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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 2:06:57 AM

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No, that went over like a Led Zeppelin.

HEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No dissin' LZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 2:13:34 AM

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No, that went over like a Led Zeppelin.

HEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No dissin' LZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wench! Yer back! Give us a travelogue, bay beeeeee.

(yanno, I practice my drums to LZ, Cream, Jimi (specially Manic Depressions), Jeff Airplane, Dead, Steely Dan {some killer drum parts they have} and the like. Fast. Hot. Hard.)

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 2:27:10 AM

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Bonham was a GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (check the positive experience thread..)

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 4:42:35 AM

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And what do you know about the so-called "Old Guard" You were still in diapers.

Since you're not nearly old enough to have gone through WWII, so are you.

And yeah, my knowledge of glory holes is that in NYC, they were heavily linked to gays in the preStonewall era, where cops still went about bashing gays and filling quotas for arrests that way.

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 5:10:29 AM

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And what do you know about the so-called "Old Guard" You were still in diapers.

Since you're not nearly old enough to have gone through WWII, so are you.

And yeah, my knowledge of glory holes is that in NYC, they were heavily linked to gays in the preStonewall era, where cops still went about bashing gays and filling quotas for arrests that way.

So am I what? What are you trying to say? I have a reasonable command of English, and I cannot figure out that you are mumbling about.

Dunno if you have noticed, but I never claimed to have any knowledge of some group of people wandering around after WWII calling themselves "The Old Guard". If you have direct knowledge, I'm sure there are many people who would like to talk to you.

What I DO know is what I saw when I went to bathhouses and bookstores and leather bars and discos in the 70s.

I don't give a fuck what you have read somewhere on some website. I did what I did, I saw what I saw, and that's all there is to it. It's hardly likely you were in any of the bathhouses back then.

Keep holding yourself out as some sort of authority, though. I'm sure you'll get someone to believe you.

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 5:14:04 AM

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My my my aren't we a judgmental crowd?

.... Maybe its the "glory hole = mostly gay practice = I don't want that in my safe, hetero D/s world!"

... All of you immediately assumed unprotected sex.

      Haven't noticed that my d/s world is particularly hetero-but you hit the nail on the head when we all assumed it wasn't safe, protected sex he was suggesting. A few people did make slightly phobic comments, but I don't think that was the reason no one else shouted, "Hooray, glory holes!"

      Perhaps because the OP's post sounded merely like a wanking fantasy, we assumed that he wasn't intending to be safe about acting out what he imagined...

       I guess as far as YKINMY goes, most of the people on the board draw the line at what could potentially be a uncontrolled, dangerous situation. We assume the OP is ignorant or underestimating the risks instead of simply ignoring them because it's hard to believe someone could willingly put their sub in that much danger from potential STDs and such.

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 5:27:27 AM

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Mmmmm seeing that Im old enought to know. I never used glory holes but I was with friends that did. There was no aids then. It was a cheap way for guys to get off. Now days I would'nt recommend it.

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 5:30:58 AM

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just a little side note:

glory holes = lifetime ban from giving blood. ever.

my ex husband used to frequent the news/bookstores in houston in the 80's. because i had unprotected sex with him (and thank the gods caught nothing) i am now banned for life from giving blood. puts *me* in "high risk behavior" category.

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 6:52:02 AM

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And what do you know about the so-called "Old Guard" You were still in diapers.

Since you're not nearly old enough to have gone through WWII, so are you.

And yeah, my knowledge of glory holes is that in NYC, they were heavily linked to gays in the preStonewall era, where cops still went about bashing gays and filling quotas for arrests that way.

So am I what? What are you trying to say? I have a reasonable command of English, and I cannot figure out that you are mumbling about.

Dunno if you have noticed, but I never claimed to have any knowledge of some group of people wandering around after WWII calling themselves "The Old Guard". If you have direct knowledge, I'm sure there are many people who would like to talk to you.

What I DO know is what I saw when I went to bathhouses and bookstores and leather bars and discos in the 70s.

I don't give a fuck what you have read somewhere on some website. I did what I did, I saw what I saw, and that's all there is to it. It's hardly likely you were in any of the bathhouses back then.

Keep holding yourself out as some sort of authority, though. I'm sure you'll get someone to believe you.

Read? No. Lived? Yes.

Since you were in diapers when the gay leathermen came out of WWII and became the Old Guard, you have no more direct knowledge of them than I do.

And no, I didn't hang out in gay bath houses in the late 60's and 70's, but in gay bars and dance clubs with all my friends from Fire Island Pines, many of whom were the original leathermen as well as bridge partners of my mother and who spoke freely about their lives.

I grew up in a gay community before Stonewall. I was welcome in my teens at wild parties and told when the punch was spiked with acid to go home. Part of my various 'uncles' attempts to protect me was not to hide any of the exigencies of their lives because knowledge is power. I was given explicit details.

Most of them are dead now and I mourn for them. And I'm still going out to the Pines every summer, which is where the FIP in my name comes from.

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 7:00:10 AM

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ooh it does sound dangerous, My MASTER has complete control of me and i trust him completely if HE were to do something like this to me, i think he would plan it with several men HE already knows..or a bdsm party where other DOMS are respectful to HIM and themselves and wear protection before they abuse me sexually,
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Here's one scenario from the Boston area where just such a scene worked out. http://www.lovingdominant.org/Gangbang.html

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 7:23:42 AM

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Um yeah, what he said...thanks Leatherist.

