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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 5:38:11 PM

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I would want to know.
I would expect my friend to tell me.

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 5:45:18 PM

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if my best friend had her hubby somewhere he shouldn't be i'd be the first to tell her because i love her and i think that's what friends are for, good or bad, difficult or easy. being friends doesn't always mean goodness and light, sometimes it means down and in the fucking muck of life.

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 5:53:26 PM

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I see all of the assumptions of PC busybodies in this thread.
for example HIV or some other disastrous consequence if I dont do what I want to do....interfere.
I would still bet that you have revealed the good news. if not you soon will.
Desist.

As opposed to the assumptions of the people who say to keep out: That she'll somehow decide that the person informing her of the dishonesty is the enemy.

Becki: I see this was your first post, in other words you lost your posting virginity with little me. he he he he

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 5:55:40 PM

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Just a thought from a loopholing lurker...

Why not tell her you found her husband's doppleganger online.. let her see the pic and let her decide.
It's possible isn't it.. it could be His doppleganger?

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 5:57:07 PM

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Just a thought from a loopholing lurker...

Why not tell her you found her husband's doppleganger online.. let her see the pic and let her decide.
It's possible isn't it.. it could be His doppleganger?

respectfully -mY

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 6:02:55 PM

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*wonders what the hell is a doppleganger and hates it when you guys use big words*

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 6:04:17 PM

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*wonders what the hell is a doppleganger and hates it when you guys use big words*

twin who is not.

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 6:05:03 PM

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 6:05:26 PM

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*wonders what the hell is a doppleganger and hates it when you guys use big words*

twin who is not.

ah...'splains everything.

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 6:07:06 PM

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oh...i get it.

Friday...long week...you know....

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 6:08:51 PM

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I thought it was like more of a bad twin. so not really you if you are a good person. and I've had a glass of wine so that's the best I can do.

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 6:09:22 PM

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If he has posted apicture of him self, I would send it to her in the mail with out a return address. she needs to know what is going on. i have founf out in the pass that most women do not know what their husbands are doing!!! If it was me i would tell her.

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 6:11:04 PM

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it's like an evil twin of sorts...

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 6:23:08 PM

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Fairerthanshe just hit a home run.Whacked that right out of the park.Beautiful answer

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 6:58:29 PM

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Hi, although i'm only new in here, thought i would offer up my 10cents worth...
i have been both the cheated and the other woman... TELL HER!!! Or at least lead her into a conversation about cheating partners and how she would feel, would she like to be told etc.

As the one being cheated on, i personally wish that the people in my life who knew had told me, and yes, i have been in the situation of having to tell my sister that her man was cheating. i was councilled by mutual friends to keep my mouth shut and say nothing, which i couldnt do to one whom i love so well...She suspected, but had no proof, and was GRATEFUL for my telling her.

Your friend may not be grateful, and may wish to bury her head in the sand, but one can never make fully informed decisions about ones lifes unless one has ALL the facts/available information!!

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 7:25:08 PM

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Fairerthanshe just hit a home run.Whacked that right out of the park.Beautiful answer

Actually it was off base. Now, I love fairer like a sister...Or maybe a "sistah"...But anywhoooo.

What fairer failed to realize is that the op is concerned about one of her "best friends"...While the Dom in fairers tale of woe was just simply putting his nose where it didn't belong. There is a huge difference between helping out a friend and simply putting the screws to some sub that probably fucked you over or declined your advances.

No one has the right to out you to an employer or your family...Now if you are out here trying to get some domme rubber dick and a very good friend of your wife sees you out here and she knows that your wife is unaware and not informed about your domme love...You better have a damn good excuse prepared. Amnesia is always a good fallback.

She's not doing it to fuck you over. She is doing it because she sincerely loves and cares for her best friend and feels that she is going to look out for her friend's best interests.

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/21/2008 10:54:02 PM

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Fairerthanshe just hit a home run.Whacked that right out of the park.Beautiful answer

Actually it was off base. Now, I love fairer like a sister...Or maybe a "sistah"...But anywhoooo.

What fairer failed to realize is that the op is concerned about one of her "best friends"...While the Dom in fairers tale of woe was just simply putting his nose where it didn't belong. There is a huge difference between helping out a friend and simply putting the screws to some sub that probably fucked you over or declined your advances.

No one has the right to out you to an employer or your family...Now if you are out here trying to get some domme rubber dick and a very good friend of your wife sees you out here and she knows that your wife is unaware and not informed about your domme love...You better have a damn good excuse prepared. Amnesia is always a good fallback.

She's not doing it to fuck you over. She is doing it because she sincerely loves and cares for her best friend and feels that she is going to look out for her friend's best interests.

Greetings DG,

Thanks for pointing that out to me - I hadn't realized we were talking about a bestest best friend here.

Reminds me of that Eddie Murphy bit "That's right I fucked her. and if you're gonna let a little fuck get in the way of our love, then there's something really wrong here baby..."

Thanks for the compliments, slvmike - much appreciated!

well wishes ~ fairer than she

P.S. DG, I saw you perved my profile - do I need to tell your SO that you was checkin' out my ass again???...and SJ and I will be in Chicago for ShibariCon - hope we get a chance to meet!

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/22/2008 12:05:39 AM

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Hey all,
I was here browsing around at profiles tonight and I came across a big surprise. One of best friends' husband has a profile on here obviously looking to cheat on her. I know she is totally not into this stuff, she thinks I'm nuts. I know she has never said anything to her husband about my lifestyle and she is pretty vanilla. They haven't even been married for a year yet. Do I say something to her? I'm almost tempted to contact him (not telling him who I am of course) and see just how far he would really go. Find out if he would really cheat on her or if he just has some closet fetish and needs a place to vent. I've met lots of married men on here before that are just looking for cyber but most of the time they're looking for r/t. Has this happened to any of you?

What do you say to her? Nothing.........however, mailing her a copy of his "resume" anonymously might be a good idea. That way she can't come back on you about being the whistleblower when/if they work out their problems.

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/22/2008 4:43:41 AM

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Hey OP, if you seen him, did he see you?

maybe he should see you.

drop him a message. ask him how big is his 'eGo" (cock) lol

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/22/2008 6:12:13 AM

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... I know she is totally not into this stuff, she thinks I'm nuts. I know she has never said anything to her husband about my lifestyle and she is pretty vanilla....

Might as well just show her the site and profile, if she knows you're in the lifestyle, chances are she'll figure it out anonymously sent or not. Tell her that you don't know why it's there, et cetera... I would however let her know that profiles can be faked, and that she may want to ask him about it before she starts throwing the dishes at him.

(and to whoever the heck said this is like telling someone's parents, i hope you don't treat your wife the way you treat your parents)
just my $.02
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