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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:07:39 PM

MasterDark1987

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ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven

Ok kids, enough.

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Oh, no. let them keep going. They won't tell me anything in a pm so let them show they're true colors on a forum. makes no difference to me.

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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:08:44 PM

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in the end regardless of the approach people still hated me.

Perhaps that's worth some exploration.

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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:11:16 PM

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Oh, no. let them keep going. They won't tell me anything in a pm so let them show they're true colors on a forum. makes no difference to me.

It makes a difference to me. For what it's worth, the warning wasn't just to them.

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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:18:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven

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Oh, no. let them keep going. They won't tell me anything in a pm so let them show they're true colors on a forum. makes no difference to me.

It makes a difference to me. For what it's worth, the warning wasn't just to them.

XI

I know, it looks bad to have a bunch of senior members bashing someone who just looked for some guidance but you can't sugarcoat things forever. If they aren't bashing me then I think its pretty safe to say they would be taking it out on another male dom under the age of 30. Just remember, I wasn't the one to throw the first punch. But I will assure you that I won't go down in one swing probably like all the other younger ones did.

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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:22:36 PM

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You're not getting it. The fight, and any swinging, is over.

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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:25:59 PM

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I'm curious, Dark. What sort of experience led up to your becoming a master? I see a lot of males call themselves such and so, but I never seem able to find out how they got their titles. I mean, it's not like the Army, where ya go to OCS and come out Lt. JG. It's not like the Brotherhood of Electrical Workers, where there's apprenticehood, journeyman (interesting word), master.

How did you get to be a "Master"?

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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:26:55 PM

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To be respected ..one must respect others ...... all of us were new once ... I think the issue is that some expect to be treated as an expert without giving people a chance to know anything about them.

Its hard for most of us to believe that anyone can be a expert at the lifestyle at 20 .........there may be exceptions but it is hard for us to just accept without question.....

Posting on the boards is a great way to get to know people and to let us get to know you but ... attacking and being thin skinned doesnt help .... sometimes our posts get us flamed ... my advice is to stand up for what you believe without attacking anyone. Personal attacks by ANYONE only shows immaturity ....

All of us can be " snippy " at times ... we are human ...... but we can also learn from others viewpoints .. and if we can post our opinions without the personal attacks and flames we all benefit .

As for not getting replies to your emails.... Take it as a not interested ... you are selling yourself ... so to capture someones attention ... sell yourself better ...

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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:28:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven

You're not getting it. The fight, and any swinging, is over.

XI

whatever you say buddy. my fights not with you. let them go harass the next dom, I think someone said they get a fresh one every week to try and tear up. good thing it didn't work on me.

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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:34:19 PM

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To be respected ..one must respect others ...... all of us were new once ... I think the issue is that some expect to be treated as an expert without giving people a chance to know anything about them.

Its hard for most of us to believe that anyone can be a expert at the lifestyle at 20 .........there may be exceptions but it is hard for us to just accept without question.....

Posting on the boards is a great way to get to know people and to let us get to know you but ... attacking and being thin skinned doesnt help .... sometimes our posts get us flamed ... my advice is to stand up for what you believe without attacking anyone. Personal attacks by ANYONE only shows immaturity ....

All of us can be " snippy " at times ... we are human ...... but we can also learn from others viewpoints .. and if we can post our opinions without the personal attacks and flames we all benefit .

As for not getting replies to your emails.... Take it as a not interested ... you are selling yourself ... so to capture someones attention ... sell yourself better ...

yeah well I only take crap from people I care about. people I don't care about get it pushed right back on them regardless of how it looks to others. As far as the people who don't beleive me then if life has taught me anyhing its that they'll never beleive me. A persons first impression is usually they're last.

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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:35:31 PM

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Why is it that so many slaves or subs on collar me who say they are "looking" never respond to messages people send them? It's extremely rude and quite frustrating, especiallyif you spend a lot of time typoing something and it just gets ignored. Only on collar me do I encounter this kind of ignorance and I'm just really curious as to why this is??

Because all submissives are evil,lazy, lying, rude, intentioanlly frustrating, enjoy wasting dominants time, and generally ignorant .. we decided this was going to be official union policy at the Twue Submissives Annual Conference back in January

didn't you get the memo?

shhhhhhh, soft, what happens in the meeting, stays in the meeting....

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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:39:22 PM

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Whoa, I went to comment and got in trouble, so here I go trying again. Dark, why don't you calm down, can you send me what your sending to most subs, I think it is in the way your wording it. I'd be happy to help you out-Jess

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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:40:21 PM

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CM isn't the place to find someone and you'll just waste your time looking for someone here - at best CM is entertainment

I completely disagree. I know a few people who have met their "one" (sometimes two, greedy buggers!!) here on CM and they're are deliriously happy.

