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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 6:40:06 PM

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yea, but he mostly laughs and smiles. yes, I get punished but I get that either way!

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 6:42:28 PM

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I'm a brat through and through spoiled as hell. Subs who submit all the time just sound boring I would be bored to death. I know my Daddy would be to..
Brats are just like little kids we like to play and push buttons test our limits and I'm sure some of us are just trying to get punished or seeking attention. My Dadday always plays with me but I can sometimes take it to far and when he asks me to do something I sometimes want to ask and what if I don't. And sometimes I do if I'm in a really bratty mood.

That would just annoy me more than anything. It wouldn't be fun for me at all. But, different strokes for different folks!

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 6:45:44 PM

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I don't want to be a brat...I would feel weird getting attention in that way. I rather hope the attention comes (~cough~) indedpendant of my initiation. I don't know...playful is fun, but "Brat" to me, connotes a purposeful , willful instigation without regard to his intention. But that's just one viewpoint.

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 6:55:28 PM

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"out of control attention whore"

Thats how I sould have phrased it at the start ........... perfect and thanks

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 7:29:46 PM

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The quote came from ProfJoe, but I'll be happy to take the credit.

If she is indeed an "out of control attention whore" I would probably walk. There's no fun in that.

Ummmm wait a minute "fun". Come to think of it, if she was the best fuck in North America, I might make allowances.

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 7:40:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: devil1963

"out of control attention whore"

Yessss.....????

*blinks*

huh.

I guess he wasn't calling me...

*shrugs*

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 8:00:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterWilliam55

The quote came from ProfJoe, but I'll be happy to take the credit.

If she is indeed an "out of control attention whore" I would probably walk. There's no fun in that.

Ummmm wait a minute "fun". Come to think of it, if she was the best fuck in North America, I might make allowances.

Well ya. I give the best blow jobs. Allowances are made for me and I get great gifts!

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 8:11:45 PM

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I set the Parameters and I set the Rules. Admittedly, I take into consideration someones personality etc, and within those limits there is a time and place for some teasing. The slave's job is to know when it is the right time to tease and when it is time to obey without arguement. For the chronic attention demanding brat, there is the door assuming she got that far. There is no place in mj life for attention getting brats.

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 8:19:05 PM

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well ok...I guess I can make an allowance for you.

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 8:20:57 PM

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Thy doth protest not so much

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 8:23:11 PM

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Saw it, wanted it, threw a fit, Got It!!

That pretty much defines it.

A friend told me I was being bratty yesterday. It still hurts, and not in that good, slutty way.

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 8:24:54 PM

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~Gives Cali a boob-rubbing hug~

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 8:29:08 PM

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Your right..I'm an easy trick.

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 8:35:53 PM

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_997593/mpage_1/key_brat/tm.htm#997865
brat?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_480396/mpage_4/key_brat/tm.htm#485762
What's your definition of "bratty submissive"?

http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=316437&mpage=1&key=brat&#316452
Not a slave...a bratty subbie

http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=256345&mpage=1&key=brat&#256683
The "B" word

http://www.collarchat.com/m_741744/mpage_1/key_brat/tm.htm#741775
what is a brat?

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 8:36:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: ProfJoe

I'm guessing the OP meant "brat" the same way I do ... an out of control attention whore more committed to acting out that to service.

I call fun by the word "play." As in "if it ain't fun, don't do it."

I learned to distinguish these from a SAM, an out-spoken point guard for her master who takes no shit, with his permission.

I get specific because i understand that the definitions are just the reverse in some parts of the US. My gurl is a SAM and we both like play.

I walk away from brats.

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That has to be about the single best way I have -ever- heard a SAM defined! Thank you.

I am not a brat, I do not manipulate Him. (He's too smart for that anyway, not to mention it's rude.) I stopped acting out for attention right about the same time I stopped flinging diaper contents.

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 8:37:31 PM

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well ok...I guess I can make an allowance for you.

he he he. They always do...

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/3/2008 8:54:17 PM

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Well, there ya go.

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/4/2008 2:29:07 AM

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How does one deal with a “brat” ? They seem to have no idea of where there head is.
To me it feels like nothing more than attn grabbing ……….. any ideas?

Are you saying that because *you* can't deal with a "brat", then the problem must be with the brat because they apparently have no idea where their collective heads are?

Brattiness certainly does amount to attention seeking! It also amounts to disrespect if it's ongoing, but here's a thought....

D/s is a control based dynamic which works best when the Dom/me is in charge. I for one do NOT subscribe to passive dominance. I believe that if someone is to call themself "Dominant" (the one who is meant to be in charge) then they should proactively take charge rather than just leave everything to the submissive to behave and obey blah blah....

It's all very well to lazily accept a submissive's service but they have needs, too, such as a desire to be *dominated* in return - and a D/s dynamic is born. And when they don't get that, it leads to doubt and disrespect - and a brat is born, instead.

Now (Box 1), you can always stamp your feet in frustration (your thread title comes to mind here) or,

(Box 2) you can follow RavenMuse's advice and "dismiss" this brat and thus find one who apparently appreciates what amounts to his version of passive dominance or,

(Box 3) you can live up to the "Male Dominant" tag you've chosen for yourself and damn well take charge of this alleged "brat".

Box 1 gets you nowhere other than looking like a goose, Box 2 gets you alone, probably in perpetuity and Box 3 gets your Dominant credentials to ANTE UP!

A hint: Try Box 3 and see how long the brattiness lasts.... BATTER UP!!!

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/4/2008 2:45:08 AM

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Ah yet again focus you have your head where the sun don't shine - heh feels good being back to not being on the same side of a thread as you, more natural this way isn't it

If you want to waste your time in a pointless pissing contest with someone simply incapable of submitting, go fill yer boots, you are most welcome to all the brats you can handle. Petty game playing, attention seeking bullshit maybe found 'fun' by you? I enjoy a spirited girl, banter, fun.... but won't tollerate disrespectful behaviour, attempts to manipulate or top from the bottom, playing the 'punishment game'. Attempts to brat get closed down..... continual attempts to brat will get the girl kicked out out the door.

you seem to portray it as undominant that someone isn't willing to tollerate such crap... I consider it undominant to do so. So long as your way works for you, good luck with that.

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RE: Brats…brats…brats - 4/4/2008 3:16:58 AM

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I dealt with it by establishing rules of conduct and standing by them. There were certain behaviors I had no patience for, and I was far more creative in my punishments than spankings. When my sub at the time came to the realization that I wasn't going to budge from the rules I'd established, we sat down and had a talk about what she'd expected me to be as compared to what I actually was. Bottom line, she was looking for a vanilla relationship with kinky toys. I wasn't that man. It ended up that we went our seperate ways, but far better that than to be in a relationship that was not satisfying to me.

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