again... but nothing sounds more conceited than when you girls act like you're artisans with a cock, or that's the only sort of attention a man should want ever. I'll defend the strokers out there, sometimes it has nothing to do with the person you're with, sometimes you just want to rub one out. Period.

Strutting around like a peacock only makes you look foolish. For example, I have never climaxed from a blowjob, ever. When I tell girls this, they are always, and I mean always, ready with the "Well, you've never had ME sucking you, so prepare for me to rock your world..." which is the cue for me to act like it's super hot and not exactly the same as every other bj. And then, so I don't hurt the girl's feelings, I have to act like I "just can't take it anymore" and move on to something tolerable.

Maybe this is a horrible analogy, but for the collectors out there, it's like when a girlfriend touches your Transformers. She's twisting the arms back, and bending it, and you know it's going to break. You've had the thing since you were a kid and played with it every day. You know exactly how it works, every subtle nuance to its design. You could work the thing blindfolded. But, she's your girlfriend, so you don't want to have to talk to her like an idiot and show her how to do it. She doesn't appreciate the value or your personal history, she just doesn't want to be outsmarted by a toy... Okay, that's actually a damn decent parallel.


If you don't like the way your girl sucks your cock, teach her how you do like it.  A woman who truly enjoys sucking cock (as opposed to one that thinks she's the bee's knees of cock suckers) will appreciate learning how to do it just right for you.

And not all blow jobs have to end with a wad in ones mouth.  I know men who just like to be sucked, for hours.


you are so my kinda girl.

Ron

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 11:50:50 AM   
Bound2One


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ORIGINAL: OmegaG
If you don't like the way your girl sucks your cock, teach her how you do like it.  A woman who truly enjoys sucking cock (as opposed to one that thinks she's the bee's knees of cock suckers) will appreciate learning how to do it just right for you.

And not all blow jobs have to end with a wad in ones mouth.  I know men who just like to be sucked, for hours.


Amen! 

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 12:23:18 PM   
ownedgirlie


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ORIGINAL: Bound2One

quote:

ORIGINAL: OmegaG
If you don't like the way your girl sucks your cock, teach her how you do like it.  A woman who truly enjoys sucking cock (as opposed to one that thinks she's the bee's knees of cock suckers) will appreciate learning how to do it just right for you.

And not all blow jobs have to end with a wad in ones mouth.  I know men who just like to be sucked, for hours.


Amen! 


Double Amen!

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 3:02:02 PM   
SailingBum


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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bound2One

quote:

ORIGINAL: OmegaG
If you don't like the way your girl sucks your cock, teach her how you do like it.  A woman who truly enjoys sucking cock (as opposed to one that thinks she's the bee's knees of cock suckers) will appreciate learning how to do it just right for you.

And not all blow jobs have to end with a wad in ones mouth.  I know men who just like to be sucked, for hours.


Amen! 


Double Amen!


It's all about the  "money shot....

BadOne

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 3:16:10 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Yanno SB, your sense of humour is kinda starting to grow on me. 

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 3:32:13 PM   
SailingBum


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Yanno SB, your sense of humour is kinda starting to grow on me. 


It's not for everybody.

BadOne

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 3:33:22 PM   
LaTigresse


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 3:33:46 PM   
lronitulstahp


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Status: offline 		i have a former friend with benefits who said i do the same...he gave me a magazine article he read on "Sexsomnia", but perhaps because he was a guy, he actually found it "cute"...chicks are funny sometimes. Glad i don't have to fuck 'em....

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 3:37:16 PM   
ownedgirlie


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It's all about the  "money shot....

BadOne


LOL Silly.  It's all about what he says it's all about. 

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 3:38:38 PM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		It absolutely can be something the guy is unaware of, and not in control of.My ex husband used to force himself on me in the middle of the night, it was hard for me to wake up due to my sleeping pills. Eventually I would wake up and feel sick to my stomach when realising what was going on. He did not believe me until I was able to hit the cam button on the laptop kept on my nightstand. It happens. (I'm much happier now, sleeping with the dog and cat lol)

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 3:39:18 PM   
Jeffff


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ORIGINAL: OmegaG
And not all blow jobs have to end with a wad in ones mouth.  I know men who just like to be sucked, for hours.


It had DAMN well better end with a wad somewhere...:)

Jeff

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 3:47:15 PM   
SailingBum


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Status: offline 		I knew she was sleeping. I rolled onto her I assumed she'd wake up at some point <not tht it mattered> and actually thought she did.  the next morn...well you get the idea.

BadOne

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RE: Sensetive Subject - 3/6/2008 3:56:30 PM   
Jeffff


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Jeff

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