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RE: The Big O - 3/10/2008 2:16:01 PM   
CelticPrince


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I have to disagree on the OP assertion that there is less and less concern about the submissive’s sexual enjoyment. It has been my experience both in power exchange life and especially in vanilla land that men are increasingly obsessed with a woman having an orgasm. Often my experiences it was get her one so I can now enjoy myself which sucks on my end.


toservez

no need or basis to disagree, yours is a fine example of your personal needs/desires that are naturally met. the thought behind the thread refers to the whole of the path walkers.

CP

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RE: The Big O - 3/10/2008 2:17:49 PM   
CelticPrince


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I don't like Overstock that much. I prefer Amazon.


Huh?

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RE: The Big O - 3/10/2008 2:21:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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I don't like Overstock that much. I prefer Amazon.


Huh?

CP


(Overstock.com, as well as Oprah, are considered "O").

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RE: The Big O - 3/10/2008 2:25:19 PM   
CelticPrince


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Ever hear of the Sybian? That thing will send a woman places shes never been before.


well hell do tell us more!

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RE: The Big O - 3/10/2008 2:32:22 PM   
CelticPrince


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I don't see a lack of concern for a partner's orgasms as being more prevalent than several years ago. If there appears to be that lack of concern, may i suggest that it's an online thing....big bad online Doms beating on their chests claiming that a Dom should have no concern for a sub's sexual gratification...or any other need for that matter.


pepper,

perhaps we travel in different circles, as I have come across the issue many times currently and that does incluse r/t as well as on line.

As far as age goes, it is a truism that the breath of possibilities go way down with ea passing year [silly fems, they know not what they miss] But in my world and those i associate with just accept it and actually get more selective as they keep a wary eye out against a future relationship failure.

CP

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RE: The Big O - 3/10/2008 2:34:31 PM   
CelticPrince


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I can reach it just fine on my own, but when we're together... it just doesn't happen.


bunny, That may relate to how long you have been with your Master, as those mental reserves tend to disappear with time.

CP

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RE: The Big O - 3/10/2008 2:36:42 PM   
CelticPrince


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I know with me if I happen to notice my sub board watching tv or something like that I get a hell of a kick walking up to her and saying spread your legs my little slut and cum for me know. It kind of breaks the monotony of a boring day. I sometimes think she would like it better if I didnt think of things like that .... Nothing like dinner and a good show I allways say.


FRS, well that is one outllook, and another might be a bit of smoothness.

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RE: The Big O - 3/11/2008 11:57:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

bunny, That may relate to how long you have been with your Master, as those mental reserves tend to disappear with time.

CP


Thanks, that could be it. At least we hope so. :P


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RE: The Big O - 3/11/2008 12:05:22 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		If it's a good relationship, I don't see this happening. Once there is resentment built up is when people stop caring about their partner's happiness.

For us, he's big into forced orgasms. But when I beg him to stop, he does. Simply because if he passes that point, then I simply am without any interest for several days. And since he enjoys having me aroused he isn't going to do that as then he would be disappointed. He isn't much interested in having sex with me, if I'm lying there wondering what color to paint the room.

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RE: The Big O - 3/12/2008 5:09:03 AM   
CelticPrince


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(Overstock.com, as well as Oprah, are considered "O").


girlie,

many thanks for mthe help, i watch not oprah nor shop overstock.

CP

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RE: The Big O - 3/12/2008 8:11:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

Over the last decade there appears to be a swing to a lack of mutual concern for both sides of the slash. I refer to the "D"'s concern as to whether their "s" has received any gratification sexually by their D/s interaction, wheather it is based on B/D or S/M

How does it go for you? er assuming that your Sir or Master does not read the boards.

CP
 It is important to him that I am sexually satisfied.In a way I wish it weren't because it is nearly impossible for me to orgasm due to the medication cocktail I am on. I want him happy, he is happy when I cum but I can't cum therefore I worry he isn't happy and so on. I don't exactly lie about it.. (okay I lie by omission) but I don't need to orgasm to have a wonderful time with him. But deep inside of me it is a huge problem. Maybe I should talk to him about it but I don't want to. I don't want to face how it makes me feel about myself.If it can't be changed then what is the point of going over it? It won't make me less angry or less sad about my physical response. Erm, lack of response. I think the only thing it would do is bring out how damned inadaquate I feel about it all and could quite possibly make him unhappy about not being able to make me happy.... and so on. However I do kinda wish I had 'someone' that I could talk to about it.

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RE: The Big O - 3/12/2008 8:46:16 AM   
CelticPrince


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in having sex with me, if I'm lying there wondering what color to paint the room.


Des

Rolls on the floor! thanks for the mirth.

CP

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