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We have also thought about her just giving guys hand jobs......... she has agreed to get atleast 5 guys off. she will have clothes pins on her lips, and they will be removed after each guy has finished.

Is this your way of being "the catcher" vicariously?

Why not just take it up the ass yourself?

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 7:34:53 AM

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I am taking my slut to her first glory hole this week. Does anyone have any suggestions for training and making her comfortable? Any tips or ideas?

Most likely this is wanker fantasy and you were hoping for more fodder. But, providing the benefit of the doubt - Enjoy! The mistake you made was assuming that you'd be drawing from first "hand" (get it?) experience here. Suggestion one - bring a cushion for her knees. Better yet, pick up those knee guards at Home Depot. Having her wear them going into an Adult Book store wearing them will let everyone know there will be a party going on tonight!

Using "friends" is no assurance of safety. It does however give you more control. These things have a tendency to take off like secret teenager parties when the parents are away. Guys leaving call their friends while waiting in line for seconds. Ideally you'd have some kind of screening practice; however the test is only valid if after getting a clean text you keep the participants in isolation for 30 days - not practical. However, AIDS is the least likely result. The virus hasn't mutated enough to be viable outside the host for a long period of time. Hep C and other less renowned diseases who don't have benefit concerts given for them by Elton John are more likely.

Since you slut is interested in the product of her effort, perhaps the idea of a collecting the sperm in condoms (hey - good use for the clips, huh?!) and then pouring them over her body at the end of the session would suffice. It would reduce the chance, (NOT eliminate it) of contracting any decease.

You many want to look into some swingers groups in your area. There are quite a few that actually organize 'glory hole' parties. It may take some time for you and your slut to be accepted into the group, but it would give you a more controlled environment. I've know some who 'rent' out an adult book store just to have the experience. At a club we frequent in LA there is a 'glory hole' area. There was also a fantasy room set up at one of the LA swingers clubs for this, but unfortunately its been closed down.

It's not the safest fetish to practice, but no one gets off the planet alive anyway. You may as well go out having fun!

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 8:55:56 AM

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Here's one scenario from the Boston area where just such a scene worked out. http://www.lovingdominant.org/Gangbang.html

Nice

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 9:38:15 AM

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It was a hard piece to write since no one point of view seemed to do it justice. Finally I settled on the multiple approach. I hope that wasn't too confusing. Of course, reality is a bit messier than a nice fiction story, but I didn't have to change too much this time

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 9:47:19 AM

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just a little side note:

glory holes = lifetime ban from giving blood. ever.

my ex husband used to frequent the news/bookstores in houston in the 80's. because i had unprotected sex with him (and thank the gods caught nothing) i am now banned for life from giving blood. puts *me* in "high risk behavior" category.

kitten

That can be seen as a feature rather than a bug. If you go in for an operation make sure the surgeon knows this. That way he won't be holding a scalpel and getting dollar signs in his eyes. It will make you more of a patient to him and less of a walking organ bank.

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 10:12:02 AM

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Thank you, John. That was hot.

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 10:15:46 AM

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In my opinion a real glory hole fantasy is better kept a fantasy. If you can find away to organize it in a safer way without all sorts of strangers would be safer but not entirely safe.

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 10:17:11 AM

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"The whole glory hole thing" was probably invented many times in many places around the world. Ways to touch others through holes or gaps in stall walls in bathrooms and in movie booths in porn shops have been around for a very long time, as have ways to signal others that you may share an interest.
The term glory hole became widely used as the quarter booths in porn shops spread around the country in the 60's and '70's. Often there would be graffitti on the screen telling which booth number to go to if you might be interested in giving or receiving hand or oral contact. A few places had holes big enough for intercourse. Those involved were usually males, though in some areas hookers would recruit customers this way too, and lead them off to a nearby sleazy hotel with rooms by the hour. Usually the men were people who would not admit to any gay leanings, but who wanted a free warm intimate touch. Lots of times male subs seeking humiliation who had no partners interested in domming them would go to such a place as much for the humiliation as much or more than for the sexuality. Often the porn shops would be busted by the police and forced to spend time and money blocking the glory holes, which varied from banana size to over a foot square.
Once HIV came to be known and believed, many such places disappeared or cleaned up their acts. "In the day" these movie booths were nasty places with often poor quality soundless 8 MM films, and one's shoes would stick to the half dried semen splattered all over the floors. If one's inclination was towards kneeling to serve, the kneees would stick to the floors.

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 10:24:30 AM

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It was a hard piece to write since no one point of view seemed to do it justice. Finally I settled on the multiple approach. I hope that wasn't too confusing. Of course, reality is a bit messier than a nice fiction story, but I didn't have to change too much this time

As a sidenote and slight thread jack, your book "Loving Dominant" has helped me tremendously, and I'm glad to see that you are part of the CM community. I know that I can learn alot from you. Enough brown nosing.

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RE: Glory Hole - 4/8/2008 10:41:24 AM

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As a sidenote and slight thread jack, your book "Loving Dominant" has helped me tremendously, and I'm glad to see that you are part of the CM community. I know that I can learn alot from you. Enough brown nosing.

[grin] There's never enough... but that was satisfactory

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