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RE: Is any of this real? - 3/30/2008 9:41:21 AM

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When sex is mention from the beginning.. I remind them that nothing in life is free and they can kindly contact me through my professional services.

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RE: Is any of this real? - 3/30/2008 10:50:34 AM

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D/s has always been a very sexual thing for me, but i am a very sexual person..
There is little that i do in my life that i do not find "sexual" in some way or another. But that doesn't mean i don't live in the real world or that i'm not in touch with real life. My submission reaches far beyond the realms of the online world.. It also touches far beyond the odd "kinky" weekend with a Man who would proclaim Himself to be "Dominant".. i am lucky enough to be recognised as a slave by a Master within a relationship that is both 24/7 & TPE. Everyday i experience proof that D/s or even M/s in Our case can very happily coexist with real life.

But i guess my point here was going to be.. Each to their own..

What is wrong with the fact that there are people on this site and the many others that only seek D/s & BDSM partners as a means through which to find sexual gratification? Thats their choice..
If they're honest about it, and aren't advertising to be something they're not.. Whats the problem?
No matter how you look at it.. our lifestyle, our kinks, our fetishes all centre on one simple thing.. Pleasure.. Our sexuality.. The deeper darker sides of our personal desires and lust.. So good for them!
Lifestylers & players alike.. there's room for us all out here..

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RE: Is any of this real? - 3/30/2008 3:45:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: MidOhioDomme

I've spent a lot of years exploring the D/s world, learning what it's all about. But I've come to the conclusion that most in it are living out their fantasies and, as such, are disassociating from the reality of life.

Dudette...

Damn. Sounds like yet another twuth.

Why is it that fantasy and reality HAVE to be seperate. One of my fantasies as a yougun was that I would get laid. It happened. How does this equate in your vision of twuth?

Reality is never more than you make it. If I live mine in a sequin jacket and have people call me Elvis, I understand that don't make me The Elvis, but I get the pleasure of living how I like. Maybe I just wanted to tie someone up and pour milk all over them while wearing a corsette listening to polka dancing a jig. I could do this. This does not in ANY way seperate fantasy from reality. I hate it when people judge others.

MY reality is REAL. My FANTASY is part of my reality. My fantasy does not interfere with the bills that need paying, nor does it relieve me of responsibility for the actions that I do or do not make. So as far as your TWUTH... Bah Humbug.

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RE: Is any of this real? - 3/30/2008 6:25:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: MidOhioDomme

I've spent a lot of years exploring the D/s world, learning what it's all about. But I've come to the conclusion that most in it are living out their fantasies and, as such, are disassociating from the reality of life. Soooooooo many of the subs I meet are on this site as an outlet to their desire for sex sex sex and the kinkier the better. How very sad I find this as I believe the D/s lifestyle can be very real and can coexist with the reality of life. It would please me beyond anything to find a man who stands proud of himself in both his vanilla world and his D/s world.

While you are exploring, learning, and concluding, many are living the life you believe to be a fantasy for us. My life is real, I live it every day. Daddy and I are 24/7, and both of us are comfortable in our world. Our lives, vanilla or private, are real and fulfilling and the dynamic with each other never changes.

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