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MasterDark1987 -> Why?? (3/28/2008 7:50:53 PM)
Why is it that so many slaves or subs on collar me who say they are "looking" never respond to messages people send them? It's extremely rude and quite frustrating, especiallyif you spend a lot of time typoing something and it just gets ignored. Only on collar me do I encounter this kind of ignorance and I'm just really curious as to why this is??

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 7:55:04 PM)
A lack on answer is usually a "no". You'll just have to get used to it. No one is required to answer any correspondence...and if you had any idea how much mail some get, you'd understand why a lot simply CAN'T. There isn't enough time. Master Fire

JulieorSarah -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 7:58:59 PM)
i can't speak for others, however i'm constantlty approached by those outside the criteria, ie under 40 (and 30), who reside no where near me and then there's the rest. i used to respond to every contact. now i don't. Those that start with something like .... I don't fit what you are looking for, however i'm .... i'll always respond. and btw, there's quite a few masters who don't respond also.

domahpet -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 7:59:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterDark1987 Why is it that so many slaves or subs on collar me who say they are "looking" never respond to messages people send them? It's extremely rude and quite frustrating, especiallyif you spend a lot of time typoing something and it just gets ignored. Only on collar me do I encounter this kind of ignorance and I'm just really curious as to why this is?? after only six days you present us with this excellent intro of a first post. im confident youll make tons of friends here. [sm=ofcourse.gif]

JulieorSarah -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 8:08:08 PM)
S i x d a y s? i'd not noticed that ... yes i had a similar problem with a weight loss strategy, it didn't work either after six days

softness -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 8:08:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterDark1987 Why is it that so many slaves or subs on collar me who say they are "looking" never respond to messages people send them? It's extremely rude and quite frustrating, especiallyif you spend a lot of time typoing something and it just gets ignored. Only on collar me do I encounter this kind of ignorance and I'm just really curious as to why this is?? Because all submissives are evil,lazy, lying, rude, intentioanlly frustrating, enjoy wasting dominants time, and generally ignorant .. we decided this was going to be official union policy at the Twue Submissives Annual Conference back in January didn't you get the memo?

catize -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 8:09:22 PM)
Problem Solving 101: If what you do doesn’t get the results you want, try a different approach. If that doesn’t work, try another.

littlebitxxx -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 8:20:37 PM)
Coz it gives us something to do on a cold, wintery Friday night.

domahpet -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 8:24:07 PM)
he wasnt here in january, but that profile looks soooooooooooooo familiar. god i hope it comes to me soon!

softness -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 8:26:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domahpet he wasnt here in january, but that profile looks soooooooooooooo familiar. god i hope it comes to me soon! dont feel left out ... he hasn'tsent me one either

domahpet -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 8:27:49 PM)
oh no no no, i mean ive SEEN that very same worded profile before......

girlygurl -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 8:27:59 PM)
I've seen similar posts to yours OP. I have no idea what your emails entail, but I would suggest they be more than one liners... as I've heard that will get you nothing... well, it may get you a few harsh words from some (me included). I tried to view your profile and the only thing I saw was black..... an error on my end? or have you no time to share about yourself? If you're serious (as serious as a 20-year-old can be [8D]) you're going to have to be patient and put some effort into it. Complaining about not getting what you want after being on Collarme for a short time tells me you're not really serious or just being a brat cause you're not getting what you want, when you want it.... I'm just sayin. girly

MissMagnolia -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 8:30:02 PM)
Thank you OP, Master Dark, for allowing us lowly plebs and scum to call you Master Dark. We are flattered beyond words. To answer your question, perhaps because you refuse to give even your first name to anyone you "don't trust and that will take a while"? Are you famous? Related to royalty? Mafia? Fuck, get over yourself and stop pretending to be a secret agent. If I was a sub and got mail from you, your profile would be enough for me to delete and block you forever.

softness -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 8:30:54 PM)
loves it when there is someone younger than me on the boards ... yay for 20 year old knife play "experts"..

CalifChick -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 8:33:41 PM)
Y'all are mean, vicious women. MEAN I tell ya. Now I, sweet, innocent, even (dare I say it), angelic, would NEVER respond to someone this way. NEVER. Y'all should be ashamed. SweetSubblyCali

DomMeinCT -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 8:56:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterDark1987 Only on collar me do I encounter this kind of ignorance and I'm just really curious as to why this is?? Snarky answer: Probably because we're more ignorant here than those other more intelligent websites you're visiting. Aren't you glad it only took you 6 days to learn this? Educational answer: Did you really think you'd get bunch of warm answers to that post? One of the reasons you might not be getting responses is that you've only been here for a short time. Lots of folks register, send a heap of emails right off the bat, then wonder why no one answers. Stick around a while. Take part in the conversation on the forums, tone down the impatient, sweeping generalization and complaining, and be positive.

Hippiekinkster -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 8:58:59 PM)
Why is there air?

atursvcMaam -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 9:03:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick Y'all are mean, vicious women. MEAN I tell ya. Now I, sweet, innocent, even (dare I say it), angelic, would NEVER respond to someone this way. NEVER. Y'all should be ashamed. SweetSubblyCali Are you saying the OP did not see your response, or just has not had time to approach you yet? how could he have missed you?

CalifChick -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 9:12:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: atursvcMaam quote: ORIGINAL: SweetSubblyCali Are you saying the OP did not see your response, or just has not had time to approach you yet? how could he have missed you? I'm not sure how he could have missed me. Verily, it is a mystery to me. I think I'm on his schedule for day seven. Well, I hope I am. SweetestSubbliestCali

TreasureKY -> RE: Why?? (3/28/2008 9:19:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterDark1987 Why is it that so many slaves or subs on collar me who say they are "looking" never respond to messages people send them? It's extremely rude and quite frustrating, especiallyif you spend a lot of time typoing something and it just gets ignored. Only on collar me do I encounter this kind of ignorance and I'm just really curious as to why this is?? My now "canned" response... You'll have to forgive the responses that you get to this question... it gets asked at least once per week. However, for the sake of brevity, here is what you'll get in a nutshell... No response is a response. There is no obligation to respond to an unsolicited email... do you reply to the junk mail you get in your mailbox? Subs are overwhelmed with messages and responding to each one is a full-time job. Too many dominants take a response of any kind as an invitation to continue the conversation. They seem to think "no" really means "yes" and the sub just needs to be convinced. Too many dominants cannot handle rejection even if given politely. A gentle "no thank you" can solicit very rude comments in return. I'm sure I'm leaving out many other of the standard replies to this question, but I'm sure you get the idea. Good luck, here.

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