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domahpet -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 11:01:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hydranmenace I can see where this guy is coming from, to an extent. At least i could till i saw his second post. Ive had a profile on here for about two years, and ive had very little correspondence, which can be frustrating. I can see why, given the fact that ive only seen 10 active profiles for women id be interested in, in my state, it would be a significant amount of work to reply to every message they get. Im sure it can be overwhelming. On one occasion, i got a simple "thank you but im not interested" which i really appreciated. I think the frustration for me is that id like to improve myself, and my profile. At least if i knew why these various subs aren't interested, that would help me as a person. I realize though that expectation is unrealistic. It would be nice, but this isnt a perfect world. So this being, i think, my first forum post, what could someone new to CM, or someone not having much luck with it, do to improve his or her chances, without coming off as an asshole? excellently well said, it bears repeating. the op would do very well to take a lesson from you my friend[sm=applause.gif][sm=applause.gif][sm=applause.gif]

hydranmenace -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 11:14:11 AM)
I am not sure I want to involve myself in the original posters comments, but then on the other hand perhaps my newness to the forum will balance well with is own. So rather than quote anyone, or get in some kind of pointless virtual pissing contest, I will just say this. Since my original post, I have been over run, at least compared to what I had experienced for the last two years on the site, with messages. Not a single one of them was negative. Yes I have had some criticism, but it was all aimed at assisting me with either my profile, my methods of approaching people or pointing out things that I may have missed. All of it was constructive and helpful. Stop taking shit so personally. Relax and try to enjoy yourself. It may not be your intent to come off as some kind of "Master to whom all subs must bow, else hell shall be raised", but that is how you are sounding. No submissive, here or anywhere else besides your home or the home of someone who recognizes you as her master, owes you anything whatsoever. This includes replying to messages. It is not my desire to piss you, MasterDark, or anyone else off. If i have, sadly this is a an honest evaluation of what i have seen thus far and for that i cannot apologize. Look at the differences between our approaches on this forum. You are getting a significant amount of negative feedback, I am getting more positive responses than I know what to do with (Keep em coming though!). This in itself doesn't make me any better than you are as a person, but it must mean that my approach is better. As someone else said, you seem like an intelligent guy. Look at this as a chance to learn and improve who you are as a Dom and a person.

sirsholly -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 11:19:23 AM)
very well said!!!

CalifChick -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 11:56:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly I have never been good at judging distances...but i'd have to say...oh...at least 15 feet over his head? I have noooooooooo idea what y'all are going on about. Seriously. SugarSweetCali

domahpet -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 11:59:39 AM)
ya whatever Cali ;)

sirsholly -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:02:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterDark1987 quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: MasterDark1987 Y'all are mean, vicious women. MEAN I tell ya. Now I, sweet, innocent, even (dare I say it), angelic, would NEVER respond to someone this way. NEVER. Y'all should be ashamed. SweetSubblyCali - wow, finally someone I can take seriously cause they're not an asshole. thats one out of the entire site. I'm amazed to get even that. thankyou SweetSubblyCali for showing me that maybe there are some people here who aren't completly full of themselves. I have never been good at judging distances...but i'd have to say...oh...at least 15 feet over his head? holly bowing to Cali...the undisputed GODDESS of scarcasm Cali...you are quoted in the first paragraph

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:04:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly I have never been good at judging distances...but i'd have to say...oh...at least 15 feet over his head? I have noooooooooo idea what y'all are going on about. Seriously. SugarSweetCali Cali, You're hurting my teeth!

domahpet -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:06:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly thankyou SweetSubblyCali for showing me that maybe there are some people here who aren't completly full of themselves. amen to that!

sirsholly -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:08:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly I have never been good at judging distances...but i'd have to say...oh...at least 15 feet over his head? I have noooooooooo idea what y'all are going on about. Seriously. SugarSweetCali DAMNIT...i thought she was SERIOUS!!!

CalifChick -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:09:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly Cali...you are quoted in the first paragraph Pssstttt!!!!!!!!! I know. [;)] Check the revised sig line, sista! SweetSubbbbbbblyCali

sirsholly -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:10:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly Cali...you are quoted in the first paragraph Pssstttt!!!!!!!!! I know. [;)] SweetSubbbbbbblyCali bows in AWE

domahpet -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:12:44 PM)
MDs gonna spank us (again) all if he comes back[:o]

sirsholly -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:22:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domahpet MDs gonna spank us (again) all if he comes back[:o] Cali started it

sirsholly -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:24:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly Cali...you are quoted in the first paragraph Pssstttt!!!!!!!!! I know. [;)] Check the revised sig line, sista! SweetSubbbbbbblyCali WOOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

MasterDark1987 -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:27:45 PM)
Interesting, the general consensus on here is that being a master means never standing up for yourself. I don't need people to sypathize or emphasize with me and nor do I expect them too. I've been on plenty of other sites and met some very nice, warm, and open people. I've asked this same question and actually received positive feedback and not just pure critisism and stereotyping. WWhen people are mean to me, I'm an asshole right back. Why on earth should I run and cower under my bed like they obviously want me too so they can feel high and mighty about telling somebody off?? No, I haven't talked to ALL the subs/slaves on here, just the ones I thought shared the same interests. I'm open to feedback, but not when its rammed down my throat.

Hippiekinkster -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:33:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kdsub I believe the following comment to be true and not rude but just the way things are. In a lawful free society the person giving is truly in control…not the taker. This is often a shock to dominants…especially with naive inflated egos. Please… I am not say you have an inflated ego but changing your perspective from… “I’m dominate…I deserver your service and response” to “How can I convince this sub I am worthy of their service” will get you a much better response. Butch Absolutely. We're interdependent.

NorthernGent -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:34:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterDark1987 Why is it that so many slaves or subs on collar me who say they are "looking" never respond to messages people send them? Of course they're looking...............but not for you. Humble in victory; gracious in defeat.

Sundowner -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:38:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia quote: ORIGINAL: hsagnev CM isn't the place to find someone and you'll just waste your time looking for someone here - at best CM is entertainment I completely disagree. I know a few people who have met their "one" (sometimes two, greedy buggers!!) here on CM and they're are deliriously happy. CM is also a place where you will meet wonderful people who may only ever be your friend, but are just as valuable, beautiful and treasured. No where on the earth is there a place where everyone get's along, that is the nature of individuals. But if you make someone smile, or someone makes you smile, then it's a good place to be. Hugs ya MM (you always make me smile - in a nice way mind you).

KCherry -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:39:01 PM)
off topic alert Knocking us 20 years old again I see. :( Can't a girl get some love? lol :P j/k I look around at my peers and I get your point there. Now back to your regularly scheduled programming

sirsholly -> RE: Why?? (3/29/2008 12:39:15 PM)
Dark, You come off as if you are owed something by the subs/slaves you write to. You are not. The lack of response you recieve IS your response. You have been on this site 6 days and are endearing yourself to all by saying, in your vast experience here, you find ignorance. You are new, your age is against you (sorry..it's a fact), and you seem to feel a sense of entitlement because you call yourself a master. Please lighten the hell up

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