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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/24/2008 5:23:16 AM

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This is based on assumptions..........because the OP never returned lol. We have over 100 posts trying to help someone who has left us all hanging on her solitary post! However this is a situation that can arise for just about everyone here and I've found a lot of the responses interesting.Personally if it were me I would tell him that I was aware of his profile then let him either explain to me that he and his wife have an understanding (which I could then verify), or tell him that his wife will be finding out, and finding out rather soon so he had best come clean to her.

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/24/2008 5:25:02 AM

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*sigh*

i hate it when Greedy sighs

oh hell...wrong forum

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/24/2008 5:30:33 AM

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I don't view this as a relationship issue as much as a safety issue.
I know this sounds unrelated, but here is a scenerio: You borrow this womans car. There is a strange noise that you assume are the brakes. You do not know the brakes are bad. If the brakes are bad you do not know they are at the point of causing an accident. You do not know that she is not aware of the noise herself. You do not know that when she drives the car she will not be able to figure it out for herself.
Do you tell her?
Good heavens...of course you do!
She is a friend and you wish to see no harm come to her.

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/24/2008 5:31:41 AM

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camille, yeah, I understand that we have to go with what scant info the OP left..

I just find it interesting that so many people seem to jump right to the negative assumptions. Human nature I guess... but that's why I felt that Miss M's post needed repeating. Things are not ALWAYS what they appear on the surface - sometimes they are, granted, but without being in the shoes of either of the affected parties (in this case, the husband and wife, NOT the OP) why NOT give equal time to the possiblity that the majority of the assumptions here are inaccurate?

Just sayin'...

(and thats not meant as a dig at anyone, really.. just would like to see more people recognize that there are 4 sides to the story here: wifes, husbands, OPS, and the truth)

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/24/2008 5:31:54 AM

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it is like a car wreck. we say it is awefull- and we guawk.

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/24/2008 5:33:29 AM

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~fr~
I don't view this as a relationship issue as much as a safety issue.
I know this sounds unrelated, but here is a scenerio: You borrow this womans car. There is a strange noise that you assume are the brakes. You do not know the brakes are bad. If the brakes are bad you do not know they are at the point of causing an accident. You do not know that she is not aware of the noise herself. You do not know that when she drives the car she will not be able to figure it out for herself.
Do you tell her?
Good heavens...of course you do!
She is a friend and you wish to see no harm come to her.

yeah, holly.. but does the husband know you've borrowed her car??

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RE: Found a friends husband here... what do I do? - 3/24/2008 5:49:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

~fr~
I don't view this as a relationship issue as much as a safety issue.
I know this sounds unrelated, but here is a scenerio: You borrow this womans car. There is a strange noise that you assume are the brakes. You do not know the brakes are bad. If the brakes are bad you do not know they are at the point of causing an accident. You do not know that she is not aware of the noise herself. You do not know that when she drives the car she will not be able to figure it out for herself.
Do you tell her?
Good heavens...of course you do!
She is a friend and you wish to see no harm come to her.

yeah, holly.. but does the husband know you've borrowed her car??

*snicker*