CM is also a place where you will meet wonderful people who may only ever be your friend, but are just as valuable, beautiful and treasured.

No where on the earth is there a place where everyone get's along, that is the nature of individuals. But if you make someone smile, or someone makes you smile, then it's a good place to be.

Yeah, so true. Some of the "Welcome Wagon" folks are just fantastic. Especially with new posters who haven't quite figured out all the forums and are not overly concerned about their spelling, believing naively that the message is the important thing.

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Gawd, it's HARD having a convo about anything substantial around hear. So I'm throwing in the towel. From now on, I will only start threads like:

>If your nostrils were a tree, what color would they be?
>Submissives: real or quantum singularities?
>I made a post! Woo-hoooo!
>Favorite funeral eulogies
>The politics of car wax
>IV Ketamine, DMT, and LSD while scening?
>How to find the phone to call 911 after IV Ketamine, DMT, & LSD
CDs you like to play backwards for Satanic messages
Real Estate Porn
How do I get this eggplant out of my ass?

I know I missed a couple.

MissMagnolia:Yes, I'm far to stupid and shallow to talk about anything substantial around "hear". I stick to random stupidity, which is where this thread should be.

Take this in the nature of a good-hearted ribbing. BTW, it's "too". And did you ever get my coffee suggestion? It's easy to miss helpful posts sometimes, I know.

Can't speak for everyone else, Hippie, but i for one am looking forward to your threads on these subjects...thanks for the laugh.

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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:50:01 PM

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Try hard to stick to the subject matter of the thread "phoenix". I think it's fairly plain that mod eleven is trying to keep things on track and is fairly pissed already, don't you?

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RE: Why?? - 3/29/2008 11:54:41 PM

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Why don't we give Mister dark actual helpful advice, that may help everything, what do we look for when someone is approaching us, what messages do we respond to?...I for one look for proper word useage and will respond to messages that show they read my profile and noticed my intrests,life ect..

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RE: Why?? - 3/30/2008 12:00:56 AM

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Phoenix, those were just things I dreamed up one night when GT and I were horsing around. It was moved to Random Stupidity, where it belonged (as Magnolia noted)

But give me time...

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RE: Why?? - 3/30/2008 12:14:22 AM

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Why is it that so many slaves or subs on collar me who say they are "looking" never respond to messages people send them? It's extremely rude and quite frustrating, especiallyif you spend a lot of time typoing something and it just gets ignored. Only on collar me do I encounter this kind of ignorance and I'm just really curious as to why this is??

It's unfortunate, but you are asking a question that no one here can really answer. Only those who don't respond can say 'why' and they're not talking. I wouldn't be disheartened though. If you are selective in your mailings choosing only those young ladies who's own profiles indicate at least a moderate compatibility with yours, eventually you may strike gold. I would highly suggest that you network, attend your local groups and functions, get to some national events if you can, attend classes and think about the sort of slave you would like to own. Think about what sort of Master it would take to attract that sort of slave, then do an honest assessment on whether or not you are that person. If not, it's a chance to work on self to become that which you desire to be and if so, well.. all of us have other areas we can work on to make sure we're well-rounded individuals and that is regardless of our chronological age.

By the way, welcome to the forums.

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RE: Why?? - 3/30/2008 12:28:13 AM

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The only thing i can say about cm..is I made a couple of really good Dom Friends...but as far as finding a Dom/Master...the emotional ride is to much for me..they either want to break you down completely and rebuild you...or lie and bs you..and forget about builidng trust...and if you are a sub..you are considered weak because you are not a slave that gives up all her rights...where did the true meaning of the lifestyle go....

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RE: Why?? - 3/30/2008 7:37:37 AM

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Not all of us want to break someone and rebuild or want only slaves ... I regret that is what your experience has been

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RE: Why?? - 3/30/2008 12:16:33 PM

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Why don't we give Mister dark actual helpful advice, that may help everything, what do we look for when someone is approaching us, what messages do we respond to?...I for one look for proper word useage and will respond to messages that show they read my profile and noticed my intrests,life ect..

Thank you Luciferica for being a beacon of solution oriented compassion. An example we would all profit from would more follow it.

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RE: Why?? - 3/30/2008 12:29:14 PM

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I respect everyone and when they show their true collars then all respect is lost as it should be.I am a laid back male that takes some riling like my Grannie use to say..Then a deep breath and walk away from the dung pile thats trying ruining my day..Thats how it works for me...Your length of time in this lifestyle means jack shit if you haven';t learned to master your self first and remain stuck in that same old rut that you have created for your self.., be true oh damm theres that word again lol...

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