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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/19/2008 2:28:15 PM   
respectyourowner


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I do not think that this would be common. I would never ask for money. I believe if you own a slave you can pay all expenses and then some. I like to take care of them; not the other way around.

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/19/2008 2:37:26 PM   
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                                                   3.  A person considered as having compromised principles for
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WTF? I'm a whore and I didn't even get the money.... *grumbles about school and giving the teachers what they want*

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/19/2008 6:09:38 PM   
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I'm a male sub, 47, slightly overweight, balding....and I ask for....

2 weeks income (as a deposit), several provacative photos (for perusal, of course), a description of the womans titties, simple things...and naturally, due to the demand of my services...I explain quite clearly..."it could be months before I get back to you"....(or my Jergens runs out)....

It's only fair that I warn the potential candidate....it could be a while.

In the meantime...I do take stocks, bonds and other fiduciary compensation to keep my amour at bay.

< Message edited by Griswold -- 3/19/2008 6:10:02 PM >

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/19/2008 6:14:26 PM   
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I don't see where you should have to pay a Dom

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/19/2008 6:19:51 PM   
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Carnt be bothered to read all the claptrap thats gone before but any female sub/slave who feels the need to offer a tribute can contact me at the old folks home, midlands ,UK.

If I can find my slippers and my teeth she can expect a rollicking good time in return.

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/19/2008 7:41:01 PM   
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I don't see where you should have to pay a Dom

I don't see where you should have to give a dom blowjobs either, but no one ever really seems to mind that.

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/19/2008 7:41:48 PM   
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I mind..lol

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/19/2008 7:41:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: seeksfemslave

Carnt be bothered to read all the claptrap thats gone before but any female sub/slave who feels the need to offer a tribute can contact me at the old folks home, midlands ,UK.

If I can find my slippers and my teeth she can expect a rollicking good time in return.



Okay, do we get any hints on where you're hiding those teeth?

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/19/2008 7:42:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: respectyourowner
I do not think that this would be common. I would never ask for money. I believe if you own a slave you can pay all expenses and then some. I like to take care of them; not the other way around.

So you would never allow a slave to take care of you in any way?

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/19/2008 7:58:02 PM   
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I'm sure this happens but I wouldn't call it common. Call me old fasion if I go on a date with a male they are paying and I certainly would never pay a male for a session, why would I when I could get said session for free... from someone else

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/20/2008 5:43:47 AM   
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I've never heard of it happening but I know that Dommes often expect them.

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/20/2008 6:22:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: seeksfemslave
If I can find my slippers and my teeth she can expect a rollicking good time in return.



Whaddaya need teeth for? they just get in the way of tongue extension *grin*

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/20/2008 7:16:31 AM   
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I have no problem with the exchange of money for sex no matter who does it.

I my world however a man cannot own what he cannot pay for!

(Hopelessly outdated view of the world I know.)

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/20/2008 7:32:30 AM   
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i would like to thank all that have replied on this topic. i have learned a lot from reading the responses in regards to the idea of Financial slavery.

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RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tribu... - 3/20/2008 11:02:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterDane

I have no problem with the exchange of money for sex no matter who does it.

I my world however a man cannot own what he cannot pay for!

(Hopelessly outdated view of the world I know.)


That seems spot on to me.

Conversely if a woman wants a service I can provide, but I am not inclined to give free, then I've every right to ask a price for her to pay or not; whether it is for sex, a spanking, training her as a pony, taking her to the ballet (I hate ballet), fixing her computer, doing her accounts or building her a garage.

Exactly as if were or man, or TV, or TS or whatever, whether (s)he is a submissive, a slave, a Dom(me) or vanilla ....

If she is 'my' sub or slave, then I will pay for whatever I choose to give her. (Though that may depend the terms of our contract, written or otherwise.)

If she wants something from me that I don't want to, or can't afford, to give her for free, and she has her own income, etc. then I'd expect her to pay for it, just like anybody else.

I can imagine circumstances where that could involve a regular fee, tribute, or whatever, though due to market forces, as many imply, that is unlikely for sexual services. That is really the only reason men don't often charge women often. And why a Domme can - because there's a market for her.

Others can judge what would be immoral or not, by their own morality. But your morality will not be the same as my morality.

You can assert your morality is better than my morality and I'll laugh, cynically, as I find the more certain a body is that their code is 'the only twue way' the more likely they are to be a simple-minded, deluded bigot, who exploits, uses and abuses other people and then excuses themselves by reference to 'holy writ'.

There is no absolute code; I most certainly don't respect any religion's legal code, dogma or doctrine.

If you can point out a contradiction between my morality and the secular law, between what I do and what I say is my morality, or allege I am endangering a person's health, wealth or public reputation, I'll listen. Otherwise, frankly, it is none of your damn business!

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